M41 F42
Live in play mate
June 02 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
A concubine. Like you might feel like you own her in some way, or she might feel that. Would she be free to come and go as she pleased? Would she be allowed to say no to playing if she didn't want to? Could she bring other people home and play alone with them? Etc. I dont understand the motivation for having her live in. As I wonder what her motivation would be. If it's the opportunity to get free accommodation etc, in exchange for sex, that sounds a lot like prostitution. If its to create a loving, committed emotional and physical three-way relationship, then that sounds a lot like polyamory. Both of those could work, I guess. Or maybe a Dom/sub thing? Anything in the middle though, surely you could just call her up and e could come around when you wanted to play, or vice versa? Too many questions and no answers!! Sorry I couldn't be more helpful :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Bound to be someone looking for what you seek, but the more niche your requirements then so it becomes more of a needle in a haystack search.Hard to know because your profile is still pending.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've been offered this arrangement by two different couples on here since I joined, and it just screams out 'live in prostitute' to me. I was offered my own suite of rooms, my own car and freedom to do what I liked during the day, on the condition I give them sex whenever they wanted. You're going to have a hard time finding a lady friend who will agree to that type of arrangement, as there are a lot of safety and security issues involved (as far as she knows, you may be locking her in the attic).
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RHP User
14 years ago
Might work just dandy in some Hollywood movie but as has been said - you're "nicely" advertising for a prostitute! You're providing goods in exchange for sex. But you're young and maybe can't see the trees for your wood..., I'm old and jaded..... You move Ms Perfect On-Call Fuck in. Goes great for a few weeks. She does something that irks you. You decide it's game over. You nicely explain to her that it's just not working out and ask her to move out. She moves her biker boyfriend and 4 kids in, smiles sweetly at you and slams the door in uour face. Now you got yourself a fully paid for, fully furnished, non-paying tennant you can't legally boot out for a loooooooong time. Good luck with that! Thinking with wrong head sunshine....
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RHP User
14 years ago
Perhaps you might want to reconsider your priorities.Do you primarily have a need for help and companionship while your husband is away? You say you have children,bringing anyone into your family situation will also impact on them,and in my opinion you need to put thier needs first.It is important to clarify the role that anyone you live with, will have in the lives of your children,eg child minding. Are you seeking a woman who is bi,what are the expectactions you have of her when you are with ,or without your husband in terms of a sexual arrangement? You may be hoping and expecting for all of your needs to be filled by one person when in fact there maybe another solution. It is becoming more common for families to employ a nanny,a live-in nanny to provide help and support with the children. You could then think about your sexual requirements in a far less limiting way, thus avoiding what maybe be a very ,very,tricky situation. Of course you might find the perfect woman to meet all your needs,someone who is sexually attracted to both you and your husband,who gets on splendidly with your children and who isn't manipulative or jealous .A woman who doesn't mind being kept, and who will fulfill your sexual desires. Good luck in your search x Hugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
Eeeewwww.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yep, all great points people and definitely something to think on! We've changed our profile back to a more 'regular' one now lol. Thanks for everyone's feedback!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Be careful what you wish for. I agree with some of the above concerns. I'd also like to point out another concern. If you DID find someone who was willing to give this a burl, would it all go smoothly? I see great potential for drama and catastrophe. In fact I find it hard to come up with a situation more likely to end in tears. There are a lot of friends-with-benefits arrangements that end in jealousy, separation, love triangles, hurt feelings, shattered confidence and screaming matches. That's with the female playmate not living in the same house as the couple. Share space, finances, food, cars, have family and friends visit the home... oh my. The chances of finding a willing woman are quite remote. But if you did, I wouldn't want to be in your position. Any woman who was eager to enter into an arrangement like that I personally would probably want to disqualify outright. Let's just say that I don't want to let drama into my life where it can be avoided. A woman who jumped at that sort of opportunity would be waving a heck of a lot of red flags for me. Good luck! You'll need it...