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MFM Threesome with straight men???
July 13 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
sorry, I'm just laughing at some past conversations. You're going to get all the usual "Pick me's" now. OhSo, you know us well enough, and you know who's talking here. You would also know that I love seeing Mrs with others, guys or girls, and have no jealousy issues at all. So of course there's guys and couples that enjoy it! Maybe an easier breaker-in for him would be a couple, but the "other girl" is just there as a fluff girl, or maybe a photographer (Director? =P), and then the focus of both guys is just on you... Or, as I've got holidays coming up, send him to work and we'll go to Aarows =P xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
im hoping not to cross the line here but well here it goes i think it sucks you and him have ffm 3 somes but cant have mmf 3 some it would be down to a jelious thing or maybe your buddy might be afraid if a mans cock touchs him hell be gay. I know but its true a lady friend told me once she was having a mmf good time one guys cock touched the others bum when then were changing position and butt guy flipped out and they punched crap out of each other so in the end no one got off funny stuff so id say if hes not into it dont push it cause it wont end good maybe ask him if hes afraid of penis or is it a proformance thing anyway maybe i should just be quite
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RHP User
16 years ago
It obviously happens if the number of straight couples here are any indication. It's not uncommon for guys to get performance anxiety...I mean, there's a lot of closed doors for privacy. He has to feel comfortable fucking in front of other dudes. During mfm there's always, seems to me at least, a bit of inadvertent mm contact.... Hairy ballsacks slamming together during double penetration for instance (lol Thats part of the fun IMHO).... Maybe he just isn't comfortable with the whole male contact thing.... But of course he could do the traditional mfm positions like working you over from either end(lol) without any mm contact... Well, he could probably tell you why, but I just don't understand the objection!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I love sharing another mans wife with him at the same time , i am not bi
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WhispersAndMoans
16 years ago
Male half of the couple here. We are in the MFM search because two males is erotic and fun for her and me. But I don't find it fun because I am bi, it is because she is enjoying herself. Like all things in life different people look at things in different ways and it is hard to find out what the underlying stuff is sometimes. I won't even try to psychoanalyse it myself, that ain't my talent. I have heard of men that don't want to do anal with their woman .... and i certainly can't understand that or where they are coming from so I won't pretend to understand something more complex like a three person issue! Good luck, I am sure if you can explain your interest clearly and get to the source of his concerns all will be good. And Hot. And fun!
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RHP User
16 years ago
in a fmf he's got 2 to play with in a couples thing he has the diversion of the other lady in a mfm... he may have to watch you get into it with no diversion for him?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Then every one is comfortable if boundaries are defined before action . Well at least till it starts getting hot ! Yanno it can be a bit tough putting out with your girl & a stranger , so to speak, for sum erotic fun . Was tough , initially for me , but focused on helping my babe enjoy herself (stroking her tits & kissing her while being Fucked by someone else) for example ; or even growling her out while she was exploring sum cock in her mouth . whatever happens . no rush . Electric . not pushy, good music , no distractions ( kids , unannounced guests , phone - turn the fuckers OFF) undividided attention ... and get into it .. That Is Focus on Partner Pleasure .. You come ,.. Second ... and the rest is ..well yanno gunna be great .. Don't fuck it up .. N the rest will come easy with some discussion .. True
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RHP User
16 years ago
didn't everyone have a romp with a chick and their best mate. i remember doing hi fives with my mate while the young lady in question was blowing him, with me pounding away from behind. lighten up boys. just like tits, most dicks are approximately the same. doesn't make you gay to be in the same room as a naked dick.
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RHP User
16 years ago
OhSoBi Talk to him about your desire for a MFM and ask if he wants any more FMF. If he wont play ball then just have FF and leave him out. [Maybe] Let him watch of course lol....Even when I was straight we did MFM with each guy on one end. Now I have bied up its much more fun and cock are so fun to play with. Mars
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RHP User
16 years ago
My husband likes to watch me getting screwed and some times he will join in, he dosent see it as bi at all if there dicks touch each other, it is all about seeing me have fun then so he says he can have fun.
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RHP User
16 years ago
we work on the more you give the more you end up getting , he should be interested in pleasing you first and him second like all women should be . yes it is hard having another there but you have to deal with the same emotions when the other girl is there . mate she loves you so let her play .
