M42

Let's all be honest people!!

April 23 2012

Hi all! ( I apologise in advance for my english but I'm italian and english is only my second language)I've been on this site for quite a while now (on and off) and the thing that always jump up and really irritates me, and many others is the lack of honesty and respect for others.Differently from other dating sites, where most guys and some girls lie about being there looking for a relationship when all they are actually after is just an easy root, on here we all know that is what we are here for (sort of), BUT everyone is looking for something different so we should all respect that and if you don't fit the criteria and description of what the other is looking for please do the right thing and move on to the next profile, there are plenty of beautiful people on here and there sure is someone good for you, because all you will achieve by harassing people is that you create a bad name for yourself and end up missing your chances even with those that were possibly interested in you!The other thing that really gives me shit, and this goes out equally to boys and girls, why the hell do some of you have to lie about their looks?? What is the point of posting fake photos? what is the point about lying about your sizes ( by all means boys and girls )??? I don't understand what some of you are thinking, what are you going to achieve by pretending you're something you're not??? let me save you some time, all is going to happen is that you'll piss someone off and as mentioned before, you'll end up missing out on other real chances!!! Honestly, don't you think we realise you look nothing like your photos once you end up going to meet up( if that will ever happen as most times is quite easy to pick out the fake ones) ?? We don't all have all that time to waste so please do us a favour and be honest, be yourselves, be proud of the way you look, be confident, Confidence is sexy ;p be respectful and you'll be respected!!! Trust me, you'll get more action that way! ;pWe are all here to add a little bit more fun to our lives, is mostly a good community here and it will just keep getting better the more we all are nice, honest and respectful with each other!!Now, let's get back to the fun times!!!

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RHP User

14 years ago

Lots of people on here will do anything for an 'in' and that includes being deceptive and harassing people or lying about their looks. All I can say is that it must pay off for them better than being honest... or why else do it? Its easy enough to do online but we have been on here a while now and most people are deceptive on here in one way or another... I don't think that will change but it has put me off meeting people from here when I can't trust that what I see in the profile is what I will get...Mrs Fun

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RHP User

14 years ago

So much easier ?I really do agree, we can't change or expect others to change their ways just because we want them to though.It would be a very frustrating exercise to say the least , and for the most part there is a certain psychology behind the lies and trick photography.......ie: does the person really think that's the way they still look? why do they think someone won't notice in the flesh? are there some serious issues here? I mean where do you start?I guess the grown up thing to do would be to lead by example? Be honest and upfront yourself, ensure our pics are a true representation of us , and very importantly be respectful to one another no matter what we are looking for out of our time here. Every now and then on here I am so pleasantly surprised by a person that all the bad ones fall by the wayside (though I will still laugh about or at them when relevant lol) It's up to us whether we take the positives with us from a site such as RHP, nice people do NOT always finish last , that is only ever used by people who choose to take the negatives with them. I'll prove it by only remembering the good ones .DGT flollowing her own lead....over this way >>>>>>><<<<<<^^^^^^ Oh stuff it....I'll be in the bedroom

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RHP User

14 years ago

... just deleting the pic of Elle from my profile! All jokes aside I'm all for honesty, I just happen to believe it really is the best policy. Call me naive ... KK xx

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RHP User

14 years ago

an event

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RHP User

14 years ago

It is MY profile. I am on here for MY reasons and I wlil write, say, post exactly what I want and to hell with the rest of you, what you think or what you do. I have my own agenda. It may be that I am not looking for a quick root (as you so eloquently put it) Not even looking for a long root actually. I am here for the forums and only the forums. If I misrepresent myself then surely that is my business. I have no intention of meeting you. Get over it. Move right along to the next profile. This is right up there along with the ones on "I got stood up...again" The ones that stand you up are also on here for thier own agenda. Maybe they like the on line tease. Maybe they live vicariously through the on line messages and flirts, chats and it never is going to go any further anyway. Many of the people on here are not what they seem. The women may get a buzz through thier online popularity. Who knows.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I am not sure whether you had a question OP or if you were exhorting your fellow members to be honest .Unfortunately honesty can sometimes be subjective. Maybe you put in your profile 'attractive',I look at your photo and find it anything but attractive,so you haven't lied exactly,you genuinely believe you are attractive but not to me, you will however probably be attractive to others. If your photo is a fake,or ten years out of date then that is misleading, if you are hoping to meet people it matters,if you are just here for the forums,then who cares. Even so, current photos can sometimes be misleading,make us look better or worse than we appear in real life.It is only when we meet someone, that we really know if hey have portrayed themselves accurately. Yes it takes time energy and effort to sift and sort but hopefully the end result is that you connect with genuine people and make some new friends in the process. Instant soup this surely aint. Oh and if ya gonna say you are separated,unattached etc,might be a good idea to take the wedding ring off before you take that photo. x Hugs H

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RHP User

14 years ago

Not always a fairy tale.. Some a just fat and hairy and smoke and love to fart and eat chew food with thier mouth open... some are gym junkies weigh all thier meals and would rather take the bus than pollute the enviroment And others are just perfect ! Each to thier own i guess

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'wowwow11' Not always a fairy tale.. Some a just fat and hairy and smoke and love to fart and eat chew food with thier mouth open... some are gym junkies weigh all thier meals and would rather take the bus than pollute the enviroment And others are just perfect ! Each to thier own i guess have we met before?? Hugs

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