M47
Late Bloomer
January 07 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
exactly what you mean OP.Are you a 33 year old virgin?Why was your late sexual development beyond your control?Were you made to take a vow of celibacy at a very young age?Please explain
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RHP User
13 years ago
OP relax a little. It sounds like you are looking for love with a dirty mind. Do not concern your self with the fact that it's not happening right now. I think I know your type and that you are too concerned about what they may think. You may adapt your behaviour to fit your preconceived view of what they want. Wrong way to go about it, it never works out that way.Be your self. Express you desire (Don't be crass or rude, respect goes a long way). Have fun and don't look desperate, most women hate that in a man. So next time you meet someone you like, be a little more selfish. If it works and you enjoy each other you will naturally selfishlessly do all you can to make her happy. If not, well move on. I could be wrong.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Women always want older men. Why not look for a younger girl?
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RHP User
13 years ago
before I can give my opinion/suggestion.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wait 7 years and then try (LOL)Maybe you trying too hard????Or go for a girl 10 years younger GT
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ladies, he doesn't have to tell you his life story no matter how curious you are! Lol. Blueeyedboy, it's hard for lots of people to meet people they click with. All you can do is put it out there, be honest an I am sure you will find a mentor eventually. I would say most women on RHP are experienced though. That isn't a bad thing! Good luck.
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RHP User
13 years ago
alot of the over 40's like younger men, you just have to find someone who is okay with your experience or lack thereof, I am sure someone out there has a fantasy of teaching a young lad a trick or two... or giving a guy a few 'firsts' just to see the look pf pure ecstacy on his face...
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RHP User
13 years ago
and Saskia...ahahahah I read yours as..... giving a guy a few 'FISTS' and snorted.....I'm still giggling, I'm sorry for being insensitive and nosy.Serious kind hearted Poppins is here now - OP, this may seem like a huge issue now, but in the grand scheme of things, is really not.It's quite an exciting phase you are in - you can be like a sponge, absorb everything you learn and experience. I wouldn't necessarily learn from porn, however on those naughty video sites, there are some fantastic "how to" tutorials.There is definitely no formula and in my experience - the men that boast about having been with thousands of women and tell me I won't be disappointed are the worst lovers. However, the men that have not had a lot of experience, put in the extra mile to learn and genuinely want to please ME. I feel special and adored in their company, which is quite lovely.Relax, read books, watch tutorials, don't feel pressured, you are only in your 30's and you have until you are dead to build experience. Most importantly, really enjoy just being in the company of women....talk to them and listen - really listen....the rest will just happen when it's meant to.x
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RHP User
13 years ago
your best bet would be to go to a prostitute. I mean that in all seriousness - it might help to avoid some of the stigma and anxiety that you might have in this area, and help build up some confidence.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I also saw fists, made me laugh too, perhaps so much I missed the actual typo... oops. I concurr with Miss P on this too, big headed (you know which head I mean...) men are a turn off, the more sensitive, tuned in ones are much nicer... no expectations - no letdowns.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Are we still picturing me and the "fists of fury"?? :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
Just take your time mate ,its not a race ,about how much sex you have in life.Quality over quantity For me ,i like a relationship ,being intimate with someone i see as a best friend and an equal.Be honest in what you want ,let people know what you want in your profile and go from there.Good luck mate
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am curious too as to why you are a 'late bloomer', don't be shy, we really are very nice to talk to. The best listeners you will ever have the pleasure to meet... crikeys we have just all told each other whether we have innies or outties - and I ain't talking belly buttons. Please if you feel the need to let it all go... we are here for you ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Wow, everyone is so curious!OK, no big mystery. I grew up in a remote regional area where there were no chances to socialise and chase girls. It was very quiet, lonely and boring. Only got laid a couple of times before I was 30, and nothing like a long term relationship.Now I'm living near the city, the opportunities are there, but I feel like I'm a bit behind the game in terms of experience compared to everyone else. These dating sites are great, but there is a lot of competition! I've already had a few interesting experiences since I started using these types of sites though, so I think 2013 will be a good year.To the guy who mentioned prostitutes, I don't think that is any good. I want a girl I can practice on for hours on end, who wants something more from me then a wad of cash, so I can get some satisfaction in giving it and get really comfortable doing it.Yeah, I've done plenty of research. I know my techniques and receive complements for them, but I'm still shy. Need less research and more practice! Where are the ladies happy to let me try?Hey, so don't be nasty! (Unless it's in a sexual way).(Also, fists is something I also have no experience with)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Go to a pub.......mingle in your local area....use this site as complimentary to your practicing at the local....what have you got to lose??
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RHP User
13 years ago
is not an unattractive quality OP,in fact many women,...well me lol...find shy men far more interesting than the confident slick types.I have a love of enigmas...kinda like a puzzle to be solved.
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