RHP

RHP User

F41

MFF

April 22 2011

My man wants MFF... I really want to make that hppen for him but I can't bring myself to play with another woman.Does it make me a bad partner to tell him he can do it but has to do it without me? And more to the point how many women out there would actually consider going there?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It is great to see that u can recognize it is a no go area of sex for u at the moment... (But... I have learned to never say never! Have man sexual decades ahead ;). One day u may find ur self in an abundance of rights :) right people, right time, right place, right feeling.... And it is suddenly a go! I have fallen into a few threesomes with a girl first timer, but I knew them all well, so it was a natural flow, never planned up front and on many of the occasions we simply had to do it again and again... And again... Good times! I remained friends with them as they were already friends. I guess we all had a level of trust and respect for eachother and in every situation feelings were openly dicussed :) and in some cases the 3 month triple we were was the only bi experience one had and another just 1 more after... Lots of females become curious and experimental at some point? Too much rambling, I guess wot I am trying to say is, if u 2 r serious, couldn't he hold out for a while? And how would u both find him 2 girls to do it with? I really doubt the act will strengthen u relationship!? Last thing... If it is a must 4 hm 4 now and u want him 2 do it with 2 other girls, I think the cleanest emotional way to go about it would be to have him hire a couple girls?!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It is a mite hypocritical of me as I enjoy having the company of 2 men, but I cannot bring myself to play with another woman either! Yet I expect 2 blokes to be comfortable together!! It's not a matter of you being a bad partner if it's not your thing. And if you are comfortable with him doing it elsewhere then there is no problem. You can't do what isn't comfortable for you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Its not your thing...dont compromise your desires for his own....you should be exploring mutual wants and desires together....if you feel comfortable enough to have him do this without you then why not take the proactive step in organising it for him??? You meet the girls...set it up for him in a lovely motel room...make it a gift from you to him....this way you are still a part of helping him fulfill his fantasy...but ONLY do this if you are comfortable enough to be able to walk away . On the other side (because of course being a bi woman I automatically saw it as a MFFbi) who said you had to play with the other woman??? You could also make it a session all about him...the two of you pleasing and pampering him...just go with the way the mood takes you but hopefully never feeling pressured to do anything you dont feel comfortable with. . I hope this gives you some ideas or helps you choose the way for you to go . Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I agree with focus (as usual on forums hehe), nothing to say you have to have sexual contact with the other f just because you are there. The other option, following on from hiring 2 women, you could also stay in the room and watch the mff (if you're comfortable doing so). You never know, the mood may take you to start taking little steps like touching and then perhaps you may in the future feel more comfortable being one of the female's in the mff.... HFC xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Rather than MFF... Like the other girls here said just cause it's a threesome doesn't mean you all have to touch eachother. We have had loads of MMF with straight guys. Or rather MFM...Mrs J

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    if you have had a couple of guys then it would be fair to let him have his fantasy of two girls , if you don't let this happen you will have problems. oooh the lucky bastard.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The first time my wife and I talked about having a threesome was quite a few years ago now but I remember it well.I was so horny for two girls, to try this was a typical male fantasy so it was such a twisted mess of emotions by the end of the day.It first started with Babe would you like to try swinging with a girl and she said yes she will as she calmly walked into the kitchen and began cooking.I was shocked,gob smacked even but all anxious about the idea and I could not keep my mind straight and my mouth shut so I walked in and asked her how do we start this,what do we do,where do we go,how do we know??? and are you ok with doing this for me for us.She said yes, she was ok with trying it,(BUT).Ok there is a (BUT), in here somewhere I thought.?As she tinkered around the kitchen I asked what she meant and she said well if you would like to try two girls I am willing to this for your fantasy but I would like you to try a threesome with me and a guy first, WOOOHAAAA.Ok I had to go for a walk at this stage and I sat out side and thought about it.She came out to see me and ask if I was alright, I looked up at her and asked her why??? are you not happy with me, am I too small or do I not make her happy or satisfy her, she laughed so loud, even the neighbours could hear her and in between her cackle she said well if it is good for you then it is good for me isn't it???.Long story short she got her way! Typical.