RHP

RHP User

M54 F52

"Looking for somebody naughty to chat with. Let's get this party started." Hmmmmm. Is this real?

May 13 2022

We just posted in datefinder and find many couples list "Looking for somebody naughty to chat with..." Are many on here just looking for chat sex on a weekend night? Is this cause of COVID? Or maybe it's the default button to click when datefinder is filled out? Are people just chatting. Or are couples playing in person? Chatting certainly surely doesn't sound like getting a party started. It sounds like church.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Soooooo many people just want to talk dirty. There’s also plenty who want to hook up but I’m don’t play as part of a couple so I’m not sure about that side of things.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    4 years ago

    Click to view content

  • Grant1987

    Grant1987

    4 years ago

    I like to actually meet the person I talk to then have the fun. Where is the fun of just talking

  • JamesandLynda

    JamesandLynda

    4 years ago

    We get dozens of requests a day and she is only really interested in having a look on a weekend after a glass of wine. My wife likes to have a chat then fool around while talking about it. The next time she chats with that person usually leads to an exchange of pics or clips at which point she asks for and shares face pics. If that goes well it can lead to an invite to meet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Who would know! But our experience is they have no intention of meeting in person. We also find its not really a couple at all its just a guy. And that's why we don't bother with online video chats. Also we recently met a woman who put up a date. A woman who is active in the scene and a genuine lovely person. We were the only couple who responded. She told us we were the first actual couple she met. Before it had always been just the guy with the usual excuses about the wife. Its rampant on here and a reason we stick to verified couples profiles. Also she showed us the list of men who responded. Several were guests with no photos, Others were nowhere near where she lived. There were about 2 local to her and neither of them responded with messages. Bottom line - the site is full of men who somehow imagine they can wank on cam or pretend to be couple and think they will get lucky. We used to enjoy the odd MFM but just stopped as so many men waste your time. Ironically its the women on here who are much more likely to be the real deal.

  • Hiluxman1

    Hiluxman1

    4 years ago

    Sometimes the chat and flirting is enough connection for some. However some people like the social aspect much like the thrill of the chase or a erotic novel. Just a thought

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I see it all the time on guys' profiles. I'd say it' just an automatic default option that comes up.

  • loveYOURpleasure

    loveYOURpleasure

    4 years ago

    It is the default option - and presumably dates from peak covid isolation times. I’m not sure that many people would even see that it can be edited to be honest.

  • missedbythatmuch

    missedbythatmuch

    4 years ago

    I thought I would indulge a young ladies request to chat, her partner was coming home soon so we were chatting and i asked for a face photo. Ended up not getting one under the assumption I would "Use it", you have to guess why because I'm not sure either. Anyway I said it was simply to know it wasnt a guy making out he was a young woman. The odd thing is next day I noticed the profile had gone from attached to single. Red Flag,!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    As a couple we love to chat and flirt with others and we love to watch each other flirt with others (singles or couples) and we do meet for fun times but it is hard for a working couple with kids to find the time for that to happen, we have been know to even take days off work for fun days... I can't speak for all couples because I know half of them are either fake and or just the male half trying his luck but as a genuine couple who both get on here and search and flirt with others and Do meet for fun when time permits you just have to be patient and respect that said couple have lives and will try and squeeze you in when they can... (pun intended 😜) ... in saying that if your in the area and interested don't be shy to make contact.

  • melbcpl01

    melbcpl01

    4 years ago

    When we use date finder we always edit the site listings for what we seek . Only take a minute to put in a bit of effort