Lack of success

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Ok you have thirty friends. Unless you know someone offline then do not add them as your friend. Its not face bok here. It looks a bit odd when you say your not getting any yet you have thirty friends You need a face picture somewhere, cant see your Pg , and there is not need to mess with your main picture , just take the darn thing and leave it alone. Your profile says zip about yourself. Every guy wants to meet women, so you made yourself the generic brand I get you have to be discreet , most people do, but you still have to advertise the goods as in your personality. no name brands get left on the shelf of RHP bakery so just freshen up your profile. look at a few other guys profiles, and also look at womens profiles that attract you that have no pictures. Cut out words like FUN, GIRL etc good luck hope that helps cheers LadyT

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  The 30 friends would be an instant "no" for me. And the phone number displayed. It just seems way too "easy". As in slutty easy.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Ok, checked out your profile. Agree with Lady Tuscan, 30 friends......but no traffic? Posting on here will get lot's of ladies checking you out anyways. I'm not in your area but I looked because of your forum post. Your "what I'm looking for" is certainly lacking content. Generally fun, ra ra ra, it says, hmmm aren't we all. Strongly sugest you re vamp it to say more specifically what you want. Or put in your not sure yet, or I'll come back an update this later........anything is better then nothing. Shows that your at least trying to work on that one. The later does bother me personally. Sometimes getting validated can help, or verifying your account. More pic's for sure. Your not a floating torso ?........ P.S Not everyone goes for the "ask me" thing in your relationship section.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Why would you have ASK ME for relationship status and smoking status? The reason I assume is because both of those answers are likely to put women off, ie, attached and a smoker. Just be upfront about it, if you come across like you're trying to hide those things, it's even MORE off-putting. You are at a statistical disadvantage here, you need to know women have multiple options at any time, and the men that are hiding things behind ASK MEs usually get discarded because no, why should I ask you something that other men are willingly and freely offering?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  If you are recently single ... then don't have your relationship status as Ask Me. Many women will look at Ask Me and assume you are married or attached and it won't matter if you revamp your profile so it sounds amazing they won't look any further. Good luck SF

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Bloody Hell now where was I ???

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  The women above me, listen to them. . I'll add one thing: For me, anyone using the word "Discreet" in their profile = not single. Just a personal thing though. But hey, at least you didn't say "Discrete".

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  MsSuperFoxy

  12 years ago

  Just like Sensory and other ladies said. When ever I read recently single on any profile, it screams to me "emotionally unavailable and not over my Ex" Nothing wrong with recently being single, not for me as I am not a free counselor. Best of Luck. FOXY

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Meander' The women above me, listen to them. . I'll add one thing: For me, anyone using the word "Discreet" in their profile = not single. Just a personal thing though. But hey, at least you didn't say "Discrete". I prefer discrete people, they seem to be more individual

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Thank you all for your advice and constructive criticism. I've revamped my profile and would love to hear your thoughts. :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  People offering their sexuality is not a charity. You have to INSPIRE them to want to share it with you.

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