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Kissing

May 30 2010

Does anyone still enjoy kissing as much as I do? What makes a good kisser? Does anybody prefer not to kiss because they find iit too intimate with just a friend with benefits. Does a bad kisser mean that it is an indication of the kind of lover that person is? Do tell. Miss K

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    i love kissing....i found a bloke on here that is the perfect kisser, i could cum just from kissing him...he is perfect but yeah i find a lot of men dont kiss or worse, they dont kiss well, i would prefer not to kiss if the kissing is bad whether they dont kiss because of intimacy or because they dont know how, i dont know...but everybody should get up at that mirror and practise, practise, practise i reckon lol nothing better than a good kiss yumm roxxy xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Love kissing! Love that first liplock with a new man, love that firm mouth against mine, not too wet and with just enough tongue. It gets me hot just thinking about it. What makes him bad??? Wet, sloppy kisses that you just want to get away from; his mouth opens to engulf mine rather than just enough to make us equals; or his tongue tries to explore every part of my mouth. Being a bad kisser doesn't really indicate whether someone is also a bad lover, but if they are bad at kissing it doesn't inspire a person to take it to the next step. xxILTS

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Passionate kissing is awesome foreplay..... lips, tongues, hands everywhere. A fantastic kisser can get me so wet. But all tongue jammed down my throat.... nuh..... some men (and women too I'd imagine) think their tongue is the be all and end all to a good kiss. It ain't. Sweet

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    When Mr TT kisses me thats it im in heaven. But yes I guess for me it is an initmacy thing for me. I dont like kissing anyone else .... thats just me. Mrs TT

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Nothing is sexier than a great kisser. As I said in another Post...you can tell a good kisser when he is kissing your lips and your other lips are saying "Ohhhhh yeahhhhhhhhhh it's on"!!! But, I also have the belief that you can teach a bad kisser how to become a great kisser. I have done this and it really does work!! You just need to feel comfortable enough to communicate! But if a random can't kiss for crap...it's bye bye baby! Does kissing give you the sign if he is a good lover or not? Well, my ex fiance was a great lover but shit kisser (until I taught him) and then it all came together beautifully for us. Kissing is what starts and ends the love making! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I love kissing. It is great, wonderful and a huge turn on. If a guy is no god at kissing I have found that he is not much good in other bedroom related matters either. It is certainly a big turn off if the kisser is not that good.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    mmmmm... sorry what was that... too busy kissing to hear you... oh... wait... it's about kissing... come here... let me demonstrate..... mwah.... hugs Wayne xxx PS - yes - I do love kissing too... all different parts of a ladies body.... mmmmm

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Yes .. I love kissing ... A good kiss that makes your toes curl can be awesome just love it

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Misskittylips, Kissing, particularly that first time, is one of the most erotic, sensual experiences that can be shared with another. Just because a person is a FWB does not been they cannot share intimacy or desire to satisfy another. Sweetie is right that a good kisser is an indication of the person’s ability in other, more intimate areas. To me kissing, caressing and intimate touching with that right person leisurely builds up the fires of lust. The slow gentle exploration of your lover’s erogenous zones is one of the most tantalising moments shared with another. Just because a person is a FWB doesn’t mean you can’t have the occasion hint of romance whilst together. The secret is to enjoy the moment before returning to reality. Sir Hawk

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kissing is the most special and intimate language which is so often poorly spoken. I believe you can judge someone's sensuality by the way they kiss....I see it as a sneak preview of things to come (ahem...no pun intended). If I find myself in an awkward moment of tonsil hockey whereby I'm gagging....I'm almost certain their sexual technique would want to make me gag too!! A lingering, sensual, gentle kiss can leave me craving for sooooo much more!! MWAH!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    If a guy is a bad kisser.. It's a huge turn off for me. I prefer not to kiss guys if they are bad at it. The one's i hate are the ones who try to put your whole face in their mouth. LOL.......If they are good at it then Kiss away ;)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    very important to me as well is Kissing...gotta be sensual and slow at first and then add the tongue at the right moment later on in the foreplay. Kissing on a women's neck is lovely too... A good kisser is usually a sensual good lover I reckon. MP

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    The perfect kiss is one thats soft, sensual and passionate and makes your panties fall off ;o) But with that, I have a rule I dont kiss strangers (which I have broken a few times) But, I find that kissing someone your into just makes that kiss all the more personal, intimate and perfect... I dont think that a bad kisser can make a bad lover, they just might not be into kissing specially if its just about the sex :o) Late x

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kissing is an important part of any intimate encounter, in my opinion. Second only to aural stimulation.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    A great topic - with some great input in return. While kissing is certainly an intimate activity, 'benefits', by default, often include elements at least as intimate and, in many minds, more. Perhaps it's more a question of what boundaries a person might want to apply to whatever situation. Depending on their circumstances, a person could have a number of sets of boundaries. Some people keep kissing for someone(s) in particular - or for certain situations. The same could be said for other intimate activities. I had the privilege of having a chat on kissing with a lady some time back. I've taken and applied her advice. That's been accepted well. Quite frankly, I've always enjoyed kissing but it's been great to get, and take on board, that kind of advice. I don't see that lesser kissing skills are necessarily an indication of anything much. It could well be that nobody's taken the time or opportunity with them to pass on advice / feedback / whatever. For me that was a long time coming but it did come and I'm happy with that. OK, some guys can be rather 'unteachable' - maybe that's more an indication of their 'grade' as lover - but that's not exclusive to our gender. More reliable indicators of the kind of lover a person is could be attributes like openness, caring, sensitivity and so on - and teachableness?. Of course those might take time to discover and in the heat of the moment, you might come across someone who's good regardless. Happy hunting.

