Little bit nervous….looking for some advice

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  It's not fun if you're both not enjoying yourself. Take your time and do exactly what your profile says - enjoy meeting new people. When you do that, the rest follows. Make like-minded friends so that the play time you enjoy together becomes icing on your cake ;-) . Flirty x

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  If you're worried about posting photos as people may recognise you, simply dont post face shots or shots off your social networking profiles. We have a page of face pics in our private gallery we open to those we trust and would like to meet. And another page of "other" photos for the same reasons. Only do what you feel comfortable with first and foremost, and I hope you have fun with your choices :)

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  biggest tip I think is to look after your selves. Keep it all on an even keel keep the communication going between you. Trust your instincts after all they got well enough to this point right? Do not compromise your values nor principles. We can all be the young bull who races out and....time now to be the older bull....trust you - if your Ying = your Yang the world will be wonderful. SAx

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Quoting 'The_3somes'>If you're worried about posting photos as people may recognise you, simply don't post face shots or shots off your >social networking profiles. We have a page of face pics in our private gallery we open to those we trust and would >like to meet. And another page of "other" photos for the same reasons. Only do what you feel comfortable with >first and foremost, and I hope you have fun with your choices :) Good advise, once you post a photo it's our there forever in the wild. Make a photo good enough that someone can get an idea of your personality & looks, but not clear enough that someone would recognise you, I've seen some good profile pics on RHP where people are glancing over a shoulder etc and the photo is cropped above the nose, you give someone a smile and hint at personality, but hard to recognise someone from that...

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Keep your pics private until you feel secure with some one..........though a teaser is good.......no face.Enjoy and explore with your new lover.......he sounds great.Have you spoken to him about this voyage?........your desires?love Kx

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Trust your instincts.

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  RHP User

  11 years ago

  Thanks everyone! Really helpful advice… @snappyfishgirl- I have spoken to my partner about how I feel and what I want. Sometimes it feels a little daunting admitting fears, or even certain desires, but I found being honest and open about how I feel to be really beneficial. You have all been really helpful :) looking forwards to what 2015 may hold xx

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