Local meets

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Oh hun best of luck with finding someone wanting more than a quick fuck by the side of the road down there.   I have a lovely friend who is in Launceston also and she travels to meet people its just a lot easier.   My other is in a small town also and when she was looking for new playmates she would come to Sydney. She decided the travel was worth it and the time in between meets gave her a chance to get to know someone first.   Best of luck - I think youre going to need it   Kisses Focus

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Having spent alot if my life in small towns and regional cities, I understand the problem all too well. As an outgoing person I became quite well known around town and couldn't get away with anything and the things I supposedly did were much better/worst than real life. I can only agree with the advice of Focus if your worried about your reputation in your community. The small minded love to gossip. Good luck

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  is similar to living in a small town so I sympathise.Travel out of your local area is definitely your best option or meet people who are prepared to travel to you.x R

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Well, if your up for a quick road trip then Hobart is always an option. We're not that far away…

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I need to take a holiday to launceston. The small town prejudices are sometimes hard to overcome. However, I remain true to my other statements I have said in the past. I grew up in a small town, and to be honest I live by the theory, that people who concern themselves with others lives clearly have no life themselves, and it should be taken as a compliment. You're not only finding what you want, you're actually doing something about it, more than what you can say about those who wish snark and carry on like 2 year olds. Just my thoughts. Chris

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  thanks everyone for confirming my thoughts. Travel on my side or theirs would be best. LOL Focus! I don't think it's quite that bad, but I'll let you know - it's early days yet!For me, it wouldn't be just gossip, which I dealt with when I was younger and can handle, but it could, no, would effect my business and reputability. hardtruckin, if you're heading down this way, let me know! and bullintheheather, message me!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  …that Tasmania is a small place population-wise, so travelling will just have be part of the equation if you're going to meet new people. I think that if you put in that extra effort to meet someone then the time you share just becomes that more fulfilling and exciting. And yes, this is just a back handed way of saying that I have no problem with travelling to Launceston… ;-)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Hi Madam,   I'm with Focus.   I knew someone who moved from Sydney to Ulverstone (in the North West of Tassie). We would talk and i specifically asked her how were the guys there. She used to tell me how difficult it was because most of the guys were country freaky and only after quickies. Then also the obvious small community so everyone knows everyone type environment.   Probably the travel option to meet is the better choice or guys from outside of Launceston.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Even Perth is small and you would be surprised how often you can run into a friend of a friend of a guy you have been bonking. I do not bring home new lovers at all, but will with my regular lovers once we get in the swing of things and I trust them. Nosey neighbours can be a problem. I find that my sex life is good for my business, as I just say I am getting clients from various date sites etc. No body in their wildest dreams would think I am actually screwing my models or other hot men that just happen to fall into my bed at the studio.   I also never ever acknowledge a person in public that I know them. People in small towns gossip, I remember sitting in the hairdressers and the woman behind me was talking about my cafe and how the owner ( me) who she did not know was fucking the chef.   Not true and I was married with small kids and my chef was the same. My hair dresser was mortified but I just put my finger to my lips for her to not say anything, and I just enjoyed the fairy story.   Gossip will not affect your business, unless you do something illegal. Taking lovers is fine, as you just go into the deny mode and look all outraged if someone says something. water of a ducks back   But overall, they come to me. I just do not bother to travel for sex, no need to.   Most men will take the long hot horney drive even for a one night stand. Lets face it , most are a one night stand anyway , well that’s always my intention but the little fuckers keep coming back

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  tuscanred, thankyou! You sound like the kind of woman I could really relate to. The nature of my business means my reputation must remain totally squeaky clean. Now, if I were an artist, I would be expected to engage in a little debauchery. Hmmm, that gives me an idea! And, you must be a helluva woman!

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  Like Focus said I travel to meets. Dirty weekends are GREAT!!!! Sydney guys are the nicest around. Avoid Melbourne, the men are no good there......I've traveled all round Tassie hunting and the men here are only after quickies, which is fine if that's what you're after. But quickies are no fun ALL the time......good luck Roxxy :-)

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  One would not need to worry about such things, but unfortunately it is in people's nature to gossip, and should you be unfortunate to meet someone that wants more or things don't quite work out then the outcome could be disasterous, at least if it is a stranger from out of town they don't know as much about your ins and outs(so to speak) and only have to assume and presume, people will gossip anyway, that is the nature of the best but when it is closer to home, well... you don't know if the other person will be resentful and want to create problems even if it means fabricating the truth.

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  13 years ago

  "the men here are only after quickies,"     I had a couple to day, and was a lot of fun Forgot my morning coffee so it was a good pick me up. Before my early morning meetings. Had the three o’clock energy slow down, so another quick me up before my four o’clock meeting Same guy I tell ya , girls nothing like a quick me up between meetings And your right, as an Artist we are supposed to be a tad unconventional, though people think I am just kidding when I joke around re lovers Its my respectable middle aged woman disguise , all Julie Andrews and heavens to Betsy that’s my disguise. I am having so much fun

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  I'd make a trip :p I've never been to tassie, and the postcards I've seen make it look so nice.

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  13 years ago

  A simple rule of thumb for a woman is choose someone who has more to lose than you. If you meet up with someone who also has a reputation to uphold the chances are they will be discreet and compiant. I know this narrows the field greatly but it's a good starting point.

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