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Kids + Chat = NOT ON!
August 03 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm with you on this. It's abhorrent, child abuse and illegal. Wake up people, there are people wanking on cam in there and it's not fair to them or to your children. Jese. No excuse. Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
i couldn't agree more, it makes me ill in the stomach, let alone that it's a MAJOR TURN OFF.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thrullz, couldn't agree more!!!There is absolutely no excuse for allowing children any possibility of being seen by or seeing adults engaging in 'adult' activities! They see/sense and/or understand much more than some might think.Like Gaz said, it's abhorrent, child abuse and illegal! And couldn't agree more with dms2004, that it makes us sick in the stomach
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't get it... Being a parent who chats on webcam occasionally (not on this site) I want to know what the real issue is? If I'm fully clothed talking in a chat room, Not watching anyone and my child who cant read walks up and wants to kiss me good night, where's the abuse? Yes I can understand its a "major turn off" but definately not abuse. Now if I was having my child sit on my lap while I was on cam and chatting thats different and is not something I would do, but if my child comes into the lounge room after they've finished painting or watching a movie or whatever its not really something I can avoid. What I think it comes down to is that some people sit there with their wedding tackle in hand watching peoples cams and then a kid pops into view.... Bad timing sure, bad luck okay, but not bad parenting that our kids interrupted you jerking off to us fully clothed (if your stripping on cam while your kids are around you should be locked up).
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just goes to show how that what goes on between some peoples legs is far more important than should be. This topic has been bought up before too. People who are on cam showing their bits have kids running around. It just as bad as a couple here who suggested a "friendly" get together with families as they find it hard to get out because of kids. You are a parent first do the right thing I say, and if you cant then give your kids to someone who deserves them who probably cant have kids. But like you say, its fucked and there are NO excuses Lift your game and get your priorities right!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok it doesnt happen much but i am Totally AGREEING with Thrullz ;) ....... The other day i seen this chick on cam making dates and guys hitting on her wanting her to flash and meet with her only to look on her cam and see her kid jumping on the bed in the back ground WTF....... Seriously people its an adult chat site the last thing people wanna see id kids of any nature on cam at anytime.... if you think that your kids might be seen turn your cam off its that simple. I always make a point of never turning my cam on until my child is either out of the house or sound asleep ..... its not that hard and i have found most guys are totally ok with this. This will then stop the senario of an excuse i heard one night "if my kid fell over the last thing im gonna do is turn my cam off to pick him up" just dont cam then untill they are asleep ...... THANKS THRULLZ FOR A GREAT TOPIC NOW LETS SEE IF THEY LISTEN
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree that kids should not be on cam....although I have done so inadvertantly when my child has walked past in the background. When this happens...i just try to fill the screen with my head...or put my hand over the cam. That wont happen anymore as ive chosen to move my comp so noone can walk behind me.To those that will be upset at this thread....just think.....out of 100 people in the chatroom....there may be one that is getting off on seeing your kid on cam. Dont think they arent out there.So for that reason alone.....keep your kids off cam!!Just my opinion....BJxxx
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playfulminx
16 years ago
Yes, it should be a zero tolerance point and NO ONE should have children appear on cam but let's be careful with words. I too have once jumped on cam briefly to say hello socially (clothes on) and my small son ran across the room. I stopped the cam immediately once it was clear my son wasn't going to leave the room. However, I would be devastated if people accused me of child abuse based on that. Once I think someone in a State social room was encouraged by other members to show off his new baby on cam. You do develop a level of friendship on RHP and forget that it is indeed an adult site sometimes and not everyone watching is your friend.Sure, if a member seems to not make any effort to keep kids out of cam shot, then they should be reported to RHP. I believe they send a note to them to cease and desist. Otherwise, I think a friendly reminder to anyone who happens to have a child on cam to send them out of the room would be good. If they don't comply, then report them!
