Love thy neighbour

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  No you cant, not often anyway. Reason is that your vanilla world will come crashing down around your ears. I try to avoid anyone knowing that I am on RHP with my normal set of friends. I mix the two lots of people but I always tell my rhp friends to say they went to one of my art exhibitions or we met in some social setting. I can tell my husband but that's all. That's mostly women, I do not have the men who I sleep with in my social circle it would get to awkward as some of my husbands friends are just too nosey and some of my friends are sticky and would judge. Its also not fair to confront your vanilla friends with your sex life, its no ones business anyway. the problem is that when man does realise your a dirty girl then he will think he is in like Flin and they often make subtle hints that they want a bit of what other men are getting. if women find out well, the gossip girls are in swing the twitter behind hands, and those women who just like to get the power thing of knowing your on RHP and storing it for that stone throwing or back bitching time when you upset them. I trust women I meet on RHP I don't trust women that are not from RHP to be my true self. Women all have sets of friends, those they can tell and those they cant. If a guy finds out and then he hits on you, and you reject him then it can get really horrid. Sex has a way of bringing out the best and the worst in people. this is what happened to me a month ago, went to go to the pub with a couple of friends, three women and a man, two of the women knew I was on RHP. I knew that the other two, a man and a woman had met on RHPthey did not know I was on RHP all they knew is I was married. the woman I had meet in a social setting the man I had never met. someone must have dropped the news that I was on RHP.well the woman in the couple got drunk and then she went hell for leather on me about sleeping around on my husband she kept saying things like, what one man not good enough for you? she said this in front of the guy who I had never met before. what's wrong with your husband? and on it went all night. I was very pissed off that this women found out I was on RHP as if I want you to know I will tell you. so now he knows I am on RHP and am a slut that fucks around. Yeah its perceptions that you do get when your a woman on RHP, your a free whore. so best to leave sleeping kinksters alone. when other people find out I am on RHP it does worry me as I think, what will they do with that information?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  You wild thing you......why so curious about others?.....the secret life of pies indeed as Lady T has so eloquently put it,are secret quite often for very good reasons,and you my friend are not really showing your face here either ,are you? I did have a face pic here but as I work in a school and live in a village,discretion seemed the sensible way to go and recently I discovered that the organisation I work for would 'consider my being here to be a breach of their code of ethics....and I like my job.....There is still a double standard operating in our world where women are still being judged harshly if they dare to express their sexuality in anything less than a monogamous way......Of course there is nothing wrong with speculating or fantasizing about the hottie at work,or your child's teacher but unless they want to reveal their kinkster nature to you, then make like a bee and mind your own beeswax:-) xx Q

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Only last night a man on a different so called vanilla site where I do have a face pic,asked me if I was "respectable lol"...sigh...xx Q

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  MsSuperFoxy

  12 years ago

  It needs to be separated to some degree. But every now and again I will say something out of the blue! OOPS did I really say that? I have friends who are vanilla and some whom I heave met via here. If my friends who are on here, where to met some of my vanilla friends, I am pretty sure I can trust them to be respectful of each others privacy. Either ither, they all accept me for me and who I am So I don't expect them to see me as two different people. If that makes sense? I can say most things, however I am respectful of my "vanilla" friends and they way they see things. I wait till they bring certain topics up. To end off, I can't wear a mask, cause they scare the absolute bloody be-jesus out of me!!! Foxy

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' It needs to be separated to some degree. But every now and again I will say something out of the blue! OOPS did I really say that? I have friends who are vanilla and some whom I heave met via here. If my friends who are on here, where to met some of my vanilla friends, I am pretty sure I can trust them to be respectful of each others privacy. Either ither, they all accept me for me and who I am So I don't expect them to see me as two different people. If that makes sense? I can say most things, however I am respectful of my "vanilla" friends and they way they see things. I wait till they bring certain topics up. To end off, I can't wear a mask, cause they scare the absolute bloody be-jesus out of me!!! Foxy Protects not only me but my familyits not just me that has things to loose if the secret of the PIE hits the fan. shit in a fan can affect anyone near you. I am two people, two very different people yet I am the same woman. I let you work that one out.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  12 years ago

  I am talking literary about MASKS! Black leather ones especially! I'll let you work that one out. Foxy

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  gazpacho

  12 years ago

  I like to think I can tell a wild thing from a starfish by talking to them. Kinks, on the other hand, are not so obvious. Most of the time we're not even aware of them until we try it... whatever it is. Hugs Gazpacho - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'gazpacho51' I like to think I can tell a wild thing from a starfish by talking to them. Teach me, Sensei...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Peeking behind the mask is easy if you happen to spot a neighbour or workmate in messages or the forums hehe, or even had the kid's friends cross our path at different times. The kid's friends thought it was pretty cool when they spotted us, and the workmate & neighbour we spotted never knew. . It's not something I'm going to ask a neighbour about though there were a few neighbours we've been curious about over time because of things they said. But we got into this thing because of neighbours initially, and think 'tis best to keep some distant between us and them these days.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Kermit_The_Trogg' Quoting 'gazpacho51' I like to think I can tell a wild thing from a starfish by talking to them. Teach me, Sensei... You can tell a naughty person by the look in their eye and from their conversation.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  And the woman in a couple who worked at an old home of mine. All rather bizarre really!The world is a wonder! Keeping that distance isn't easy in such a small world...

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