RHP

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April 16 2010

What is the general consensus on single mothers? Is being a mother a turn off? Do they think and play differently now that they have kids of their own?I, for one, have never had any problem with the thought of any of my partners being parents - but I know that such thoughts do exist. What is your opinion?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Here we go again..My My....something something...I forget the rest... Im a GILF apparantely...so I can't comment..... Oh...except...what about single fathers...or blokes who share custody? C'mon you sexy lil imp...EEO demands fair air time!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Fair air time granted; What about single fathers? Does being a Dad alter the libido?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well... I'm a parent. Being a parent is very demanding. YOu can't just drop everything to run off for a shag... there are school lunches to pack and homework to be done.. and .. dinners to be made.. and stories to be read.. and hands to be held. When we had out first baby I started counted the days until he was old enough to leave home. About your age mate... and at last... I have regained some of my freedom... although I notice that my car is often missing and my beer fridge is always empty. I dream of a fridge full of beer and the high life with an empty nested woman... unfortunately though.. seems that once a parent... always a parent... Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Stalky, so profound, I do believe that came from the heart (or was it the beer fridge lol).Being a single father myself, I actually prefer to date women who have kids. They understand that the kids do have a higher priority then anyone else and you can't always just drop everything and race out to meet someone.Unfortunately I have meet a couple of women in their mid 40's who never had kids and both got very resentful that I spent time with my daughter and not them. Suffice to say they were quickly shown the door.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ... Dad ILF Lol, our kids have supposedly left home... every now and then... but as stalky says, "once a parent... always a parent...". In our case, we've added grandparents to our job description... and soon we'll also have the working title of in-laws... Whew! I'm tuckered out... looks like Mr P's gonna be missing out tonight...Hugs... Mrs P'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    shit Stalk you must have started young

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    its kind off turn off for me unless shes something special because i don't want instant family i would want start a my own but if u mean if i find it sexy for one night thing well im 23yrs old i'd do anything with pulse almost.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well....everyone is entitled to their opinion.. So mine is..lucky locky! You suck! I dated a guy for over 6 months just a yr older than you.. wonderful man..Who was wonderful with my son...My son still speaks of him..with smiles. He also wanted to start his own family just like you..I respect that! We were 2 people who clicked and were having a great time together. He was never rude or selfish..cooked dinners for us..Taught my son so many cool boys stuff too! I ended it...Cause it was the right time..We were in peak happiness..I told him it is time to end..Great to finish on a high! Not a low. Give respect get respect. Wish you luck..hun sweetpetite41

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    If you are a MILF you usually have a pretty good inkling you still have the goods to turn a guy on. And believe me.. they still like a good loving just as much as any other red blooded female. But they still retain the right to be choosey while ever there are kids involved....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm sure some married Mums can be MILF's too - especially to the men they're married to! Anyways, I've been a supporting parent for many many years some of them in and some out of a relationship, and I can't say that I've noticed parenthood has had any bearing on my attractiveness to the opposite sex. Ditto for me and guys - kids or no, chemistry is chemistry desire is desire sexiness is sexiness x x Shiny

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    sweetpetite... i get you 100%.... i have kiddies of my own, and still a partner, so lucky there, However i think its a tad wrong of you to ok not saying judge... but ...hmmmm trying to think of another word,,, help me out... ok well... luckylocky... IS ONLY 23.... he has the right to think that way.... i was 19 when i had my first child and already i thought.. OMG i dont want kiddies to 30 diff dads... he said he didnt want an instant family! he was willing to F*** mums.. just not willing to relationships.... i understand perfectly hun!.... YOU worded it all perfectly in my books... i dont really want to 'date' single dads... then again... i dont want to date anyone.... (hence my prof) i want couples... or singals not looking for relationships... anyways... wow.. i just added way to much... luckylocky.... point is im siding with YOU!! ,,,, i would prefer dads.. or parents... im not saying i want a family. (as i already have one) but just i would prefer guys.. who understands a womans body (after) she has hd kiddies.. thanx for ur comment!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'luckylocky' its kind off turn off for me unless shes something special because i don't want instant family i would want start a my own but if u mean if i find it sexy for one night thing well im 23yrs old i'd do anything with pulse almost.On ya lucky locky....gotta love ur honesty.....and wit....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    And I can show you :) X

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Two rows of dark peppermint chocolate....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i prefer dads...some of the fella's that dont have kids,dont get it.... they expect you to drop everything to fcuk...well when you have kids at home you just cant...people need to realise that roxxy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Glad to hear you like dads Roxy. I also find it frustrating having kids around and trying to enjoy life as an RHPer. I am usually only have people give me last minute notice to play, and that dosen't work unless there is a live in baby sister on tap or it just happens to be my fortnightly weekend free.I think we need a group that is called MILFs for DILFs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'geturroxyoff' i prefer dads...some of the fella's that dont have kids,dont get it.... they expect you to drop everything to fcuk...well when you have kids at home you just cant...people need to realise that roxxy xxx anyone my age already has kids or have a problem that needsunderstanding. either way, i love my baby and woe be tide anyonewho try's to fuck it up..........ahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahashaDads day Earl.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Man! This dating/rooting/meeting scene is difficult! Not only does one need to source a suitable candidate...which can take what seems like forever...then it's a matter of synchronizing schedules before locating an enviroment flexible enough to cater to 'come what may'. In my experience, if it's sex you're after, sex with singles (no kids) is easier. However if you want something a litte more meaningful....be prepared for a long and arduous journey.....and above all...be patient...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'd like to think i could be considered a DILF. Young son. Manipulative ex-wife. Hard mix to handle successfully, but im doing the best i can. At my age, the great proportion of women i meet are already Milfs so i dont see it as a barrier. I enjoy their company. Most are quite resilient and have enough life experience to know if im genuine or not. The conversation is different to when i was younger and i certainly appreciate that. The hard part is actually meeting the kids (although that naturally takes time) because that brings in all manner of dynamics. And heres another factor most dont consider until it confronts you.... I recently grew very fond of a woman with 4 x great kids (yes 4 !!)...really really liked her but.........I will always be No. 5 in her life. I expect that, but it wasn't easy to deal with all the time. Food for thought

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Well, I agree with a lot of you, also at my age, most have got kids, I dont have any, and I have had a 2 girlfreinds with kids, and it does take a lot of trust to let you be entered into their domain.And I just was not ready to take on that role...yet. The daughter was cool, but just wasnot me yet. I am single now, but if you MILFS out there that have needs!!!???? But planning is the key to a bit of RHP nookie I suppose..And of course you also always be the last on the priority list... it goes without saying!!!. But yeah luckylocky...women also have needs aswell. And the woman looks after priority #1, the kid.And thats expected. But, my oh my, there is a lot of single horny mothers out there that have needs.... El Capi-tain Jack Sparrow Pirate

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Seems most of the women that are interested in talking to a singe dad are ones with at least 2 kids (often more) already and generally tend to be older and more often than not unemployed. Sure they have needs and I'm not one to deprive them of some fun but it is easier with a single that can get away when they want to and aren't tied down as much. Do I have a preference...If I had to choose between one or the other I would go the one without kids for convenience...then we can make some more.