Male Orgasm without ejeculation

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Doesn't look like anyone read the book or did the homework, huh teach?   Tell you what, there's a movie I like called 'Last Tango in Paris' and a part in it that might just help us both figure this out.   It takes two to do it right, want to dance?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I have the ability to do it and always have. I learnt to do it when i was in my early teens because i didnt want to make a mess on my bed for my parents to see and did everything possible to hold it in! I have never really talked about it to anyone else cause i thought they might think im full of it. But here we are and someone has brought it up, thats wicked!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Ive only ran dry a few times.Having said that Im on a bit of a sexual drought at this present time in time.Shat happens.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  just cant see how it is possible. i have tried many times to hold it back, then.....KABOOM!!!! sounds interesting though. what is the technique?

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  Paradisepair

  13 years ago

  I can testify that it is very simple. There's a spot on the perineum that a man presses in when it's time.

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  teeznpleezn

  13 years ago

  Interesting topic - I wanted to share an experience I had a few months ago when after after a very hot n horny session with some playfriends I went to the bathroom and as I began urinating I started cuming all over again! It was one of the longest and most unique orgasm I've had in my life and I have no idea how it came about. I had been drinking so it was also an extra long piss which in turn made it the extra long orgasm. I've so been wanting it to happen again but alas unfortunately no.I'd be interested to hear if this has happened to anyone else and if there were able to do it again - it was awesome I want it back!!! lol

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  The techniques i'm speaking about do not hinder orgasm at all, the gentleman concerned has a full orgasm with no ejeculation.   Ultimately it can be done purely with mind and breath control, although many need to start with other methods.   The obvious benefits are that a man can be multiorgasmic with no recovery time.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'RightCompany' Doesn't look like anyone read the book or did the homework, huh teach?   Tell you what, there's a movie I like called 'Last Tango in Paris' and a part in it that might just help us both figure this out.   It takes two to do it right, want to dance? So If your homework has been completed I'm ready to assess your progress ;-)

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  wannabyummymummy

  13 years ago

  My hubby does it all the time!! (lucky me) for him it was by accident really, neither of us had heard about it before but one night we were having a rather prolonged session and after he came ( with you usual ejaculation) I just kept on riding him and he came a couple more times but nothing came out. He said it was a strange feeling at first but then it was awesome. Usually after he came he found his cock was super sensitive and he could keep going but over time we have worked out how to over come that and it leads to regular sessions of multi orgasms for both of us, only wish I knew how to teach it to EVERY man alive ;-)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Quoting 'karynb'So If your homework has been completed I'm ready to assess your progress ;-) I'll slip it to you after class, teach. Hope you get a passing mark as I progress on your assessments.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Orgasm without ejeculating is not something I havnt heard of before, but being a mere male I guess I always thought...'what was the point'. When I was married the point of sex was to cum roll over and fall asleep. But as my circumstances have changed and my desire to explore has increased. I have experienced new and better things, and now you have brought up this topic....well the eyes have lit up with the possibilites. So who is going to spill the beans on this 'special' technique, is there something I can start to practice now, and do I need someone to help me? ;)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Yes I have done the magic spot,, but I find that , well for myself any way , If i get a few "out of the system" I get just as hard , If not more and get a better orgasim , because I then can feel my whole cock pulse and throb, each time i cum, Then all i need is just a little more stimulation to get back to full erection size , and start again, NOTING better when I find a girl that can make this happen for me:)..   ANY TAKERS,?? Its been a while

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  While no cum actully ejaculats

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  While no cum actully ejaculats