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RHP User
16 years ago
Now this doesn't apply to couples where BOTH are happy just to play with women in 3sum situations, whether the fem is bi/straight. It is absolutely unfair for a woman of a couple to miss out on mfm if she wants one due to her partner for whatever reason, only for the male to say it's fine for fmf with no thought to what the female may want. That is just plain selfish and if the male half doesn't want another man around due to performance issues, jealousy or the fear of physical male contact during, I'd tell him that until he got over his issues, he wouldn't be enjoying anymore fmf. Some men forget that there are TWO people in the relationship, and only seem to think of themselves and what their desires are. Thank god Mr fordy has none of these issues and is comfortable with one and all :) Cheers, Mrsfordy xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
So many guys seem to use the "I am not bi or gay" card to get out of an MMF with their lady but happily go down the MFF path (even if their is no female bi play involved). If he is so worried about male contact he can always just do the 'spitroast' or simply take turns. Almost any DP will involve some incidental touching and all getting into a position for it to happen will mean the men's bodies will certainly touch. There is certainly nothing Bi about it at all!!!! Maybe you can just ask him if you can have 2 other guys then? That way you may get to experience a whole lot more such as being doggied by one while the other licks you from underneath? Or orally share a cock with one (or both!) of the guys? Maybe the MMF does nothing for him but I thought this was your fantasy? Seems only fair to me! I hope he sees sense.
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playfulminx
16 years ago
I'm sorry to hear that you're missing out on one of life's treats :( I'd say that your partner doesn't have any MFM fantasies (many straight men love the thought of their partner being spoilt, treated like a queen or 'slut' as the case may be) to get him interested in even trying it. Which is all fair but I think unless he has really got some issues with being naked around another naked man, he should let you have a go! The only other thing is that maybe he's worried about seeing you with another man. Do you play with other couples? Are you into swapping or does your partner prefer to keep things girl on girl with guys watching? (yawn...)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am entirely straight, guys do nothing for me but I have enjoyed being part of a MFM threesome a number of times and would love to have more similar experiences. I enjoy it because the female is so turned on by the experience and in the end that is what arouses me the most - female pleasure and arousal. On one occasion we even tried both our cocks in her pussy at the same time.... she loved the experience and wants to try it again.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks so much for all your replies!! Firstly... HotOz...fuck i love you guys haha and thanks for the reply! I'll keep that in mind...he's actually on holidays in 2 weeks time also *Wink Wink* so we NEED to catch up again!! Thank you for everyone else's replies, i can see now more 'reasons' why he's not interested in it and i guess yes it does make sense! And i don't hate him for it, i guess each to their own and we'll just keep enjoying couples play and leave it at that! We all have fantasies that have never been fulfilled...maybe this is mine that will always stay just that, a fantasy! Oh and BIMMF..... GREAT idea about the 2 other males instead ;) maybe he'll go for that because i know he's not at all a jealous person! I'll give it a go ;)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Given the choice I would prefer MFM and I'm not bi....not phobic either.... The idea of two biug strapping guys pleasuring the girl, making her the centre of attention is something that I would prefer every time ! My girl loves it and we have done it lots... Your partner does sound a little selfish if he's keen to play FMF but not the other way....so it doesn't DO anything for HIM .....well hun, it's not all abou HIM is it ? Tell him to get with the program....what's good for the goose...is good for the gander ! If it's something you really want to try (and I suggest you will love it ! lol) then if he cares about you, he should go for it ! Dog.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have been fortunate as a straight man to have been invited to join quite a few couples for mfm play. Sometimes it was hubbies idea others her's. On every occasion they both enjoyed it, whether hubby sat back and watched or took pic's or joined in from the start. Often they contact me afterwards and tell me how horny they were when I left that they had the hottest sex together for ages. I do know aswell that there are some men who are very insecure and feel that their partner may enjoy the other man more than them. This is stupid especially as they have obviously discussed including another person for some time. It is unfortunate that these guys don't understand that when a couple invite another man to join them it is all about the trust and security they have in their relationship and is for the majority of time a reinforcement. After all it is said that "sharing is caring".
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have in the recently been able to fulfillone of my fantasies of watching 2 guys in a MMF with me play with one another!! but DAMN it was hard work!! keep trying Ohso, there are some nice suggestions amongst this lot!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
I must say that it is unfortunate the so many men out there want to have MFF and will not even consider a MFM. Sex is a part of our nature as humans and should be embraced. Its been so repressed by religion and what we are told that anything that isn't "normal m/f" is taboo. Do what feels good and enjoy life. Its too short to worry about things like that.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hubby and I always do MMF. At first he was unsure as to how he would handle it, but it has turned out well and he loves to see me enjoy myself. He gets turned on watching me with another guy and says my pussy just gets better after hours of fucking. It's all about fun and hot sex.
