M41 F35
Looking for what they call a Cuckcake
February 04 2023
I do find it very difficult in finding anyone who would be happy to be a Cuckcake for us. I have stated that I would be happy to meet with the chick first (over coffee), so she can see I am a legit cuckquean but so far no luck.
We have even had a 3 sum with another chick, which was great and I would consider being apart of another 3sum (with someone I'm comfortable with). But finding that person, people seem to be sceptical.
I know people say that unicorns pick the people, not the couples picking the unicorn, but is there anything I can do, or say in our profile that would help us achieve my fantasy? Its so frustrating and quite depressing all the rejections.
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nightingale8
a year ago
Sounds like you’re doing alright. At parties you get to watch, and you get to hear all about his sexy escapades (and don’t lie you get to f*ck him well at the end of his date night I’ll bet). Next step would be for him to ask his date if you can come and watch, no? Of course in these cases you don’t get to negotiate the sex between her and him, for him. That part is definitely fun and a shame to miss out on.
RHP User
a year ago
I currently have two married lovers who are ENM. The wife of one, plays with other guys. The wife of the other is celibate atm.
Even though I’ve had a few FMF’s and FFM’s, I have to admit that meeting a couple where the woman just sits and watches me have sex with her husband, would be confronting. It’s not one of my Kinks and I would feel uneasy.
I think you’d have more success if your husband was able to establish a healthy relationship with a woman, and then introduce the idea of you watching after a few ‘plays’.
Just my 2¢ worth.
But I suspect that there are plenty of women who DO have this Kink, but don’t live in your state or just haven’t come across your profile.
Swingers Meets/Groups may be another way to find potential Unicorns who would be open to the idea. 🥰😈
madotara69
a year ago
Try tossing the idea too the BDSM community, it might be appealing to the Dom Submissive arrangements, you might get roused on by a Dom calling his or her Sub a chick. That’s ok though, don’t get upset or offended, it’s great for you, it means they are contemplating some conditions, from that point onward probs best to listen and answer questions by finding meanings in support you can’t give wrong answers only more questions as you become disciplined accordingly and if reaching trust the most important of meanings, then you stand with reasonable enjoyment in meeting a very respectable community and lifestyle where watching your husband fucking disciplined chicks responding to how far you set any boundaries and you might not know yet yourself, then you will see the relationship with Dom/ submissive discipline and trust unconditional into extremes and beyond becoming someone you would never be by yourself,
Maybe you might take apprentice to learning the dominant and discipline meanings come naturally and quite the prodigy where Doms take part in teachings and philosophical wisdoms as to discipline’s all a special place to to what ends of destinations in duty of care you your husband fucking subs into the extremes as Doms Dom to Doms Dom to Doms Dom and make sure your husband keeps up with fluids, dehydration becomes very dangerous very quickly and you need him in peak physical condition especially if your wishes become fruitful and goes viral, then exhibitions at sexpo and onlyfans cosplay maybe even Jerry Springer celebrity status and porn parodies, but hey watching hubby fuck chicks like he’s your very most favourite porn star in 3D and it was the demand for porn and dirty fuckers like you two and the rest of us here, in such demand high speed internet wide band was developed and knocked the wheel 🛞 into 2nd most demanded.
Mado
Mado Tara xx
EtherealMagician
a year ago
When you are chasing something specific it gets harder to find.
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FeistyFatty
a year ago
I've had this from a couple of ENM wives before. Have done and didn't enjoy the dynamic of her interaction at all to be honest and it then broken down the entire FWB "relationship" I had with their hubby's. My suggestion would be as a couple.... Meet another couple..... Discuss straight up and gauge their interest.
I really found their presence to be quite deflating to the situation. Especially when our meets had been very intense and mutually fullfilling prior to. Both wives "enjoyed" themselves but I certainly went home to my gorgeous hubby with a WTAF did I waste my night for moment...... Both times lol.
Parties and clubs are totally different scenario though so that I can say in a positive way. You stated you already go to parties etc so my reco would be just continue that or hire an escort to live out your fantasy 😊Sawadee
a year ago
Never really thought about it til now ? Mrs S never wanted to go solo with the few adventures she had ? So if l wasnt nearby' it wouldnt happen.. ( her request )
Thinking back she certainly didnt hold back and was out to enjoy every moment.. Even smileing and giving me the thumbs up as it all happened.. so my presence was not a issue,. ? l cant speak for the guy .. maybe he felt different ' I dont know ? But now its been bought to my attention " l think it could be abit off putting...
Didnt bother me when l had the pleasure with holidaying couple overseas... Hubby looked on and encouraged wife all the way, not that she needed it ...
MrandMrsEss
a year ago
I hear you OP, people don’t seem to think the cuck thing can go the other way. Mrs S is a huge voyeur and if asked what turns her on most it is watching me with another woman. We have never done that solely in a play session as we love onto all in play but I have met on my own with a few ladies and she loves hearing about it. What I love about that is her packing my bag and sending me off with a kiss and a huge cheeky smile!
As another person suggested it may be better looking within the fetish community. I have recently focused my efforts there and am finding some really supportive people and it doesn’t seem to be as scary as I initially thought.RHP User
a year ago
This is something that's interests me if you ever venture down my way X
newperthcouple12
a year ago
Happy to share my wife with you both if I can watch tho
Nushtwo
9 months ago
Same frustration with our sef as well. We had a bi unicorn in SL but over here i dont where we even start.
we have been in this life style for three or more years and we tried many things and now we have our own set of interests. So my wife into cuckqueaning. she loves me to have sex infront or her or just go out with another couple or girl. We sometimes love to watch other people having sex while just touching ourselves and thats it. She lost her interest of another men lately. Anyway we have been in RHP also but i feel like whenever we shared our interests people got suspicious. Is it not normal to have girl a cuck fantasy ?
She also enjoys me to fuck other people and tell every single detail to her and stimulate her verbally. I loved thay too. i know i have a perfect hall pass and that any mans dream! But how should i approach it?
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