  • kassmebits

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    16 years ago

    I absolutely adore kissing, if i was told no kissing because it was too intimate, then it would be no further either! not sure if a good kisser means a good lover, but usually i feel a good kisser who wants to spend a lot of time kissing, likes to spend a lot of time on other things too :-)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    As the male half of our profile' I must admit that without some sort of build up to the final gaol its really not the same. Recently I had drinks with a awesome looking lady. Sitting in a dimmly lit corner and after a few drinks and awesome conversation the eye contact become warm and inviting' so it wasnt long before our lips were interupting our conversation to the point where the words ceased and the kissing began to flow... Not being the type of guy who goes straight to the heavy stuff but rather enjoy the playfull teasing kisses where I let her chase my lips before submitting to a full on intimate smooch... then plenty of gentle lip biting and tender neck and ear attention Alternating my eyes to hers then down to her lips ' I fix my eyes onto her lips and pause.. this never fails to be followed by the hottest kisses you would ever want to have... Well' you can guess the rest... So do I like kissing.... you bet I do.. what better way to stir the juices

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    that font...i could hardly read it....now, as for kissing...was with a woman once who literally ate my face...i felt like i was with one of those great big hounds which slobber everywhere...no, she was nice, just her kissing was so bad...that i really didn't have the inclination to go any further...but...if you were kissing someone and they were hopeless at it...would you have the guts to say so..???I confess...i didn't say anything...mainly because i didn't really know how to tell her....and the last thing i would want to do is hurt her feelings...cheersjose...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Absolutely agree with Kassie. The MOST erotic way to start anything is that first, gentle, breathless, long, slow kiss!!! Love ya Kass

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kissing.... I think it should start soft, gentle touches of lips and tongue, teasing little touches, soft touches to the face, shoulders, fingers gently through the hair. It should continue to hands down the back, pulling closer, grabbing the hips and gently grinding, thigh between thighs, pinning hands above the head as the kissing heads south down the neck... That will do.... Need to stop educating the competition :p

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I'm with most people, I love kissing! But it has to be good...... I have come across some really bad kissers, and find it a turn off. A good kisser though, has me trembling pretty quickly!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Someone told me once there was no such thing as a good or a bad kisser. There is such a thing as a compatible kisser though.We have come accross couples that do not kiss because they find it too intimate to kiss in a swingy situation. We have met incompatible kissers too. Andy and I are certainly compatible kissers. A female friend once told me a was a good kisser because I did not kiss like a girl?!? I wondered what this meant, then realised I kiss, I do not change they way I kiss because someone is a male or a female. I only kiss people I want to kiss regardless of the gender and I kiss like I mean it...why bother if you are going to do it any other way? I love kissing, I find it very hard to connect with a lover/playmate if I can not kiss or if we are incompatible. Jose, in response to what you say...I have had a woman kiss like that too, I thought she was going to suck my face off! I never used to say anything but now i do. It is hard to not sound corny but stuff like "Slow down, I want this kiss to last" or "Don't move your lips, for just a moment I want to kiss you"...That way I get to show the person how I like to be kissed. You do not need to tell them it is bad. In personal training I was taught to correct technique with a compliment sandwich, lol. It means compliment, correct, compliment...."Your lips feel so soft, close them and kiss me gently so I can feel them against mine, Mmm I like it when you kiss like that"xxx Salina

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I just read what I wrote, sounds really really corny in retrospect :Pxx Salina

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    hahaha Salina i thought it sounded perfect...nice way of going about it lol Jose my sweet i know the perfect man for your girl....they would be great together im thinking Ruggedly you just get more and more perfect hehe roxxy xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    You people make me sick - didn't you learning anything in Primary School? Kissing girls gives you koodies.. and girls germs. Yech!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    lets kiss ;)

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Johnny_E'lets kiss ;) Are you a good kisser Johnny that can make a womans panties fall off ?? lol

