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Kinky question
July 10 2017
2. I also have a things for her sister. She often leaves the bathroom door open, walks in the house with short towels while my wife is around which does not seem to bother my wife at all while i am around. She always look in my direction to see my reaction when she does this. I would love to take my sister in law at a swingers club at the same time. She is single BTW. I would like to talk about the idea to my wife first but would like to know the best approach for this conversation.
3. Any ideas of a good fetish store in melbs to dress up my wife in latex and boots to visit a swingers club and which swingers club to visit or a venue to have a bondage session with a dom.
Thank you all for your help
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RHP User
7 years ago
I've made a giant bowl of popcorn, and welcome all friendly folk to join me on the lounge here.
I am also interested in the answers to OP's questions.
Seachange
7 years ago
This could be interesting.
Sounds like a complicated situation.
I'd take your wife first and focus on her. I'm not sure about your relationship with the sister in law. Maybe chat with your wife about this just in case you're jumping ahead of yourself in making assumptions she's into you. The water can get murky very quickly.
Go to Rhp events section. Lots of swinging parties to choose from. choose those that cater for beginners. Read up on what's involved. Ask questions. My long term fwb took me to clubs and parties. I was happy to learn from him. He's younger, gorgeous and caring. someone i can trust to look after me in the club.
Best of luck.RHP User
7 years ago
Do you always holiday as a family, including in-laws.
Once you have a date then you can check the events section.RHP User
7 years ago
Pass the popcorn and have a cold Crownie?
That said, I would recommend staying away from the Melbourne nightclub Inflation on King Street. Well, at least until the police finish explaining why they shot a party-goer there last weekend. Those plastic toy guns can be dangerous I guess.
There still is no such thing as sex to die for!RHP User
7 years ago
I'm thinking that your wife will not be keen on the idea of you fucking her sister.
You seem to have fantasies that you really need to discuss with your wife.
It's one thing to like the idea of going to a club, but entirely different to actually go. The first time can be a little scary! Just taking you wife there without her agreeing first is likely to backfire, in my opinion.
Turning up in a latex outfit will be another issue altogether. I'd suggest you talk about going to a club, and the go together when she is ready.
I wouldn't ever mention her sister though.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
Finding a dom at a club to have a bondage session with isn't as simple as turning up and asking. That type of thing needs to have all parties in agreement, and wouldn't normally be something you'd do the first time you play with that person. You need to form a bit of a relationship/trust first.
Good luck!
- Posted from rhpmobile
EarthQueen
7 years ago
Seems fraught with peril.
Seems way too complicated and has the potential to implode. IMO focus on your wife. Sibling history/rivalry etc. can make for crazy dynamics , keep it as a fantasy.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
staying out of this one.
DynamicCouple36
7 years ago
That it is all a fantasy on your part, and that more than likely your "wife" does not even know about your "couples" profile on here.
A quick tineye reverse image search has confirmed that her picture, on your profile, has in fact been stolen from several porn sites and as such is not her at all. Perhaps it's her sister ?
:)
Another fake profile it seems.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
A. You're in WA and there are swingers clubs here. Club 103 a great place as there is a downstairs where you can just mingle.....
B. You have a couple profile, which I would assume your wife knows about, therefore she too can read this post.
C. Would it it fair to say you'd like to bone your sister in law.
D. This could be a glorious poly relationship for the 3 of you.
E. Oh there are social swinger greet n meets in Perth too, where you can meet like minded people.
F.... Oh that's my cup size.
G....... Giddyup sunshine.
H. Hip hop horay for things aren't as they seem.
......
Good luck 😁👉👌
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
You need to talk to your wife about attending a club in a more serious matter that rises above giggling, first time was super nerve racking for me and my ex and it's important to have ground rules when you first start out (are you just going to watch? Are you going to play together or separate? How do you decide if you both like a couple? What do you do if one of you isn't comfortable?) It might seem like fun at first but you can seriously fuck your relationship up if you're not careful.
