Lets be realistic here people

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I DO expect respectful attitude that is numero uno for me - as for HUGE COCK well ummmm errrrrr ............

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Yes of course I expect all that!!! lol But realistic or not, its those washboard abs and perky boobs that we see every day on TV & mags. And since RHP is the world of fantasies it makes sence that people think that that is what they want. But chemistry can cover a whole world of ills *evil grin* So we think meeting face to face is best:) Some people just dont photograph that well. Speaking as a 20 something female who has born 2 big headed boofs, I can say that it gets easier to live as you are as you get older. You get more accepting of your body being what it is. My only whinge is that I didnt come to the realisation earlier...Oh the naughty things I could have gotten up to if only I had realised that my body wasnt half bad! And if only I had known what child birth would do to my body! eekkkk!!! Heidi Klum has a lot to answer for! I agree with Sweetiepie too! The ongoing love of a good man does wonders for selfesteem. We have entered the world of swinging knowing what we offer. If you dont like it...well thats your loss! love & kisses Mrs H!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  So true guys, im athletic not slim and my muscles are developed more than your average girl, but i am who i am and i am happy with that, i am not drop dead gorgeous but average, again im happy with that. My comments about what we really want is more aimed at the singles, couples should be happy and devoted top each other and know that when you invite more to play that at the end of it all you still be there for each other, but all you single people take note, you will not get all that you seek but be grateful and happy with what you get. Love comes from within not whats on the outside, and inner beauty is what counts most

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I'm an odd one I think, sex appeal doesn't take any particular shape, colour or look for me. Some women turn me on, others don't. Who has a full time job and kids and can find enough time to exercise 3 hours a day and prepare healthy low fat foods in order to have a washboard tummy? I swim 2-5km a week and cycle anywhere between 200 and 500km a week and I don't have a washboard tummy and I'm a very healthy eater (just have portion control problems lol) I think all the obsessing over hot bodies and the focus on sex in the chatrooms robs us of what could be a much more enlightening interaction between people. Imagine if we focused on what came out of peoples mouths, their ideals and opinions..... We would either go to war or all end up in bed together.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Although I've only popped in once to discover that the power saving light globe in kitchen really doesn't offer enough light to make the webcam feasible. The people in there were friendly enough even though I am obviously a bit useless in chat room situations. I'm a chubby girl recently come to terms that my fat bits can be sexy (not to everyone's taste, but that's cool not everyone is to my taste either). I've found men of all different shapes attractive but really, as always, it's what is in between the ears that gets me off the most (oh and big hands to put around my neck would be nice too). Anyway, I digress, if I was going into chat and putting on a show anyone with anything negative to say to me directly would just get blocked. No-one needs to watch me if they don't want to see a naked fat girl. I certainly would never tell anyone else that they weren't my cup of tea, I just wouldn't watch them. Do people really say such things to the cam participants?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I have been called SPECIAL ,,,,,,,,, but that is by the kids when I am clowning around and it dosent fit with their look on life ...Other than that Mr Average here and happy to be that as I take everyone as they come so if they do right by me then I will be friendly in return Andy

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  And whilst I do see some pretty derogatory comments made mostly by a few fringe people or new people, think of the 19 year old guy scenario, most people are pretty good to each other..........but I'll tell you the perpetual victims in there who are constantly talking about how fat/thin they are and that they're not happy with the body they've got, are really starting to shit me, and I am pretty laid back. If something is said that is not perfectly politically correct these perpetual victims are all over the culprit like it is a crime against humanity............and lets face it........its a chat room and humour plays a large part of the chat........................whether its funny or not is another matter, and if it goes beyond the person is normally pulled up pretty quickly anyway.....................

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I don’t expect anything .. some of the things you mentioned are a big turn on for me .. But I tend to find myself attracted to a particular looks and attitude. I can’t tell you exactly what that may be but I know when I find it

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  fashion shows both men & women can get exactly what has been mentioned at the top of the page, of course, all us normal people want you to go, so that when you're all there, we can meet up everywhere else...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Photos are nice but you can't do much with a photo-least I can't although I'm certainn some gentlemen on her might... Be nice-practice what your mum/nanna taught you if you can't say anything nice-say nothing.. My opinion is if you have to excise someone else's dignity to get off-you have more problems than any physical deficits you may perceive in another... Just because someone's attracted to you doesn't mean you have to go there, just because you are attracted to someone doesn't mean you are automatically eligible for entry-just because you're not attracted to someone doesn't mean no one else will-it is only your opinion.. If your fat rolls worry you don't spend half an hour crying-spend 15minutes per day doing some crunches Bad teeth-put the bleaching treatment on in while your typing Sexually inexperienced - get a sex manual and read it-though I'd suggest some of these men stop watching porn and start watching/reading what women like-if you don't know and love women-you For women/men that are particularly harsh or judgemental at others I suggest you go to hunkdujour/victorias secret unless you could be featured on either-which is less than 5% of the population a suggestion is you be nice. Yesterday's hunk was jonathon rhys meyers-so unless you're him showing up to meet me-or any other girl I suggest you be nice-at worst say you are nervous and you can't go through with it...

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Photos are nice but you can't do much with a photo-least I can't although I'm certain some gentlemen on here might... Be nice-practice what your mum/nanna taught you if you can't say anything nice-say nothing.. My opinion is if you have to excise someone else's dignity to get off-you have more problems than any physical deficits you may perceive in another... Just because someone's attracted to you doesn't mean you have to go there, just because you are attracted to someone doesn't mean you are automatically eligible for entry-just because you're not attracted to someone doesn't mean no one else will-it is only your opinion.. If your fat rolls worry you don't spend half an hour crying-spend 15minutes per day doing some crunches. Bad teeth-put the bleaching treatment on in while your typing Sexually inexperienced - get a sex manual and read it-though I'd suggest some of these men stop watching porn and start watching/reading what women like-if you don't know and love real women (even if you do not seek love)-you are less likely to attract them or really enjoy them.. Get a clue-observe, listen to what they speak about, the kinds of men they're into or admire-become that if you believe you are deficient-worst thing that can occur is that you improve the kind of man you are-wouldn't that improve the kind of woman you attract/associate with? Same goes with women-if your man doesn't feel like he's your king when you are with him (whatever you are doing)-what are you doing in his kingdom? Why be with a man that is beneath you (ie doesn't treat you like a Queen)-for an hour or however long the association? For women/men that are particularly harsh or judgemental at others I suggest you go to hunkdujour/victorias secret unless you could be featured on either-which is less than 5% of the population a suggestion is you be nice. Yesterday's hunk was jonathon rhys meyers-so unless you're him showing up to meet me-or any other girl I suggest you be nice-at worst say you are nervous and you can't go through with it... (Apologies for the repetition-bumped the post button by mistake before I'd finished the paragraph-must have been in an eyecandy diabetic coma over thoughts of jrm-NymphetamineDrm)

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