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi ,all like to chat sumtime,,i wish i was him either way,,i have that problem with my girl she dont wanna play and dont want me to play others ,,although she will come swingers clubs,to play with me only.Mayb to plz me what u all think?.Or do u think she a little jealous .
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi OhSo, Keep us in mind too during your two week holiday.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Your partner is straight which is fine why not get a group together for a fun night hell set up a swinging night..lots of mmf should happen love love love....... share the fun and he might even get his ffm too WIN WIN situation
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RHP User
16 years ago
Looks like I'm late in on this one. It does seem a bit strange that he doesn't mind you being with another guy while he is there, but doesn't want to join in with you while you are with another guy. My solution has already been mentioned, simply tell him you want a MFM and if he doesn't want to be one of the males then you will have two others instead. You say he isn't jealous so everyone is happy :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
No big deal..if ur not gay and u got good mates to do it with...then u have fun..ive even done it after walking out of the doll house with some random chick and some random dude...and my mate filmed it lol funny shit can happen at 6am when the sun is coming up and ur drunk!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Im actually the female in the equation and I'm seeking that extra male....to join me (bi) and hubby (straight) for a respectful :) night indoors. Any one interested
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wow he does'nt know wat he is missing, to see his lady being pampered by to guys such a massive turn on, available lol.B.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am straight, and I LOVE threesomes with two guys and a girl. It is so sensual. I find that when both guys focus on pleasing the girl. totally reading her and focusing on her, he wont even notice the other guy.... Good luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
OhSo, Sorry but I do think he's just being selfish...as much as you enjoy the FFM..I would have to agree with the other reply about having one without ur partner and don't let him be involved at all. And if he isnt willing to have an MMF with you..go out and find your own girl!! You have every right to enjoy yourself however you choose. Life is too short to not experience your fantasies. Seems to me he's getting to enjoy his and you should be given the same opportunity. Tell him to HTFU (harden the fuck up) and get into it or give you the space to go and get your groove on lol. Good luck! :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
your man must be crazy. i am straight and i just love doing them. for me its a turn on.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well all i can say is sex is good fun an if the woman wants 2 men then its ok with me.I have tried a mmf with my partner an it was great,she loved all the attention an gettin done by 2 guys was a real trun on.I myself liked watch her enjoy herself,but sadly it will only ever be mmf not ffm as my partner doesnt do women nor thinks about it lol.I still live in hope an atl;east maybe 1 day we can try a 4sum with anthoer couple.
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RHP User
16 years ago
OhSoBi, Maybe a couple of extra men could do the trick, to really put the focus on you. Playing with the idea and reinforcing the pleasure it will bring you might plant the seed of your dream in him. My ex was a bit reluctant to even MMF as she had a bad time after being with three guys when young, but still loved the idea of two or three guys with her, especially when she was in a really corrupting mood to play with some conservative guy who needed his boundaries pushed. That poor guy is probably still saying his Hail Marys....
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RHP User
16 years ago
my girl loves to thrill me with fmf,and now its her turn,she has looked at countless profiles and found who i call mr penis. so anyway its my job to make contact,and i did,and the guy seems very cool. I know how excited she gets with our love making,this might be too exciting for her she might passout or something... anyway the hotel room is booked and were both looking forward to it.