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hi! We're an attractive couple, he's a tradesman, she left him to live with her ex, and we're looking for a submissive girl to move in, half a queen bed, bills and all meals provided. Must be good at cooking, cleaning and have a strong back. She'll be away most of the time, in fact you'll never meet her, the bitch, but we may invite you to splay at all hours of the day and night. I'm not that unattractive. Occasionally watch a DVD together and you have to prop me up re: a) work stresses and why I'm not fulfilling my responsibilities to my clients, b) my issues with women and rope, c) how that relates to my relationship with my mother. In return I'll tell you you look great even when you don't. Please refrain from rejecting advances at bed time, as this usually leads to an hour of nagging, followed by huffing and restlessness which can disrupt sleeping patterns. Even if you only lick my nipples while I finger you and jerk off would be great. I'm not looking for a relationship.Also must be adept at unblocking toilets.RA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'RandomAgent'Hi! We're an attractive couple, he's a tradesman, she left him to live with her ex, and we're looking for a submissive girl to move in, half a queen bed, bills and all meals provided. Must be good at cooking, cleaning and have a strong back. She'll be away most of the time, in fact you'll never meet her, the bitch, but we may invite you to splay at all hours of the day and night. I'm not that unattractive. Occasionally watch a DVD together and you have to prop me up re: a) work stresses and why I'm not fulfilling my responsibilities to my clients, b) my issues with women and rope, c) how that relates to my relationship with my mother. In return I'll tell you you look great even when you don't. Please refrain from rejecting advances at bed time, as this usually leads to an hour of nagging, followed by huffing and restlessness which can disrupt sleeping patterns. Even if you only lick my nipples while I finger you and jerk off would be great. I'm not looking for a relationship. Also must be adept at unblocking toilets. RADoes it have to be a girl? I hate it when I tick all the boxes except one. What if I tuck?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'RandomAgent'Hi! We're an attractive couple, he's a tradesman, she left him to live with her ex, and we're looking for a submissive girl to move in, half a queen bed, bills and all meals provided. Must be good at cooking, cleaning and have a strong back. She'll be away most of the time, in fact you'll never meet her, the bitch, but we may invite you to splay at all hours of the day and night. I'm not that unattractive. Occasionally watch a DVD together and you have to prop me up re: a) work stresses and why I'm not fulfilling my responsibilities to my clients, b) my issues with women and rope, c) how that relates to my relationship with my mother. In return I'll tell you you look great even when you don't. Please refrain from rejecting advances at bed time, as this usually leads to an hour of nagging, followed by huffing and restlessness which can disrupt sleeping patterns. Even if you only lick my nipples while I finger you and jerk off would be great. I'm not looking for a relationship. Also must be adept at unblocking toilets. RA .That's an awfully good offer you've made there Random. But don't pick JG, pick me! I checked and I think I tick ALL of the boxes. Besides, I dug deeper and I reckon I'll "splay" better than him, which I note is a key requirement here. . I wanted to be absolutely certain I could please you in every way you specified and so I double-checked the splay bit: .. * Splay, a verb meaning slant, slope or spread outwards * Splay (physiology), the difference between urine threshold and saturation. . I'd like to think JG wouldn't begrudge me pushing in front of him on either front. I spread outward well and I have a urine threshold like you wouldn't believe! . Flirty x
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think JG will get the room. He'll travel and he is a good cook. And a doctor. Also men hold more urine. However: If you were to add watersports to your profile or offer a cash incentive, or both, I might reconsider. Competition closes 15/06/2012. RA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Not sure I want to finger him while I jerk off though...
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RHP User
14 years ago
I see the MR here is "Curious".. how about Mrs goes up to work on the mines.. and you both get a Fella in .. same arrangement? *smiles* cavey Not interested in the job though
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'Kinda like the Brady's doing Alice.Eeeewwww. awww gawd jensman... pass me the visual bleach damn it! ;P
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'RandomAgent'I think JG will get the room. He'll travel and he is a good cook. And a doctor. Also men hold more urine. True. And he is an excellent cook. I'm not so sure about the urine, but he certainly has less toilet stops than I do over long distances. However: If you were to add watersports to your profile or offer a cash incentive, or both, I might reconsider. Competition closes 15/06/2012. I'll give some thought to this and get back to you. Cash incentives are out of the question and I couldn't possibly put a price on my head *cough*, however I'll consider your offer.Not sure I want to finger him while I jerk off though... Nah, you know, the more I think about this conundrum of yours, the more I rather like the idea of you picking *more coughing* JG. Yep, I think I like it.Flirty x
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RHP User
14 years ago
so hot right nowRA
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'RandomAgent'Not sure I want to finger him while I jerk off though... I bet you do, but to be fair if you want to skip this part of the bargain I doubt I'll miss it.
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