LIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE!!

If someone is giving off a vibe that they're not telling me the complete truth about something- or keeping me in the dark purposely-I can feel it-sense there's something they know they should be telling me but I don't necessarily know specifically what it is about... EG their recent ex is lurking or now wants them back, they have to go away for work and they don't know how to bring it up, they are too broke to go out, they've started seeing someone else They think it's helping the situation by not telling me-but it actually ruins everything as I am quite affected by it-probably more than whatever it is they don't want to or fear the consequences to tell me about. You ask "Is everything ok?" "Yes" is the reply-but you know it's not. Or "Have I done something as you seem different?" "No" is the reply-you know it's not you but you are trying to get them to tell you why they are different-you're thinking "Damn you Jedi mind trick-why won't you work-work!" This may seem strange but actually I feel quite offended when people I am intimate with (platonically or sexually) don't trust in me that I could deal with their truth-that they would rather tell me anything else or nothing about what is really going on-when the reality is I know something is going on and could deal with any reality really other than one that is based upon deceit that's going to drive me crazy. It makes me completely crazy...I become obsessed with the mystery, start doing completely weird things for me...can't sleep, accusing them of something, provoking them as I'm desperately digging for information like some kind of Nancy Drew, calling or messaging them...somehow thinking they're going to crack suddenly and tell me.. I just want an answer!! I would do anything for or with someone I trusted but if I feel someone is holding something back and not telling me the truth-it is completely frustrating and that causes problems in the bedroom-as I'm now thinking about it there too and can't really relax-as it's all over them anyway....you can't be cranky and aroused-well you can't be as aroused as you would be if you weren't cranky. I don't like to be told no at all and my imagination is quite creative-so that makes me even more keen to push for what is really going on and when most people don't want to be confronted at any time...let alone when they have a secret...they're even more cagey. So now-they're not only not telling me what I want to know, they are now probably thinking I'm totally mental-get me away from her-when I'm not...just totally obsessed with what is the "big secret"? Eventually-when you find out what the "big secret" is it really is nothing much and you wonder "Why would they even think they need to keep that from me?" and then everything is good again in the world-but in the meantime it makes me totally insane. So I'm interested-what do people do or what happens that may make you start acting crazy or puts you off your usual game in a relationship or arrangement? Or maybe it's just me-that suffers in this way-I am quite strange. NymphetamineDrm