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RHP User
16 years ago
OhSoBi, Greg here, a mature man, I have had so many FFM’s with my wife, but one One MMF, and that’s when I was single. I am so keen for my wife to have MMF and she says when she wants it, it will happen. I have so encouraged her in this, and I so love the idea of another Compatible man being with us. This does also include ideas of BBC etc, and we have swung as a couple a number of times. My wife allows me to be open in our marriage, and I can seek FWB while she has lost almost all interest ATM but am sure that will return. I can’t understand your hubby, as in a couple to couple scene, he likes watching you enjoy, so my thoughts on his attitude are, 1/. He is a jealous man when he can’t control you, so with another man there he feels venerable 2/. He feels scared that you will run off, or maybe make arrangements with the other guy for some secret time together 3/. He is scared that the other guy will proposition you, and you may agree 4/. He is too jealous, controlling and inconsiderate of your needs, wants and feelings, but is ok with his own! Am sorry for you, as I know with a good partner, then swinging, MMF or FFM can be so great. Good luck to you anyway, I hope hubby can see the light Cheers, Greg
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks again for the recent replies!! Pretty much all of you are for me to have my fantasy YAY!!! LOL I had a talk to him and he's said he'd rather it be with a guy who's already attached so he understands the whole relationship side of things and will hopefully respect that its a once off thing and wont try and pursue it further! He knows im a sexual deviant so its probably my fault haha Hopefully we can get the ball rolling soon and i can be dominated by 2 or more men! Mmmm
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RHP User
16 years ago
He should think himself lucky that u let him play with othe rpussys so he should respect u and try it once before saying no to you and if he still wont drop me aa line and i'll arrange anothe rmanfor us !!!LOL
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RHP User
16 years ago
Many years ago we had both MFM and FFM. Not too many FFM but a couple of MFM's with some very close friends. It was the most erotic and sensual occassions we have ever enjoyed, my wife was thoroughly turned on and gave as good as she got, there were no jealousies or inhibitions. I am not bi or gay but even I enjoyed the occassional touching and I held may mates cock and placed it inside my wife, very sexy. We did manage a couple of FFM's with friends of my wife but she did not know of many ladies who would be in it, one was the partner of an MFM friend. On one FFM occassion we did not have penetration but after I brought the ladies off they sucked and wanked me dry. Alas, they were the days long gone.
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mensbits
16 years ago
Hi OhSo It has all been said! you'd pay fortune for all the above advice! :-) Seems to me he's not against it (MFM), it just doesn't do it for him,....That's cool, go with the suggestion of choosing two or more guys yourself ( I think there are one or two available on RHP, LOL). If you are both truly open about your fantasies and he thinks the world of you, then he'll listen and let you fulfill yours. Ask him to trade fantasies and arrange for his to happen!Shit! that would work for me! :-) Have fun OhSo make it a great day one day!
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RHP User
16 years ago
From you last post it sounds like you've hit the nail on the head. He's not worried about the bi thing he's worried that you'll enjoy the other guy better and end up taking up with him. Guess it is a lot more confronting being with your woman and another male, compared to another couple or a woman. Still it would be worth it to see the pleasure on your partners face if that was what she wanted. If he's happy to go with it if the guy is in a relationship it gives him the security of enjoying you with another couple. Perhaps it wont be a one off if he gets past his insecurities, after all if you meet other couples or your female friends regularly why shouldn't MFM be part of those regular meets.
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RHP User
16 years ago
When we have a MFM get together its a fun-4-all experience...sometimes ends up being MMFM...but my wife enjoys it and nothing turns me on more than seeing her having a 'fucking' good time but she would like it even more if another female was there for her to play with as well,lol.He should really loosen up and stop thinking about it so much and go with the moment when its presented...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have had a lot of experience with couples in the mmf sense and it has been really great. I am not bi at all and am not attracted to guys at all, i really get off on seeing a woman experiencing so much pleasure. Also I find the girl is so sexually charged she will virtually ravish you and fuck like mad hehhe, so definitely no negatives there. I have had only a handful of experiences that I didnt enjoy and they were mainly with guys who were bi trying to take advantage of the situation even though they knew I was bi/curious, but I think people like that are pushy and would have tried that with anybody in any situation, so I wouldnt be put off by that if you are looking to try. One last thing I found surprising when first getting into the mmf scene was DP(double penetration), now like i said I am not attracted to guys but when we were both inside there was so much extra sensation, it felt great, really good, like being wanked whilst your inside. That surprised me and it was something i wouldnt have thought I would enjoy. I think anyone is thinking about it should try, and dont let labels etc dictate what you should try or not, everyone is different.
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RHP User
16 years ago
OhSoBi The answer is simple. Idealy find a nice bi couple. Or a couple where the male is experimental rather than straight. That way you all can have it all except straight mm. Reading your responses I think you are a bit much for your straight hubby. There would be no more ffm for him until you had your mmf and from then on one for one. Mars
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi. As you can see by the title my view is that MFM is the ultimate experience. There is nothing quite as erotic as working in bed with another guy to please his girl (in a non-bi way). The number of combinations and the fun that can be had multiplies when you have a girl that enjoys playing with two c*cks. After all, its about sharing the experience.