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RHP User
16 years ago
While Thrullz is talking about ADULT WEBCAM CHAT... the following notice appears on the Webcam Chat home page under the heading...Webcam Chat Etiquette Adults Only - Only persons 18 years or over permitted in rooms or appear on webcam.I read the thread again and as I said before, I'll say it again... There is absolutely no excuse for allowing children any possibility of being seen by or seeing adults engaging in 'adult' activities! Another concern... is that kids can see/read the screen and that their 'guardians' are acting differently... Mr, Mrs... both? wewantit247...It is bad parenting to allow any chance of a child entering a room where they could, not only see but be seen by AND possibly become part of the fantasy of, the person "jerking off to us fully clothed"... and yes you can be charged with child abuse for allowing it to happen... Ignorance is no excuse. A bit beside the point... Ignorance was no excuse when a fella started a thread on RHP recently and ignorantly used 'fat' in the heading...Kids'r our future
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RHP User
16 years ago
We have 4 kids and there is no way in the world I would go on web cam until they're all in bed asleep.But kids will be kids and get up and if mummy and daddy dont notice them,what can you do.How many parents out there have been busted having a nookie,it happens.So give the parents a break if one of their kids runs infront of the cam.Having them sitting on your lap or in the same room while on cam is a totally different story and the parents should probably be locked up. As for Ms Feisty,you obviously dont have kids or at your age you should know better than to come out with the stupid comments like you just did.There isn't too many couples on here over 30 that dont have kids.We often meet with friends(couples),we all have kids,we have a drink,a bbq,the kids play.Once they're all in bed asleep,we do what we want.Think before you type next time. mr p/hot
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RHP User
16 years ago
wewantit247 "..Bad timing sure, bad luck okay, but not bad parenting that our kids interrupted you jerking off to us fully clothed.." listen to what you are saying... my goodness. How can it be GOOD parenting to not care that you child is being VIEWED by someone who is having a pull, wether YOU are clothed or not???? .. not sure there is much more to say on that :\ But it's not just the kids occassionaly getting on cams, its the TALK about kids that seems to be more and more popluar these days in the adult chat room. I don't want to hear what your kid's names are, how many you have, or even that you have any at all!!!! I don't want to hear about their temperature or their snotty nose, or how hard they are to get to bed. What a turn off. Please keep it for the Social chat rooms. xxSoubi
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mrfordy here my opinions in no way reflect Mrsfordy's ( ok now that disclaimer is out of the way )Point 1: "If you are in the ADULT WEBCAM CHAT ROOM i think its completely wrong to first of all have your kids on cam with you!"I agree that having kids on cam is wrong and should not be tolerated, but i am of the opinion you will never stop it from happening, wether its the child/children inadvertantly running across the cam or the parent showing no respect for other room users and allowing there child/children to appear on cam willy nilly.The only way to remedy this is to ban all parents from camming.Point 2:This is the point that prompted my reply to this topic "and second of all talk about your kids, if you wana talk about your kids go to the social chatrooms, leave kid talk and your kids off cam in ADULT should i say again ADULT WEBCAM CHAT."No offence meant but this comment is lacking in any intellect at all and shows the posters preconcieved ideas about this site.Nowhere in the chatroom etiquette section does it list that any day to day life chat is unacceptable in the adult room, and infact everyday it is filled with long time users catching up with friends, fully clothed and not doing anything that could be considered " Adult " in nature.Im also going to presume that as well as talk of children the poster would like to eliminate all none Adult talk including, Motoring, Sporting events, Weather and all other mundane topics that dont revolve around sex."We are not actively searching for anyone at all. We are really only here to catch up with friends in the chatroom"Is a section from the posters own profile, so i will presume again that the poster is also not looking for Strip shows or webcam sex with the said friends, and infact wishes to talk about mundane topics not related to Adult Chat in the slightest.
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RHP User
16 years ago
OK while i've read all the comments above and it still hasnt changed my mind that camming while kids are around is wrong..... id like to point out that while there may be the odd child running through the room or jumping on the bed in the back ground id like you all to think of this .................... How many of you know all the other people in chat???? there could be someone getting off just by seeing that child in the room ... i know its disgusting and it makes my skin crawl but seriously there are sick people out there like that........ and what if that kids teacher is another chat room member???? like seriosuly there are appox. 98 other people in the room that have access to your child and now knows what they look like..... u post your town on your profile... think about it.... what would you rather a whole bunch of guys having to wait till after 8.30 to see you or keeping your child out of a potential harmful situation ..... I think theres alot of slanging at each other in this forum and we are forgetting the big picture here.... come on people the rules are 18+ respect that ....
