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LOVE

August 12 2011

Love. What is it? Doest it really exist? Do we want it? These are the questions on my mind tonight and I'm after others opinions on the topic of live lust hurt and the like. And are there limits and what are they. Please share your thoughts and ideas.

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Can I add a question please. How do you know when you are in love? Otherwise, yes love exists and I would say everyone wants to be loved, or at least have people care about them. It would be a pretty lonely life without it.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    What can I say about lust ? It is one of the most exciting feelings you can have, particularly when it is reciprocated. You know when you are with someone just talking, having a drink, playing pool or whatever & you can constantly feel how wet you are. Or if they look at you in a certain way and you feel that mini contraction along side that rush of wetness. So horny :p

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Ask the parents. Yes it does. I would give my life for that of any one of my children, ones that grew beneath my heart and ones that grew within my heart. Having said that I must clarify that the love for another adult is a little different. It grows over time and does not hapen instantly. We can have that instant attraction, we can know that this is THE ONE we want to be with but we can never be certain until time goes by. It is embracing and encompasing. People often say that love is blind and this is not true. Lust is blind as the only thing one can think of when in lust is getting the object of our desire naked and appeasing that ache in the groin and the butterflies in the tummy. This is not to say that love can not be like that but I have found that when you love someone, you can see all thier faults and they matter not. Love is not blind but accepting. Loving someone means that your happiness is linked to the happiness of another. If they are unhappy, then so are you. It is selfish and at the same time selfless. Selfish because you want that one person for yourself, you want to spirit them away and wrap them in your love, selfishly keeping them for yourself. Selfless as you will do anything for that person and you want the world to know just how wonderful they are and the only way of doing that is to generously share them with the world. Love does not end when it is until death do us part but continues to live on in memories that become bittersweet over time. Yes we can love more than one. We can love equally but not the same as each love is unique to that one person. Does it hurt when the one you love is no more? Damn straight it does....each and every single day. You learn to live with it, you learn to go on and love others but the love never diminishes with time. Love trancends time.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    From memory, and I qualify this by saying I tended to vague out a lot at school, Latin has no word or phrase for romantic love as distinct from loving your children or your parents or your friends, so the Romans clearly didn't think so. And our modern concept of romantic love was largely developed in poetry written by monks. And what would they know?On the other hand, I've felt it, so I know it exists and the romans can go and get fucked. As they did.And I'd have to disagree with Fiona, the few times I've fallen in love it's happened quickly, I've known without a doubt what it is, and it's lasted beyond the four or five years those relationships lasted. And we're still close and will always be there for each other.But then, all people are different, and love will be and mean different things to them.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    It's probably near impossible to think of or write a definition of love...I tend to think of it more as unconditional like, where we can ignore the 101 things we may not like about someone and just simply like them for who they are. That too...can last forever. | ...my mother and I still likes each other and she's been gone a long time.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting '0_DarkHorse_0'From memory, and I qualify this by saying I tended to vague out a lot at school, Latin has no word or phrase for romantic love as distinct from loving your children or your parents or your friends, so the Romans clearly didn't think so. And our modern concept of romantic love was largely developed in poetry written by monks. And what would they know? On the other hand, I've felt it, so I know it exists and the romans can go and get fucked. As they did. And I'd have to disagree with Fiona, the few times I've fallen in love it's happened quickly, I've known without a doubt what it is, and it's lasted beyond the four or five years those relationships lasted. And we're still close and will always be there for each other. But then, all people are different, and love will be and mean different things to them. Perhaps they had no word for romanic love because when it's so deep and real, how do you find the words that truly define it?....I am wholy and absolutely in love and I honestly can't find a word to encompass the depth of that.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I dont know how to describe what it is..But i can tell you what it's like,Love Is Like War...Easy To Start...Hard to End...and Impossible To Forget...

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I fell in love for about 45 minutes once. I swear! Damn those sexy armpits do it to me every time! HugsStalky

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    exisits, and thrives. We have been married for 21 years, and have fallen in and out of love with each other more than a few times. The feeling of love is hard to explain, I am a wild free spirit, yet I'd be half a person without him. completely utterly lost in love 80% of the time, 20% can't stand him :) I'd rather fall in and out of love with the same person, than with multiple partners....feel free to lust all over me for a night though

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Isn't that just lust Stalkers? Can you really be instantly in love with someone you don't know even just a little? xxMeeks

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Love and other bruisesdidn't have to choose usBut it did and I'm alive andI'm trying to surviveLove and other bruises makesus all good losersI can't help it talking loud it'sbecause I'm on a cloud.won't you please take me homewon't you please please take me homeI'm so mixed up over youI don't want to be alone.I'm alright loving youI'm alright loving you

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    ...and the bastards made a movie out of it.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I love the feeling after a good run or workout then having a nice hot shower freshen up and meeting a friend or 6 at the pub for a nice lunch and a couple of cold beers I Love that

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Miss Tuesday.. be in Melb very soon Keen for a run ?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    lolz... what would I know Meeka? I'm a blank slate and get all my emotions by sponging them up off other people.I think lust is before.... love is that funny tingly feeling on the end of your dick afterwards. HugsS Quoting 'Meeka100' Isn't that just lust Stalkers? Can you really be instantly in love with someone you don't know even just a little? xxMeeks

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    You need to spend longer in the showers while meeting that friend of yours. :pHugsStalky Quoting 'wowwow09' I love the feeling after a good run or workout then having a nice hot shower freshen up and meeting a friend or 6 at the pub for a nice lunch and a couple of cold beers I Love that