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Ladies profiles?.....or not.
June 03 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yes, it's a waste of time, yes it seems quite common. It's not a new thing. Hubby dangles the partner as bait on the hook, you bite the hook, then realise what's going on, spit the hook, to be left with a sore mouth!At least you didn't end up in the frying pan!I'm sure you really wouldn't want to play with a couple whose shown themselves to be less than frank.Simple solution, play with couples who are up front, forget looking at "single" womens profiles.I think many will tell you that chasing the elusive single woman, can be a fruitless, frustrating and time consuming pastime, when you could be spending that time actually playing with genuine people.Though hey, good luck in your endeavours.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
14 years ago
its the same with guys....who suddenly have a wife/girlfriend despite declaring they are single......or the couples who suddenly appear as a couple.....of one, as she no longer plays/is straight/is ill/away..........etc ad infinitum......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ah,another subterfuge by the singlemalecouple devious critters aint they!!!xHugs H
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RHP User
14 years ago
Single.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Upshot is, there is no such category as 'single' female. You have 'Men', 'Women', 'Couples', 'Groups', 'Couples (FF)', Couples (MM) and TV/TS. Once you click on the profile, it should be indicated, 'single' or 'attached'. If attached, the description should spell out whether or not they play alone. Jennylee joined RHP to search for other bisexual or lesbian ladies to play with on her own. She also indicates that she is willing to play with couples if I'm involved. Yes, we could open a 'couples' profile but then the ladies seeking other ladies wouldn't find her. I joined so that I could contribute to these forum pages. My profile states that I'm interested in making online friends but might be open to suggestions of play that includes my wife. I know it's not a perfect arrangement but it suits our requirements. I do agree that women who have no intention of playing without their partner should be on a 'couples' profile only.
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RHP User
14 years ago
A few times Ive been chatting away with a "single guy" and then all of a sudden a partner (female) is introduced on the scene....followed by the comment - "Would you like to join us in a threesome?" etc ......ah NO, cause if I did, Im pretty sure I would have mentioned that on my profile !!! Im pretty sure ( and now will scurry off and check) that my profile gives no indication whatsoever that I wish to play with couples....so I can only assume that because Im also bi, that means Im flex and up for anything...sorry it doesnt...like everybody on here I have a certain criteria of who I wish to meet and play with and that does not include playing with couples anymore ( I have my reasons) and if I wish to play with ladies, then its on a one to one basis or in a party/clbu situation- same goes with couples..... I agree with Felonius...there are very few single women (although they are out there) that go the FFM thing anymore...for many reasons...issues within the couple, safety, third wheel complex etc I think if one is looking for that type of action, swinging as 2 ccouples is the way to go Just my thoughts..
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RHP User
14 years ago
....there is a story to every profile
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RHP User
14 years ago
The fact that they've got a single woman's profile instead of a couples profile indicates that they are open to playing alone with the right person/people. You should be able to tell whether or not they are attached through their relationship status, and if it says 'Ask me', it doesn't take a lot of time to make a few simple inquiries. The likelihood of finding an attractive, sexually liberated and single woman on here is rare....but we do exist ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
in our experience....women are as devious and dishonest as men when it comes to relationships and sex....honesty is certainly not the domain of one sex over the other.....
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have an F profile, but my handle is MrsTri, and make it very clear in my profile that I am the female of a couple called Triunity (who have a guest couple profile) who only play with females.I do get flirts from single males who say they like my profile so I'm guessing the little brain is illiterate.I would be interested to know if this upsets anyone as then I will know my job is done and I don't have to try so hard in the forums. ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thank-you everybody for your feedback and thoughts, yes every profile has a story but we are up front in what we seek, just wish all the single women profiles were the same. We have been fortunate to find the elusive female...with no attached of hidden partner, and had some fun times, yes you do exist.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm afraid you may have to just keep plugging along in the Forums. As a curious bystander though, I'm wondering at the logic of having a solo profile, and a couples one.Especially when the solo one is a paid one. Was it just a timing thing, ie: You had the paid solo profile first, or something I'm just not understanding.Cheers Felonius
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RHP User
14 years ago
And don't forget those lovely Single Woman profiles that are infact for a couple cos IT IS FREE TO CREATE A SINGLE WOMAN PROFILE! If you are a couple, that play as a couple, even if that playing is the male or female of said couple being present but not particiapting (re: safety) - then you are a couple, not a single. Otherwise it is just lying
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RHP User
14 years ago
At one point we had both the Couple and Female profiles as paid members but it just seemed we got a lot better response to the Female profile. A lot of couples approached the Couple profile but that is not what we are after. So it was a case of attrition due to lack of interest where the couple profile is concerned.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'ApolloThirteen' Single. Nice tits.RA
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RHP User
14 years ago
I am new to all of this but I am attached and love my man. I am here only because my darling spouse and I have agreed it's ok for me to play alone. He always has had a license to do so as his fetishes are not mine. Until now, I have never exercised my option to do the same. I actually don't want to fuck another man or have a parallel relationship. I have a great sex life already but just want something different and more gentile. I can say this to single men until I'm blue in the face but they are not lightly deterred. I imagine the same is the case in reverse. Anyway.....my suggestion would be that the admins have a category that state will play alone. That might solve the whole problem. Have a nice night peeps.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' And don't forget those lovely Single Woman profiles that are infact for a couple cos IT IS FREE TO CREATE A SINGLE WOMAN PROFILE! If you are a couple, that play as a couple, even if that playing is the male or female of said couple being present but not particiapting (re: safety) - then you are a couple, not a single. Otherwise it is just lyingWhich is what I did.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Thanks man!!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' Quoting 'mooka' And don't forget those lovely Single Woman profiles that are infact for a couple cos IT IS FREE TO CREATE A SINGLE WOMAN PROFILE! If you are a couple, that play as a couple, even if that playing is the male or female of said couple being present but not particiapting (re: safety) - then you are a couple, not a single. Otherwise it is just lyingWhich is what I did. But validated ladies get a few perks that couples and single men do not. Never thought of that... what brilliance. Tight really is a turn on!
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RHP User
14 years ago
As far as I know, a guest lady is allowed one message per week as long as it is to a male that fits her criteria. How does having a woman's profile benefit a couple looking for a woman or another couple? I may have this wrong.
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