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RHP User
16 years ago
its quite hard to get anyone interested in MFM and its annoying. Ive been looking for one for ages but no guys are ever interested. so msg me if u r xoxo
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RHP User
16 years ago
A mate and myself have been with a couple of girls at the same time. While we arent bi we get off watching her get off on each other if that makes sense. There is a lot that can be said for MMf and ffm for that matter. It means that the person in the middle is getting that extra special attention she or he is seeking. Go get it gurl .
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was in the same boat as you so to speak... Had many fmf, and then I decided I wanted an mfm for me! He was a bit apprehensive intially... But we talked it through and started looking... He is totally straight, but very comfortable in his own skin... We actually tried looking for a straight man to have an mfm.. but we realised that a lot of straight men are so concerned with the whole 'gay' image that they want so many 'out of bounds' rules.. I wanted it to be about me.. sure they may come into contact with each other.. but that didnt make anyone gay.. So we ended up with a great bi guy, who understood that my hubby was straight, and was fine with it.. It ended up being an awesome experience.. Well worth it... Majick :o)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey OhSoBi, how you doing hun, yeah well i've had a fair few 3way plays with mfm and all the guys i've been with are all straight hun, the only problem i find with that is i always want to be licked and fucked at the same time.. buggers have closeness issues on that one.. can't really see the problem i wouldn't mind a set of balls hittin me in the face.. ehehhe
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RHP User
16 years ago
i must admit i had my first MFM the other day and i wasnt scared of the other male but i was somehow all of a sudden shy... and well i wasnt at my best... but i mean i got over the first few stages... being naked in front of a male and having fun in front of one... but as soon as he joined in i got nervous and was thinking too much... maybe that is because of experience lol... im sure i will get better lol i just need more games under my belt lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've been in a few MFMs and to the best of my knowledge the other guys have all been strictly straight. Sometimes the invitation has come from the lady. Other times from her guy. Sometimes it has led to sex and others not. It's all a queation of what the participants (particularly the lady) are seeking. I remember one occasion where the guy was keen for his wife's sake. She wasn't sure but was curious about the whole thing. She was comfortable enough with all three of us in the spa talking and having some close contact. She wasn't comfortable enough to have sex with me at that time (and I haven't come across them since - was a club situation a long way from I might normally have been found - lol) but we all enjoyed each other's company and had a good time of it. I'm strictly straight but I'm not afraid of the presence of another guy and I did enjoy talking it through with that particular couple. So it's a question of what you want, when and what boundaries you want to set - same as always.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I love MFM - am a keen fan of DP. Only had a few men who are keen on this, and they have always been friends (of each other) first. Keep trying.. the exotic feel of two men at once is somehing I will always seek and enjoy :) Find a man that your man knows and is comfortable with X
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeh... guys if your that narky about male touch (your too hard work) If I can go down on a woman, you guys can try doing a male... Our rule is never ask your partner to do something YOU wont do yourself (wink)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi I know what your feeling,I have put it to my wife about mfm fun she keeps saying no but when we watch porn and a mfm scene cames on I say what about that ,then she says I like but then it goes no were.About ten years ago we had a ffm experience that was her inviting a friend (i was in bed asleep when she came in with your friend i throught I was in a dream it was a shock for me but a good night)she has had ff fun while i watch which is cool.So I wont to play with a couple I have no trouble about body parts touching its all about everyone having fun. Your husband needs to be thankful that he has a partner with fantasies and willing to fore fill them
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RHP User
16 years ago
Whats the matter with you guys. You like to see us girls together, whats the matter with you guys getting it on together. You DONT have to be gay to enjoy MM sex
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RHP User
16 years ago
my wife and i thought and talked about it for years before we finnally got the courage to go through with it. it is extremly nerve racking before hand but once we got started we both agree it was the best fun we had ever had. we have done it twice now and are working on our third. i think the trick is to make sure you pick the right guy, wich is not that easy. you must find some one that will not make your husband be threatened buy but at the same time can perform well in the company of another male. you must also make rules and boundries that must be respected buy the third party. we were not comfortable about kissing, its not love making its just a good hard fuck. i would not like in any way my wife fuck behind my back, but this is just a bit of fun that we tryed, and it turned out to be the best sex we ever had. it turned me on so much taking turns fucking her while she sucked our cocks. and it does feel a bit strange being nacked in the same room as another man but once the focus turns to the female you soon forget about that. good luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
There are plenty of guys that will happily lick a pussy while it is full of another guy! Another advantage of a bi guy! (doesn't mean he has to touch the other male apart from incidental!)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Doesnt make sense. I am straight and love MFM. Its great watching her in total escasty and great fun sharing it with her. Thats not fair for you but also odd why he likes to watch but not join in. Its not like he is having sex with the other guy good luck
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RHP User
16 years ago
some1 invite me to one mmf i'd be in that ,,even thogh i'm straight i probably do with bi's also.anyone in west melb wanna invite me pmsl...
