RHP

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Lost and found ?

June 15 2010

I dont want to be too narky but are people here really lost or looking for someone or something to make their lives better..? WHY? We get offended by randoms ..I mean who the fcuk are they anyway ..Go to a Melb drinks night or a Stalky night and meet nice people..Why get offended by someone you havent met and is probably naked tapping on a keyboard !! Or am i just getting narky in my old age !

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You are not getting narky in your old age lol. I think that with the internet being the only communication outlet for alot of people that it is easier to get offended. I used to allow people to upset me in chat rooms and in messages (and I emphasise the word "allow" as it amazed me how people that did not know me would attack me in such a way. I recall having 2 girls that hated me when I met them at Yahoo drinks (they always believed they were the most attractive ones on there and only liked "fat" girls turning up) that they started a rumour that I did not have custody of my kids and that Welfare came and took them away and that I had a different man at my house every night (which is a bit difficult as noone, not even friends I have made over the net know where I live) oh and the best one was that I had been in jail for murder (that cracked me up), while it was easy to laugh at some of the things they said .. some things are very hurtful and touch you on a personal level. I remember it got so bad that I was suicidal for a while (not nice when a whole chat room attacks you based on lies)! I ended up for my own sanity leaving that site all together!! People do attack people on here only to make themselves feel better or feel bigger about themselves...forgetting that it is a real human being on the other end of the message/chat. I woke up on Sunday and read my messages, there was one where a guy attacked me about my profile and my wants and don't wants. It had actually sent me to tears as I had a bad night (panic attacks) and didn't sleep well at all. People need to be nicer to each other on here and in chatrooms...as you don't know the mental fragility of the person on the other end. At times I wonder why I am even on here if it gets to be too much...but I love the forums too much now and am hooked on them and it brings me a great deal of hope and trust in humanity when people have REAL problems and others are always there with a kind word. And OMG some of you crack me up...especially Earl....I always get a smile on my face when I read his posts. People, just count to 10 before sending a nasty message and think how you would feel if all this shit happened to you. xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    You are never narky Taipan!!!! You were a pleasure to meet!!!! Not looking for someone to make my life better at all. I am all good with my life. Probably need to investigate who you are actually dealing with. I am sorry that you have been offended by some random...sad really Although have been known to type on keyboard naked under blanket but all real!!!! Live life happily (i know you do) and attract the nice kind. xxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have been reading alot of the threads and different topics recently and i have noticed a trend ..Alot of negative responses to peoples messages and getting upset by a random etc is what i was eluding too. I have had great contact with basically everyone i have exchanged messages with etc...I havent played in the forum much recently work has been tieing my down and spanking me !! But having looked at whats been written lately had me alittle concerned for my forum friends..When is the next drinks night !!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    So that's where I've been going wrong?*lip quiver* I feel so unclean *slowly undresses*For me, if I cop abuse in the cyber world, I assume they have the social skills of a maternally enraged gorilla.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    no rope burn from being tied down at work I hope.....:) I do understand what you are saying about the forum content lately. It appears many randoms have forgotten their message manners as well. Wonder if it has anything to do with the weather? I may be red-carded for my next comment......I think the rhp gods do have something to do with the mood in the forum sandpit as well. There have been some very funny and entertaining posts over the past couple of months...eg, Donuts, Elephants individual States Meet & Greet nights postings, that rhp in their own unique wisdom have pulled. Sometimes these posts elicit some of the funniest banter in the forums. It appears rhp would rather have us all wallow in others ( who are brave enough to reveal their innermost feelings) angst and personal demons battle, rather than some light hearted, sexy word fun. Not able to answer when the next Sydney drinks night is.....cant find anything about it!!!!! lol I think Melbournes date is still to be set......stayed tuned. cheers all. intrigued & curious

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Taipan12'When is the next drinks night !! Hehe... you might want to check 'events' for the next drinks nights... after reading @http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Sydney-Drinks-nights-28728Cheers... Mrs P' xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Conversations about what you can do with chocolate? Mmmm Mr Taipan I remember you inspiring some wicked imagery while I was pondering that one .. . . . . Mango madness . . . . yes Trish, you and I do share similar food choices . . . . . tasting the forbidden . . . . . Maybe we could start a thread on "your concept of heaven" . . . mine is being out in the bush at a gorgeous house, eating healthy food, drinking tasty beverages (both alcoholic and non) having wonderful conversations with beautiful people as we explore nature . . .and then each other! A place where there is no room or need to be narky or rude to others. Heaven . . . here on earth! WILDly dreaming

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    shit I hope you are not in old age if so I am done delt and gone realy who cares if its anyone ot everyone people in here are friendly and careing so just take what you are offered and be thankfull and if you finally meet the person you are searching for then good for you andy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hi Taipan Yes I agree - I don't get offended by the some of the dicks that write to me - I don't know them, will never meet them so couldn't be bothered wasting my energy getting worked up about anything they might write to me. Although I will admit to being amazed at some men's audacity . Men are definitley weird sometimes. But I am with Roxy (where are you ?) I like to have fun with some of them when I am in the mood. Is it fair game to be a bitch when you get a really offensive stupid message? Hehehe makes me laugh sometimes. Meeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I have heard of a good trick which includes a mango, a penis, a hand and a mouth which leads to a yummy mango suprise! Mmmm haven't tried that yet!! Mango milkshake anyone?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    hello Meeka you beautiful woman....yes playing with the idiots is fun....who are they to say i should or shouldnt be here and if they are silly enough to tell me i shouldnt...il take them down hehehe....i love RHP its soooo much fun but i have been known to have a go or 2, maybe more, whoops, in the forums, but i will defend when i think someone has said the wrong thing, if i think it was crual and unjust....but i will also appoligise to that person for stuffing their thread and being out of line...not that that makes it right RHP we really need a delete button sometimes...just for me , to shut me up haha next drink night from what i know is end of July in Sydney...whoo hooo Wayne roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I was thinking that this morning about the delete button. Stupid me thought it was a post about people being mean on the net...but once again I typed without thinking and now wishing I could delete it. Oh well...live and learn. xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    RHP WE NEED A DELETE BUTTON PLEASE just for funloving and myself.....that would be good thanks lol roxxy