Lover or Fuck Buddy or Friend with Benifits - Whats the difference

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  A fuck buddy is someone you just have sex with, a friend with benefits is someone you might also go to dinner, the movies, the beach, drinks, etc. with and a lover is someone you love. That said, I prefer to consider that I make love to a FWB rather than rooting or fucking them.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  ......I think a Fuck Buddy is someone who you literally just fuck and that's it. A Friend With Benefits I feel is someone that you not only have sex with, but also can hang out with sometimes.....and love??? Love is the Holy Grail!!!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  everyone will have their own little differencesi think a friend with benefits is someone you're actually 'friends' with in the typical sense, doing things regular friends do that doesn't involve sex. 'lover' is a baby-boomer generation term to meand a good fuck buddy is the Holy Grail!!! xx Sarah

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'Alpha_Bitch'Love is the Holy Grail!!! hehe.. i think the first two are one and the same though.. benefits = the fuck part

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I think a lover is the old term for someone you had an affair with but is now obsolete. The lines between friends with benefits and fuck buddies can get too blurred to define.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I guess if I were trying to put a quant around some of it... the FB (a label that I don't really like) is a bit like playing on the league ladder at the racquet club...where you just look to see who is looking for a game and write you name in, meet them there, get on with it then walk away with a handshake. You may play a few games regularly or irregularly but not all that fussed about who you are playing with as long as the score is even at the end of the match. High fives all around. | The lines of "friends with benefits" are hazy and think that depends on how deep you want the friendship to be...or maybe more importantly you leave the door to explore the depths of the friendship along with exploring your sexuality. Could be you get to the "benefits of friends"...and how deep that goes or lasts, who knows. I enjoy following a path that may have a few forks in the road that you did not expect. You may even find you have an emotional investment in this person. | Lovers...too easy. I believe you can love a friend and again, how deeply and how you express that is part of the journey. Here, you find perhaps a mental, emotional and physical investment and you have left behind the thought that you could really just erase your name off the game card. A lover perhaps has emotional risk, but if you are there...it is worth every bit of the risk as the rewards are far greater. | Besides...most of us never really know what we are looking for until we find it and it's alway there in the last place you look. I enjoy both my strengths and my vulnerabilities... | ...it's called the game of life.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Acronyms or adjectives preceeding the word Lover.

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