As for the thing with the sister that sounds to me like you'll be opening up a whole can of worms. It's one thing for your partner to consider you hooking up with one of her friends or a stranger but a sister!RHP User
7 years ago
No idea. Although if your on here as a couple, surely she too, is open minded and the big question is..... how do you feel about her swinging, say with your umm brother or best mate for the same reason.
IMO your sister in law is obviously a free spirit and perhaps an exorbitionist, which many of us are. Just like there are many voyuers. However ........ doesnt mean she wants to bonk you. Just as voyuers dont want to bonk who theyre watching.
Tread carefully coz calm waters can be murky.
- Posted from rhpmobileRHP User
7 years ago
We all have the creepy brother in law and no, I'm not apologising for that comment. Try doing the standard family goodbye hugs while group disperses after a Christmas lunch but one hug was revolting, hands slid down onto my are, yuck. I pulled away and will never again get that close, so bloody disrespectful to my sister. I couldn't get out of there fast enough.
Yeah nah, just nahRHP User
7 years ago
Bloody auto correct, my 'arse' I meant
RHP User
7 years ago
1) never take her anywhere without her consent. full stop. So, a "surprise" visit to a swingers club, no matter how much she giggles at the idea, ain't a great idea at all. But, once you have her consent, I suggest you check out something like the Wet on Wellington swingers party, happens once ever month. There you've got lots to see and do, but no pressure AND the facilitates are clean and so much nicer than most of the disgusting clubs and parties in our area.
2) Mate, don't ask us, ask your wife. She probably doesn't react or think anything about her sister being around in a towel because that's her sister so not anyone of sexual interest. And she probably thinks you see her that way too. This could turn nasty real quick.
good luckRHP User
7 years ago
I suggest you ask your wife about her sister today. Do you think they are after a threesome with you? Probably. So, you don't ask, you don't get.
Report back on how that goes, and then we can give you some advice on getting you dressed in latex and ball gag, lathered up and ready for a spanking. I am picturing your wife and her sis giving you a damn good thrashing. Will be awesome!!
CDRHP User
7 years ago
I don't know much about the clubs but I did go to one a few years ago. It was in a house out in the burbs. Absolutely ghastly, my girlfriend and I left after about 40 minutes. Can't remember the name of it tho.
But do try Bluafterglow in St Kilda. That sounds like it might be right up your alley. Although the owner may decide that you are not ready for the dungeons though.RHP User
7 years ago
I'd say fuck all about the sister, stop perving at her and save it for the wank bank (if you have to)
Chances are if you ignore her and she does want to do you she will make that clear, but still walk away unless you want a divorce where you lose the lot and everyone hates you because the blame, all of it not just some, will land right in your lap.RHP User
7 years ago
Get the sister to approach your wife.
RHP User
7 years ago
...the right ''hillbilly'' word for it although the tag-line is ''...having the kin you love to touch''!
Smooooth and silky....just watch out for the backlash! Most gates do swing two ways!
CM
MsJonesy
7 years ago
Otherwise...its a long way to travel just to attend a swingers club when there are two good ones in WA. Don't quite understand what is going on here...but I have my suspicions 😉 I will respond...but strongly suspect I shouldn't bother
The sister....she is doing a great job of winding you up. And probably getting a huge laugh out of it. Ignore. If you can't, only approach if you are also prepared to be divorced.
Giggling about going to a swingers club sounds like your wife is horrifically nervous about the whole idea, or has no idea how to respond to what she considers a "not before hell freezes over" suggestion from you.
Latex and domination...is this for yourself? You say it is for your wife...but those damn pesky suspicions of mine are back. 😁 Head to any Sexyland store, there are plenty in Melbourne.
A dom....and a bondage session. Hmm. Sorry sunshine, I don't think any true dom would go anywhere near you. If you advertise for one on your profile or travel plan, you will no doubt get many who are interested...but there is a vast difference between experienced doms and those who will just abuse your wife. I would suggest you leave this out of your Melbourne fantasies, I think you have enough going on already.
Swingers clubs....try the event section. Let me know where you are going so I know to stay clear.
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