M44
Love and FWB's
December 22 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
She didn't offer to cut her arm off... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
You say she has fallen for you, but you don't say you've fallen for her too. Plus you have a wife.She set herself a massive task to prove to you that you are the one she wants. You didn't ask for this, didn't want/need her to prove anything and suspected she'd fail anyway. .So what's with the "Now I can't trust her" bit? I honestly don't see why her failing is a big deal.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why does your profile list your orientation as Gay?
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RHP User
12 years ago
What's all this prove yourself BS? Why did she make such an offer in the first place... It doesn't mean she loves you more or less. Sounds like she is a little confused and a sex addict maybe, that isn't good. You can't give her want she wants... Are you using this as an excuse to pull always from her? I think it's probably gotten more serious than you intended. Yes?
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RHP User
12 years ago
( I hope you dont have any innocent bunnies round the home )
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RHP User
12 years ago
If your married in a "semi" open relationship and wouldn't leave your wife for her then she shouldnt feel guilty for breaking a promise. She wants you all the time but I'm assuming due to marriage you can't give all your time to her. If she's also sex addicted the lioness needs to eat. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
This is why i love RHP , it is never been a boring stuff on here...for sure , Bhuahaaaaa !
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RHP User
12 years ago
Firstly my profile doesn't say gay, it's say up for anything... She wanted to prove herself so we felt an Unbreakable bond like a married couple bring in new lovers ... She wanted me to see myself not as another number from her list of lovers but to feel number 1... When she made the offer I actually changed my mind frame and thought about the possibilities... I was kinda afraid that this could lead to something big and I wanted it.... Then when she fell of the wagon, I actually felt jealous for the first time - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bunnies? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Because she saw black and blue she would do it and didn't... So next time she swears on her life she will do something, can I believe her or will I always have doubt now... That's what I'm referring to - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'kalifornia69' This is why i love RHP , it is never been a boring stuff on here...for sure , Bhuahaaaaa ! Just when I thought I could return to normal life on Facebook
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wingman2014
12 years ago
She is sex addicted . And she knows it . Why would you even want to change her? If she did she would then be living a lie , could you do that? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is wonderful you feel some emotion for others outside of your relationship, you say in your op that "She is frustrated that I can't give her 100% of my time and wishes we where an official couple... as well as being addicted to sex. She is already in controlling mode by making and breaking a promise to you...... ....sounds like the beginning of a potential bunny boiler to me.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'coops14' Firstly my profile doesn't say gay, it's say up for anything... It said Gay when it was under review earlier. Phew!
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RHP User
12 years ago
lol...... you in a world of grief of your own making there. And we wonder why there are done screwed up people in the world. Sorry coops..... cake and eat it is not only selfish, but it's gonna hurt all who eat from the plate. Man up. Sort your shit. (Brotherly but tough love) DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
The entire scenario just seems immature... You have your marriage and as much of number 2 as YOU want, and then she makes some foolish pledge which she doesn't fulfill... And you lose all trust and faith in her...? Geez, I'm glad she didn't make a pinky promise... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
After yourself of course: Your wife?This FWB?Your lifestyle? I think you are being melodramatic. She tried to beat an addiction, she didn't make it for the month but she did go two weeks. Thank her for trying and remind her that you have no ownership over her now, or ever, unless you are planning to leave your wife. If you are planning to leave your wife, pay her the respect of doing it NOW! If you're not planning to leave your wife, maybe you should have a cooling off period with the FWB, for both of you. AND get some boundaries back in place. Sounds like she's overstepping them and you are letting her and maybe even encouraging her. Either way, its more about you trusting yourself than trusting her. She's really clear about what she wants so you need to decide if you are going to let her have you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
You are not in a mutually exclusive relationship and this pledge was just to show you how she felt about you. You can never trust an addict, of any sort, to follow through with a promise like that. Bottom line is she wants more than FWB and you have to make a decision whether you want to give up your marriage and family for this girl who will want more and more from you. The ball is in your court. She is not happy, you are not happy and your family will suffer the consequences. Sounds like you have bitten off more than you can chew. Good luck! SF
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RHP User
12 years ago
she said she was addicted to sex and now she has proved it....not so addicted to only you it would seem....and er...how can a relationship be semi open You is sure a busy man Mr.Coops...love it
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RHP User
12 years ago
she didn't ''lie''she just wasn't able to keep a promise...and she did tell you....now I think your pride is hurt....I hear the sound of one shoe dropping.
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RHP User
12 years ago
The relationship I have with this woman is not and never would be exclusive even if I was married to her.. We are 2 very similar people and knowing she fucks other men has always been a massive turn on for me... And she knows that and we have also had other guys join us... Her fucking other men is not the issue... It's her saying one thing and doing another... It's not the sex with other men part that upset me.. In fact I love that about her and I never asked her to do this... It's just her not being able to follow through with her plan.. To me that is a sign of weakness and she told me face to face many times that she wants to do this as a way of bonding even closer, and when I said she wouldn't last she promised over and over she could do it When I say I'm going to do something, I do it, so it casts doubts on anything she might say in future... These are problems from an advanced kinkster point of view lol we have both been very heavy in the Perth sex scene ... Semi open relationship means that my wife and I fuck, we also have group action, 3sums, she has had past one on one lovers... I Fuck who I want but don't tell her who, how often or what we do... My wife might tell me she has a lot on and to jump on Rhp to find sex etc... Or when I travel for business she tells me to have Rhp fun... She just doesn't want any details or to be flaunted in front of her.. So yes, it's open, but not so much in front of each other and not as emotional as this one has turned out to be! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
The answer is no. When an addict tells you they are going to quit, go cold turkey.... Usually they can't do it. It's a drug they can't resist. So when it comes to her being exclusive to you for any length of time... Then no, you can't believe that she will do that. That doesn't mean she won't follow through on other promises though. But only time will tell.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'coops14' Because she saw black and blue she would do it and didn't... So next time she swears on her life she will do something, can I believe her or will I always have doubt now... That's what I'm referring to Quoting 'Meeka100' The answer is no. When an addict tells you they are going to quit, go cold turkey.... Usually they can't do it. It's a drug they can't resist. So when it comes to her being exclusive to you for any length of time... Then no, you can't believe that she will do that. That doesn't mean she won't follow through on other promises though. But only time will tell. Addicts aren't the best at keeping promises, especially the ones relating to their addiction. Like Meeka said, it doesn't mean she'll break other promises, only time will tell..I still fail to see how what she did is so bad though. You didn't ask her to do this, she volunteered. Maybe she was trying as much for herself as you, did you consider that?
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RHP User
12 years ago
But the fact she failed must cast doubts on everything else she says?? How can I take her word as gospel when her word meant nothing on this one? I didn't want her to stop fucking other men, that's one thing that attracted me to her.. But now she has suggested it, and promised, I wanted her to do it... It would have galvanised what we had... The fact she could achieve something so hard for me.. What man wouldn't be flattered... Now it's a let down. - Posted from rhpmobile
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