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Life's strange at times
February 12 2014
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Whist I have started my new role at work... I put in some job offers in another state early December as I wanted to move. It was something I wanted always but couldn't because I wanted to give my daughter stability. Now she's finished school and about to leave the country. Well anyways I received 4 job offers. I came close with two and even negotiated wages and everything. Then this role at work was offered to me - so I accepted. It had been offered to me heaps of times before, but I had always said no. This time...I just said yes. I don't know why? Timing I guess. So here I am, still here. Yep sometimes it pours and sometimes it drys. As for meeting people etc from here, it's the same, sometimes it rains and other times it pours! There are some real beautiful people here, distance is going to always be an issue as the forums are Australia wide. Foxy Chin up Warning and I hope you find something real soon. XX
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RHP User
12 years ago
your in the box seat, employers do not head hunt anyone, particularly "global" a.k.a multinationals.They can pick the cream of the crop. Time to compromise on what you want. And yes it's always raining somewhere, just as there are "sexy ladies" everywhere. Life is odd, season's change, unfortunately a lot of people don't.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's a bit hard to follow rainbows when you are a single father of 12 kids!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
A dozen ruggies wasn't mentioned in the post so that's new info. Regardless. The assumption that a move may bring benefits was touted
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
Something good will come to you warning, you're a good man/father.....stay positive my friend.....💋
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'cwhereitgoes' A dozen ruggies wasn't mentioned in the post so that's new info. Regardless. The assumption that a move may bring benefits was touted I remember him mentioning it before in another post....... although I think it might be 6? Not sure but I know it's lots and lots.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bodacious_Tatas' Quoting 'cwhereitgoes' A dozen ruggies wasn't mentioned in the post so that's new info. Regardless. The assumption that a move may bring benefits was touted I remember him mentioning it before in another post....... although I think it might be 6? Not sure but I know it's lots and lots. To me it LOTS and LOTS...and 12 is just well "busy". Now I see a different light, like cwhereitgoes. You'll need a huge shoe warning to live in. Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
You're getting offers for work and lovely ladies miles away from your 12 kids...... tough one..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I hear you brother. Somehow my problems feel a little benign after contemplating your situation. You'll have regrets whichever way you go ? Leaving your children early is a big one but so is letting fleeting opportunities pass by uncontested. Without knowing any details ... if the children can be left with their mother while you regather yourself on your own you will have a much better chance of finding love again and securing a good job ... no decent woman would begrudge you the opportunity to spend time with your kids. I find these rock and hard place situations can be a blessing in disguise sometimes and force you to make uncomfortable decisions. If you are happy so will your children be ... and visa versa. “Nothing has a stronger influence psychologically on their environment and especially on their children than the unlived life of the parent.” ― C.G. Jung
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sweetgem
12 years ago
We can't see nor predict what lies ahead! But what we can do is be strong, positive and always keep smiling regardless of what comes our way. Things always happen for a reason, so if something don't work out now, it's just not the right timing yet :-) Keep smiling Warning69, good things come to those who are patient and have a good heart :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
God no not 12 kids hell I'd die lol I have six children n wldnt change that part for anything :)) 4 sons with 2 already left home living life :) 2 daughters that are simply to young to leave n to old to make the move... Yes head hunted is good feeling and yes I will stand proud to say I'm good at what I do (deff not the best) I've changed heaps n have a already spent many years moving around n living in many states but now single with kids it's all different
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I've been thinking about your post, and came back to reread it this morning. You said if you took a job offer and moved you would be on your own and not keen to do that, and then you went on to talk about women on here. Can I ask.....is it a fear of being on your own? Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
To answer you question with complete honesty here. Yes I guess I don't want to be alone but I meant it more as being alone without my baby's even tho two have left home ? I live my life for my baby's as many people do? I have oftern gone without things just to give each child a smile :)) My front yard is filled every day with laughters of children at play (I'm proud I have a safe haven) that's what would kill me the most is the silence of my life or rather my purpose in life as a father :)
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
OH OK... I understand.. I guess no one wants to be alone with out their babies. :( I've got that in two weeks time, my only baby going to live in another country. I too live my life for her, go without sometimes, make decisions based around her. I depend on her and she depends on me. It is now it is time for me to live my life, a new chapter. I'm not looking forward, to that silence coming home tho. That will suck for a little while, but I do like my own company tho and being by myself. At the end of the day, as long as we (meaning her and I) are happy that is all that matters. :) I also believe, the only person who will make one happy is ones-self, not others. FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
The most important thing is your role as a father. I was a single mother for a long time and never dated at all, just to afraid to bring a strange man into their life and my home. I have good reason to be like this. I just sold all my paints all my canvas every thing it was worth a few grand but I sold it for some cash and some artwork.reason is that I have vertigo, and cant work big anymore. so in this case change gets forced on you, and you have to adapt. The up side is that now I have moved to a bigger house I take in lodgers, and yes men and they have all been busted wings, guys raw and out of a marriage , all with kids all a bit of a mess. so now two of them have found nice women and are moving to my other houses, so they will stay tenants and friends I hope. I got a nice guy move in yesterday and I think the poor lad will be exhausted as my girlfriends took one look at him and I could see their brains ticking over. I had to warn him but he just smiled and said , I am a big boy. what ever you do, try to stay where your children are, father roles are thin on the ground and they have to be constant.kids don't car that daddy went of to make lots of money so they could have a better life, that's just a lame excuse to go have a better life for yourself. stick at being a dad, even if you miss out on a lot of material things. Kids without a dad are like little ships without a rudder, sure mum is steering the boat the best she can but every person needs the balance of male influence in their life, especially positive influence. If a guy does a shit job same for a woman then kids are better off without them. yes life is odd and takes you to places and circumstances you never dreamt you would have in your life RHP is one of those things for me, and I have loved every minute of it thanks to the men that changed who I am as a woman. I am so ripe with sensuality I am almost falling off the vine.
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