Looks, enthusiasm or experiences. Which do you prefer?

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  2more4fun

  16 years ago

  I think it has to be a combination of all three qualities for the perfect fit but I would rather an average looking newbie who will make the effort to meet people than amazingly good looking people who may be more experienced but can't get their act together to make a date with you (or at least be honest and let us know we're not a match etc.)So Looks are important but Enthusiasm always wins us over. Experience isn't necessary as we have found with some lovely newbies we've met recently :DMaybe Honesty needs to go in there too?

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  "Like someone??" ~ Some kind of connection is important for me. I may not know or appreciate what the connection is, but I should sense it.  One thing is certain for me, we are all products of our experiences and these influence our choices. People talk about a paranormal aura as if it's some kind of crackpot thery... but the reality is that our minds do generate tiny little currents of electricity... we can test for them using an ECG. So I look at my mobile phone and it connects to a satelite wirelessly.... a little bit of electrical energy. This makes me wonder why it isn't possible that our minds do in fact generate an aura of electricity that, just like positive and negative currents... can attract or repel. Don't you ever sense "I know what you are thinking?" It could of course be co-inciidental. But certainly we are attracted to others by our various senses .. the sense of smell for instance.. we are attracted by pheremones just like any other animal even if we don't recognise it at the time... and we have all met someone we instantly take a dislike to.. or a liking to... even if we don't know why. We just sense it. Maybe our minds do generate electrical fields that, when two people are close enough interfere with each other in some way.. influence each other and we sense it. Maybe not.  But personally I think "connections" with other people are fascinating and when I sense them, I try to persue them to discover the mystery of the conneciton with that person. Sometimes I find uncanny experiences in common. Spooky huh. Warm hugs Gazza.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Looks come first.. Think about it if were not attracted to someone we don't approach them. Say your in your fave club n see a few singles who do you talk to or start flirting with..Scruffy,smelly badly dressed.. Or the well dressed person that actually seems to take pride in there appearance.. Enthusiasm.. Hmm well I don't think anyone wants a 2 minute wonder that would rather get it over n done with just to go watch the footy game with a few beers.. It's nice to receive what you give. lol.. Experience.. Personally I'd rather not know what they've done and with who.. Hell each to there own.. Whatever floats your boat..

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  ...but there has to be something else there too. In day to day life, and on this site, there are heaps of spunky hot guys, but when you try to engage them in a conversation you get very little back, and i lose interest very quicky. So would say looks are importance, but brains, personality, kindness, experience, lust for life, these are the things that truly "turn me on."   Of course, everyone is different....

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Its lovely to be with someone with nice looks, but truly the sexiest aspect of someone I find is their how they carry themselves. I will always be sucked in by a smile.... makes me melt.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  I'm not much of a looker myself although I usually punch above my weight in that category. In my experience looks will probably get you talking to a girl, but past the initial attraction phase an enthusiastic girl is a lot better in the sack than a stunner that's just going through the motions.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  You I need it so lets meet

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