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RHP User
16 years ago
In that case, I am your candidate.....pls send me a message and will just be happy to thrill you....
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RHP User
16 years ago
i have had a few mfm dates they have all been great fun i do enjoiy mfm dates as do the couple involved, dont get me wrong FFM are just as much fun. i always tell the couple i play with that i am straight and they accept it, if they are looking for a bi male i say to them i am sorry but i am straight, there is one big thing you must have and that is full trust in everyone involved or it can become uncomfortable for all parties involved, the males involved must remember that it is all about the female and what she wants. ok enough from me have fun and play safe Pete
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RHP User
16 years ago
Blokes should be up for anything just like a good woman iv had a couple 4somes and it dont bother me shit contact or performance as long as no cock goes up my ass lol me and my mate doubled our misseses a fair few times while the left out person was filming it is awsome love that shit the more the merrier i say
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RHP User
16 years ago
My experience with threesomes, MMF (straight guys) & FFM (bi-curious females), both of which were thoroughly enjoyable. I found that if you direct your attention to the other people involved you're in for a great time! A great way to initiate the threesome I've found is through massage, place your important perhaps a little nervous person in the centre of attention, initially face down on the bed for a full body massage... slow deep lingering strokes will ensure heart rates rise with the sensual electricity in the room. This will allow for a smooth transition from kissing and foreplay... enjoy!
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RHP User
16 years ago
My hubby is bi curious so he has no issues with MM contact. Some of the best sex that we have ever had has been with two males pleasuring me. Double penetration with two cocks in my pussy was the most exquisite sensation for all of us. When the guys shot their loads inside of me and over each others cock was just the most amazing feeling for me and the guys, as demonstrated by the orgasmic noises coming from all three of us. I can understand your guy's reluctance, however I can thoroughly recommend the experience. good luck!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Show your Guy this post . That'll open the convo up . You can always put a bag over his head to keep him focused on one thing .. Or even give him a cam to keep him occupied till things loosen up .. just some fun and laughs .. Only a thought for something to try .
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RHP User
16 years ago
no its not rare hey...sum guys dont get turned on by 2 women...or they are rlly conscious of how they will perform sexually for 2 girls... its rlly intimidating for sum guys...my perfect partner wud be sumone that loves having 3sums with 2 guys lol but u know thats pretty rare 2 find!
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DonnaBrett
16 years ago
Some guys are just so homophobic it seems. I really dig having group sessions with my wife where there is me & one, two, three, four..or even seven other guys. I'm definitely straight & any other guys invited are expected to be also. There's never been any problems in regards to guys 'crossing over'. It's such a turn on watching her get so much enjoyment! Just tell your man to relax and make it clear to any guys invited that there is strictly no male/male stuff. From our experience everyoneis respectful in that regard. Good Luck!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Ohsobi, There's some really great advice on here. As a married bi guy, the couples I have met have actually enjoyed the fact that 1) I am attached and 2) I am bi. Reasons being that I am only there to enhance their activities and focus on fulfilling fantasies, rather than trying to affect their relationship or break them up. Therefore there has been absolutely no jealousy and I have remained close friends for years with many of the couples I have met online. Secondly, as a bi guy, I'm open to more than the average guy who gets shy/scared when another cock is around. Even if the other guy isn't bi or curious, I usually find there is some accidental touches or brushes, that straight guys usually find uncomfortable - so I play within boundaries and am very comfortable if the husband is straight. I have also found that most of the husbands have a curiousity of watching their wives play with and be pleasured by well hung guys (isn't that why we look in the toilets ? lol ). Again, I haven't found jealousy, more curiousity. Plus being bi, it helps to be able to lick the lady while her husband is inside of her!! lol lol :-). Also, being a blokey bloke who loves sport, cars, sheds, beer and other blokey things, it makes it easier to have a conversation over drinks or dinner, and also I find manours are a massive thing - not many people possess them. The third wheel has to understand they are there for the couple first and foremost. Thought I'd just add a little to the other great advice on here so far. Best of luck with your search... xo
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RHP User
16 years ago