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Ringleader
16 years ago
Unless their paying members.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Someone (female and i wont mention names how nice of me huh seeing as i don't like this person one lil bit) was on cam today and all these messages come up "Nice Daughter *****" etc.. now I couldn't look cause she has so kindly blocked me, yes mutual hatred there. But yeah seeing guys messaging her about her daughter.. YUCK! SERIOUSLY THATS SO YUCK! I was instantly sickened that someone in an Adult Chat Site would even be on there with their kid so close to even being able to be on cam. If you are at home and feel the need to be on the site, then DON'T CAM FFS. My god RHP will still be here at night when your child is asleep. I come in here when my lil boy is around but I never cam in here and I never watch cams so he can't see anything anyways. So be a responsible parent ffs. 1. Don't expose your kids to ADULT CHAT of this nature 2. Don't expose your KIDS to perverted losers that maybe in these chatrooms 3. JUST DON'T DO IT!! Kaito
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Trent_23
16 years ago
i agree with what everyone has said keep the kids out of the cams on the adult chat rooms
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have brought up this subject a few times myself and obviously some have no fking idea at all..Oh and yay Thrullz re comment about children chat in adult room.Its getting rather boring turning into a mothers group.Like Thrullz says wanna have your mothers group go to social chat... Oh Thrullz and what about the personal problems being brought into chat like fking hello TIT my 100cents worth
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think it is disgusting seeing ppls children displayed on web cams ...its like saying "hey everybody my kid is ready 2 be molestered wat do u think of him/her" ...surely they wudnt want sum sex craved child rapist to get a glimpse of ther kid coz u never know who or where they r!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ive been on this site awhile and have seen enough to make me want to throw up.Ive seen parents fk on cam and when you say something there excuse is we know what we are doing.....ummmmm yeah so does the other 100 people watching..I have even seen guys beg and egg some women on and to please guys actually flash and carry on with children in background..FunFun i totally agree you want to cam in adult chat wait till kids out at school or asleep.....Doesn't matter if your clothed or not or the child understand or not there is alot of sick bastards in this world.. So come on have a little respect for yourself and your children turn your fking cams off no one wants to see children in background while you entertain a chatroom TIT my 200 cents worth PS ffs i could keep going on about this but goes back to my corner
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RHP User
16 years ago
Ok I agree and disagree, so sorry if I ruffle any feathers, it's just my opinion.I agree with fordy that unless you ban all those with kids from camming, somewhere along the line, a kid is gonna be seen on cam, hell I've been guilty of it and am not afraid to admit to it. Not saying it's right, but it happens.I also agree with fordy about the purpose of the adult room. RHP is what you make of it. It's fine to have and use the social state rooms, but hardly anyone is in them and why??? Because we all have friends that are interstate and everyone therefore all collects in the adult room. If it's called the adult webcam chat, then why isn't everyone on cam, friggin themselves off/ jerkin the salami 24/7 and talking only about filthy dirty porno cliche sex?? (don't forget to insert the 70's cheesy music here) lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
You stated.....It just as bad as a couple here who suggested a "friendly" get together with families as they find it hard to get out because of kids.Were just wondering why you find this so wrong. So your suggesting that people who go on chat/RHP shouldn't sociallise with other members and their kids. Your making us all sound like perverts who cant be around kids just because were on a chat site. Please correct us if we read it different.Well sorry to say but a large number of us chatters have kids and we all sociallise together ...we even look after each others kids. We also help celebrate birthdays,weddings etc and support each other through bad times. We also all know there's a time and a place for other things and conversations that shouldn't involve kids. There are alot of people out there and particular single dads who cant get out to meet people. So its ok to meet a person with kids and them to meet your kids but not ok if their on a chat/sex site. If your going to quote morals...do you have kids and if so why are you on here.?? Sorry to get off the track a little there...we do support the above comments of no kids on cams. We would hate to think that someone was watching our kids in a perverted way. Grav n Leelee
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RHP User
16 years ago
the room is 18+ simple as that lol, no kids should be in there
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wonder if RHP can open a room for mothers group......Be Better than reading what there kids look like and what there like in an 18+ room... So how about it RHP open a whinging and dotting mothers group page so they have somewhere to chat about it than bore alot others with it in chat..... Ok not commenting no more on this subject...Hahaha yeah right as if i won't TIT
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RHP User
16 years ago
Jesus how difficult is it to understand that you should use the social chat room instead if your kids are hanging around. It's dead set against the law for you to have your kids filmed on an adult sex site.... surely you can see that it is! It's revolting having kids hang around while men are playing with their cocks and women are flashing their tits and poking dildos up their pussies. Frankly I don't care for your welfare if you are comfortable showing your children vids of men playing with their cocks... that's up to you, but have some consideration for those men and women and for those kids! Men and women go to be involved in "adult chat" not pedophile chat... the whole argument is repulsive to me in the extreme. Keep your kids away. I have three kids, 21, 18 and 16 and I won't have a cam here in the interest of protecting them from the potential risks pose via the internet. *Gaz is amazed that people actually think that it is alright to have children on CAM in an X-rated environment* I'm not going to say anymore about this as this whole topic cuts deep. Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just my 2 cents worth ... it oftens amazes me when i see people complaining about a dick or a tit on cam in the adult chat room ... i mean THIS IS AN ADULT ( SEX ) SITE ! hello ?? knock knock !! hello ? . Itotally agree , there should be no children allowed to apper on or view cams in the adult chat room - period .