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Good question Karynb I do believe I am the gentleman in question. Strangely enough, the very weekend I learnt that I could do this, and how, my lady at the time and I visited a shop (afterwards tho) and saw the book you mentioned. Didn't buy it, as I felt I didn't need to lol. For those who wish to learn, there are a few techniques to this. The main one you will find, is about learning muscle control, specifically, control of you pee. It involves practising stopping the flow, in the middle of it, similar to ladies doing their pelvic floor exercises. The theory being that with practice, you can then use those muscles to physically stop the semen from shooting out during your orgasm. This however is not how I manage to do what I do. Tried it, and while I did not actually shoot a load, I did loose erection shortly thereafter.My technique, came about by a chance comment from a friend of mine, years earlier, who replied to a comment from a lady about males wanking. His comment was, "I don't know why more guys don't practise this, as it aids in staying power", or words to that effect. Some time later, whilst in the midst of an extended drought, I was partaking in cyber sex, typing to ladies what I wanted to do to them (short paragraphs at a time), then stroking away, while they read, typed a reply, and I read said reply. Then I stopped stroking and typed a reply back. Usually, this on and off again stroking led to cyber sessions lasting over an hour before either of us achieved an orgasm. None of this was a deliberate attempt to achieve said non-ejaculating orgasm.When the drought finally ended (with one of the said cyber lady's, I might add), we had a wonderful 4 hour session of real sex, where she had 4 orgasms herself, with myself not having one at all (so I thought at the time, as I did not ejaculate). She commented later that she thought I had cum, at the end of said session. I thought to myself, well, managed to fake that one didn't I? It wasn't until some time later, when reflecting on the events of that day, that I realised exactly what had happened.In a nutshell, the technique boils down to a couple of relatively, simple things. (1) Learning that point of no return, where, if one goes past it, one WILL cum. This is where the wanking practise coems into its' own.(2) Repeatedly going up to that point and then stopping all action, be it stroking self, or stroking back n forth, inside her.(3) Doing No. 2 above, at least 3-4 times.(4) Lastly, carrying on past that point of no return.End result of the above, for me anyways, resulted in an orgasm of the like I didn't know existed. No ejaculation, but an orgasm nonetheless, and every part of my body, fingers, toes, the whole of my body in fact, felt that orgasm, except the Prostate, which is where the semen comes from. And boy oh boy, what an orgasm it was. Similar to how a lady experiences a different orgasm if its a clitoral one, to an internal one from a thrusting cock or a manipulated G Spot.Putting the above specifically into practise one day, resulted in the lady at the time, having 12 orgasm (she gave up counting at 12, lol, and definitely had more, while I myself had 7 non-ejaculating orgasms followed by one normal ejaculating one at the end. That normal one, took a LOT or work, let me tell you.Guys, even if your goal is not to achieve this non-ejaculating orgasm, practising going to that point of no return is very worthwhile, as it does greatly increase your staying power, especially if you are a 3 minute man.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  a few times, with the right company.....And true no ejaculating orgasm is not about control and muscle developing....... In my experience and readings, it is not about forcing the moment......It is a technic all together different....As mention above is about going close to the point of no return and being very aware or where that is. Breathing and timing is essential......having a partner that can read you and "helps" by slowing down in the appropriate moments does make a big difference.The orgasms themselves are as strong or stronger than an ejaculating one.....they usually last longer.....you are ready to keep playing immediately....And if you don't ejaculate at all in that night.....our inner-power start increasing.It is a common practice in Tantra but it takes dedication and practice to master.Most experienced Tantra practitioners, will have sex on daily (often multiple times) basis, but only ejaculate (by choice) once a month or so.The rest of the time the whole attention is to re-absorb the energy generated during sex and use it for personal growth.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  * Both men and women both can orgasm and ejaculate; both can occur separately or simultaneously.   * Men have been programmed to do both simultaneously but can learn to allow them to occur individually.   * Women can also do both either simultaneously or separately but just like men, it takes a little practice.   * So then 'Any Man Can' and 'Any Woman Can' too and best if shared with the right company.   That's it teach, I heading for the playground so meet under the bleachers for the practice and practicum one on one session of this very interesting subject. I've got something to show you.   *hits the door full speed just as the bell rings*   See ya!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Karyn, I have not been on the forums for a long time and pleased to see a topic that is actually interesting to read and participate in. As for having an orgasm without cumming; I read a book I picked up in a NY book store that explains this phenomen quite well. In a nutshell, and after some intense practise, I frequently use this method during sex. The biggest issue is though, women unfamiliar with the practise become confused and unsettled at first as they think it's just an excuse like a females fake orgasm technique to end bad, boring or not quite what you were hoping for sex. After some explanation and another 15-20 mins and multiple fun times for both, the lovely lady comes around to the idea, however the site of that finish cum is what actually gets them off the most. So guys practise and enjoy; and ladies, don't stress, it's easy to tell if we aren't that interested, our cock wouldn't be rock hard to start with :)

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  13 years ago

  hopefully this post wont disappear into the ether.........Apparently there are 2 kinds of this phenomenon,1. the man has taken the time to perfect the art of offlexing his pubococcygeal muscle during sex, kinda like kegals, the man can work this muscle out by stopping his flow of urine with repeated tightening and releasing .2. Retrograde ejaculation, where the fluid flows back to the bladder. Can be quite common and no workouts required. Sometimes this can be an indicator of medical problems associated with diabetes and blood pressure so if you havent been doing your practice fellas you may want to go and have a check up.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  this retrograde ejacualtion is what happens when you push that spot on the perineum that some people have mentioned here Quoting 'ruby_blossum' hopefully this post wont disappear into the ether.........Apparently there are 2 kinds of this phenomenon,1. the man has taken the time to perfect the art of offlexing his pubococcygeal muscle during sex, kinda like kegals, the man can work this muscle out by stopping his flow of urine with repeated tightening and releasing .2. Retrograde ejaculation, where the fluid flows back to the bladder. Can be quite common and no workouts required. Sometimes this can be an indicator of medical problems associated with diabetes and blood pressure so if you havent been doing your practice fellas you may want to go and have a check up.

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