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    the first kiss is the most important kiss ,,,,,,,,,,,it usually comes after much flirting ,,,,,gentle soft touching and wanting to be touched ,,the kind where you position yourself in such a way as they cant help but brush against you ,,,,,and you wanting it to happen ,,,,the kind that tingles your skin ,long after the touch ,,,,,,,,,,then that deep look into each others eyes,,,,,,the one that youv been hoping will happen and been anticipating for hours ,,,,,,,,,the one that just hooks you ,,,,no more looking away ,,,,,eyes locked ,and no desire to let go ,,,,,,,,hearts pumping ,,,,pulse going overtime ,,,,,,,,,,,,they lean over and kiss your lips ,,,just a quick one ,,,,,the one that you feel the warmth in there lips ,,,,,the passion and the one that kicks you ,,,,that one that leaves you hanging out for more ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,then the serious kissing begins ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,love licks and lots of kissing ,,,,,,,,les ....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Soft sweet kisses. Sensual touches. Slowly increasing till every cell inyour body is crying out for more. Bodies entwined desparate to connect. This lustfull state lasting over five hours. Heaven Fab.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I Love Girl Germs and Kooties. Yummm

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Ruggedly_Rugged'Kissing.... I think it should start soft, gentle touches of lips and tongue, teasing little touches, soft touches to the face, shoulders, fingers gently through the hair. It should continue to hands down the back, pulling closer, grabbing the hips and gently grinding, thigh between thighs, pinning hands above the head as the kissing heads south down the neck... That will do.... Need to stop educating the competition :p ah yep ... I'll have some of that please

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Salina79' I just read what I wrote, sounds really really corny in retrospect :Pxx Salina Compatible kissers....yep...And what about versatility ?...or is it being able to change techniques...Some of my experiences have included one woman who wanted my tongue down her throat...like NOW!...lol...hmmm..that was interesting...*nods head fondly*...And another, just soft dry lips, no tongue, gentle, feathery kisses...down her neck, along her ear...hmmm...don;t think i have ever kissed a neck or ears for such a long time...but very erotic...and must confess i think she infected me with her likes....'cos i just lurve being kissed on my neck and ear...i wonder...can you really infect someone with your likes and dislikes...me thinks i'll go and goggle it...as i've heard that google is just so passe now....grins...umm..maybe i should seek a "professional" opinion...hehe...jose...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    kissing if its done properly is the most arousing foreplay lol a great starter for any playtime ....lis

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Personally for me, kissing is a massive turn on. It's what leaves me breathless. Drives my imagination crazy and makes me hungary for more. Creates the anticipation for what is to come. During conversations, I've had moments of being so overwhelmed by wanting a man's lips to touch mine, I haven't registered a word of what they might be talking about or saying to me!!! Haha. I love being teased with both passionate long lingering kisses and short quick kisses on the lips, cheek, neck. Especially when I least expect it. And then there's the little nibble... and the soft bite... and you know the man's in control! So what's the perfect kiss? Hmmmm.... it's one that's undescribable! ;) Unfortunately though, I think that there's this perception that kissing is indicative of some sort of emotional connection or the type of intimacy that is not allowed in casual encounters.... And so the outcome is that there are many lost momments of passion which could be taken from hot to burning hot... on fire...

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I love kissing, as many have said, it's something that can really get that connection and anticipation to come together.Having said that, and have read a couple of profiles that stipulate any potential lover should be a good kisser. I don't know if I am, how do you know? I haven't been complimented on it, nor compliment sandwiched or even told that kissing me was like making out with a vacuum cleaner, does this mean I'm passable, but not great? Or have I just been with girls too nice to say that if they wanted their tonsils cleaned, they'd seek a medical professional?Should I be getting lessons?With trepidation,Z

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    It is all in the kiss! There is more passion and chemistry between two people in the creation of the perfect meeting of lips than is sometimes given credit for. Rugged, you have it very right! It's the soft, teasing caress of lip and tip of tongue that brings the paroxysms of passion! Ah, and you will always remember the best kisses. I remember the days when I was younger and we would spend hours kissing, the days before sex was the climatic peak that those passionate kisses would lead to. I still think there is an amorous paradise that is solely the dwelling of hours of kissing. Ah *sigh*

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    In the shower. Soft, slow and sensual. No rush, take your time. Warm water flowing all over. Lip to lip, face to face, body to body, eyes closed. The world goes away and time stops. Wrapped in an embrace, the closeness of skin to wet, glistening skin. Gentle caresses with our hands feeling the warmth in our face, neck, body. Firm, yet yielding trying to melt into each other heart, body and soul. A little dart of the tongue, bite of the lip. The whisper of sweet words in the ear. The lick and nibble on the ear, the neck and things heat up. The passion flows. The moans of delight and pleasure escape........... I'll leave the rest to you. :-) As the He half of us, Oh YES. A good kiss is when you know it. There really is no other way to tell.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kissing...slow..soft..moist...just the right amount of tongue...moaning...hands roaming...hips pressing...kiss deepening...phwoar!!But please....don't have bad breath...cigarettes and alcohol I can deal with...but you tasting like you ate a shit sanga...EWWWWWWWWW.....Brush...floss....gargle...EVERY DAY!!and peroxide gargle once a week...to kill any nasties!JMO....BJxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    hey there :) i here wat you sayin:) love to give it a go

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Kissing is a very important part of foreplay , as it very sensual & indicates how you feel about each other....Allso , to be able to have your mouth perfectly in sync with your lover is most important....good kissing leads to wonderful love making....me thinks....Mwah on 2u...ox