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yup I agree that there are other mundane topics including kids speak, I know I have asked you how yours are if I havent seen you for a while..but the convo is one of a mix of questions and brief, not from a lack of interest etc. There are some as Tit has stated turn it into a mothers group, and I know of a few that go in late at night and talk of NOTHING else for the 3 or so hours they are there. Yup some may say block the person, but there is still the convo around it to be seen, and annoying. Sort of kills the adult talk etc.xxMiss Honeyxx <<
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mr Fordy. Soubi here. My opinion completely reflects Thrullz', he just couldn't be fucked responding to you. Now that disclaimer is out of the way-- Regarding your first point. Thankyou for making a valid and mature response to the post. It's valid because it's your opinion and everyone has the right to one, and to express it here in the forums. Regarding your second point. I'm not sure why, but here you thought it would be appropriate to personally attack Thrullz. If someone you'd never met, said in here that you were "lacking in any intellect at all", how would you feel? Maybe a bit offended? This is why I find your 'no offence "meant" disclaimer a bit of a joke. Please re-read Thrullz' post. It's about kids being on cam in the Adult Webcam Chatroom, and people talking about kids in the room. Nowhere does it say that he thinks it's unacceptable to have any day to day life chat in the Adult room, so again, I'm not sure why you "presumed" that he would like to "'eliminate.. all other mundane topics that dont revolve around sex". Regarding your third point. Here you have chosen to go into our profile, and cut and paste part of it and post it into the forum. I don't have a problem with you viewing our profile or commenting on it, if that's what tickles your fancy, but I do have a problem with you using it as a basis to further attack Thrullz and I, as that is what you have done by pasting part of OUR profile in here. Funnily enough, you have gone on to "presume again that the poster is also not looking for Strip shows or webcam sex with the said friends, and infact wishes to talk about mundane topics not related to Adult Chat in the slightest". How do you come to that conclusion based on our profile? How does us stating that we are "not actively searching", translate to us not being interested in talking about sex in chat or watching strip shows on cam? How do you know that we AREN'T actively looking for people, but just haven't gotten around to updating our profile? And how does ANY of this have ANY relevance at all to Thrullz' original post? That's the problem when you presume things, Mr Fordy, because that's all they are, presumptions. Again, may I suggest you re-read the post.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Firstly I just want to say that Thrullz and Soubs are the most down to earth awesome couple on this site. Just because someone puts "actively not searching" does not mean they don't like to talk about issues such as sex. My god I've had some awesome chats with thrullz and soubs about sexual things. They are one of the greatest people you could ever meet on here. People put things on their profiles to stop alot of the deviates posting them messages also, I know I have put "looking for girls".. now I am not a lesbian and I wouldn't class myself as bi just to be cool, it just helps to cut the crappy messages coming through from the many wankers on here. There really wasn't a need to target Thrullz and their profile in this post, especially his intellect, cause I know Thrullz and hes a smart lil cookie with an awesome sense of humour. Secondly the conversations can get a bit boring in there when ppl talk about their kids and its not really the place to bring that personal side of your life into. But in saying that maybe I have said something about my lil boy in there but that was just into replying from friends asking me how I am and how he is etc, I don't intentionally go there to talk about my family. So I am sorry if that has happened. Thirdly ffs can't we just have a bit of fun lol I come in here to chat to some of my friends I have met from this site, have a few laughs etc. Do we always have to talk dirty just to please the deviates in there looking for some cheap ass? I think all Thrullz was trying to put out was.. no kids talk and DON'T PUT YOUR CHILDREN ON WEBCAM FFS. It's an 18+ ADULT chat site afterall. Now lets all talk about CORN! ;) hahahahaha Love u guys thrullz n soubs xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
just wondering how much easier it would be to get into adult webcam chat rooms if all the ppl who want to just chat in general would use the social rooms instead of the adult cam room Oh and we both agree 18 and ova for adult chat rooms NO exceptions
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RHP User
16 years ago
Geez I just go into chat to raze hell, stir trouble, have a giggle or two :-) Kid's on cam..or viewable..Not acceptable...case in point recently..caused a very uncomfortable series of remarks from a participant..We made it very clear that such remarks..even if just "light banter" or casual remarks...were absolutely not acceptable. Respect for all other participants, no IM unless requested, no directing, oh..and more talk about corn (for Kaito's benefit).
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