Im sure your both in love and not looking to change the relationship in anyway shape or form.I can understand the fact that he isnt bi,neither am I.Its a male thing...ther ecould be a moment when privates touch and thats a " eeeewwww) moment for both men,but if its all in the context of pleasuring the woman at hand,and all parties are in a highly excited state,Im pretty sure that at the moment, things wont be so awkward. It wont be tilll afterwards that he may feel a little uneasy and wash himself to death..LOL. (I can see the funny side of things,and to be honest,Id probably feel the same way,BUT....in the heat of passion and pleasuring a woman,with or without other men present,its all in the moment. Please and pleasure one another,and just enjoy it for what it is,a sexual meeting between consenting adults. At the end of the day,all those involved will have had their moment of pleasure and all will return to normal,and if it hasnt,Id ask him to explain just how he feels about the whole 2 naked men for his wifes pleasure is for him ( he is apart of the fantasy as well as you) I am married,but my wife doesnt play with other men or women,it would be nice to try one day though,but thats her decision and I will support her what ever she decides. Ad
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey there hype If you are able to find a second male I am keen to be part of your 3somme. I am not bi but love to see a lady being pleasured and having plenty of fun in the sexual arena If you are keen msg me
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well we had our first straight mfm threesome on the weekend. No worries there - she absolutely loved it!! Looking for the next one!! J&G
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RHP User
16 years ago
Im male. Dont consider myself bi and have been in a number of MMF or multi-M 1F situations. Wish it would happen n more often :) Like many of the comments its about the girls. We guys dont get it if the girl is not willing and in the situations Ive been in NONE of the guys were bi or otherwise. The girls got everything they wanted and more. Nohangups, no pressure and mutual respect all round. And I MEAn mutual respect and from a male POV there is much less pressure to continue to perform if you have already cumI dont see a problem. Im confortable in those situations and wouldnt mind if my other half were interested but she aint. I have NO problem with her enjoying herself IF she wants to and as for sitting out, well it allows the woman to enjoy herself, knowing that when 1 man cums, there is another that can continue to pleasure her
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RHP User
16 years ago
hey out_goin when being licked and fucked there are ways to work it so no touching is necessary ;o) Doesn't matter if you are bi or str8 there is fun to be had by all. So long as the ground rules are set and if it's one bi and one str8 all are comfy with the limits set down. Inevitably though there will be some accidental bumping brushing touching etc in the heat of the moment - but then again if everyone was all to up tight it won't ever be as fun. Cheers Mark
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RHP User
16 years ago
I will fly up
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RHP User
16 years ago
I've been invited to many 3som mmf and have found that the main problem is "she is enjoying it too much" or "hell he is better than me" some will deny this and say it never happens....I say "bullshit" I see it all the time. I take a walk,,,take some time out for them to discuss the problem and after that they are usually fine for another session and meet again as you showed respect and caring for both parties involved. It is about her and him and you shouldnt forget that if you wanna go around again. Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
Tony from this couple is definatley straight "just ask Newton" Hi Dave, Tony has been joining couples for ages now to help satisfy the couriosity of women and men in thier relationship of having a straight guy join them for sensual massage or raunchy sex. Everything that Newton has said is correct, at times some of the couples I vist just want sensuality or the hubby wants to take pics of Tony with his wife. All good from my point of veiw. Oh and by the way Anne knows I meet with other couples also. Trust is the key in this game. T and A
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RHP User
16 years ago
we find MMF much more erotic than FFM.. there's so much more you can do .. we're not bi so FFM doesnt really do it for us one cock is not enough for two pussies and ... much prefer MMF .. :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with many in this thread... it's awesome, and yes there are guys who will do it. Guys who won't... I just shrug my shoulders. Their loss, you know?Cheers :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
get two other guys to have your mfm with and let him watch.
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RHP User
16 years ago
well hes obviously insecure bout his own sexuallity
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RHP User
16 years ago
i'd love to be ivolved in a mmf threesome,
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi yeah I think I am like alot of girls here - where guys dont mind the FFM work, but when she wants the MMF thing they say no. But I wouldnt mind trying the MMF thing! 2 guys all there for me....how much more sexier can you get?????? but thats just my opinion.. Good luck and wishing you all mind-blowingly-great sex in your future! Meow!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
always wanted to get in on that action and happy to lick while the lady is being fucked!
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