MF Couples and single males

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  a sexually confident person, attentive to needs, loves to pleasure and definitely not against spending a sexy night with a cool coupleThat's what we look for. Well, more me specifically, but Hubby agrees. Someone who ticks all the boxes and more importantly, someone with whom it looks like there would be a spark of some kind, before the clothes are shed. The ability to participate in an intelligent conversation, a bit of maturity, similar sexual interests, something to converse about in the first place - these are all the things that make for a great sexual experience in my opinion. We suck at random sporting sex, so we look for someone with whom we would have some common ground before we all get together.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  We agree... Definately a connection thing.. yes' getting all the boxes ticked most important.. Its taken awhile but we finaly meet a young straight male this week who ticked all the boxes so patience is a virtue . But by god' it has taken awhile sorting out the wanna be's.. All the crap you have to sort through.. EG: I think you're beautifull and Im a stud who every female wants to be with..or... I love your pic' wanna root ? Plaaeessseee ... We request 18 - 30... so what do we get.. all the time wasteing 35 to 50s.. Makes you want to scream..

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  WhispersAndMoans

  16 years ago

  We have had  a couple of good experiences finding the male to join us but we don't seek them, maybe that is part of the problem! All the items listed above by couple 30 and just juice are important but we have recently realised another one.... we want confident but not someone who thinks the power is theirs! You know the sort who don't bother to respond until it suits them, who enjoy a bit of mind games and think we should be chasing them.  Hells bells there are plenty of good options out there so we ain't chasing anyone too hard.  Happy to play the game but not to be toyed with!So our list of personality requirements would be intelligent, fun, confident, wanting to flirt and wanting to make the night a truly memorable one. We'd prefer ongoing too (suggests a hint of perseverance as a trait in the man)  but we only play in the city when we get away from our town so this can be difficult.Good body etc. has a role to play but without the personality attributes to go with it then nothing is going to happen with us!

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  .... well i guess we can only speak for ourselves, and on this site there are obviously many, many different reasons for people and couples wanting what they want... i will say that we havent got on our profile looking for single males , as some very lovely people we met early on said we would be inundated if we put this on our profile....in saying that we have found it not as easy as we thought it would be in meeting up with single guys even just for a drink.. we have met single girls and couples and didnt really know what we wanted until we met them, and did or didnt click, but are pretty sure we now know what we are looking for in those two groups, but when it comes to guys we are still yet to have a sexy hook up with one. mrC would love to see me with another guy but has had some thought on this and thinks it may be just too intimidating for some guys out there, so feels i may need to go it alone when it comes to eventually meeting up with someone..so while we really want this to happen it seems we (i) have to be a little more patient......so i think my advice to single guys would be that if a couple contacts you, and you think you may be interested in them also, then say so, and ask them what they are looking for and even if they are happy for you to play alone with there partner or wife, always be willing to meet them both first,.. and who knows you may meet some great new friends..... ms c

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