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Just having some issues with bullshit
January 05 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Bad bad boys... oh you poor dear. What shall we do to them, huh? People are so mean. I know.. let's start a forum topic where we can put rubbish on all the bastards we have met on this site... no names of course... just a quiet place where people can go and give a general bagging out... a resource if you like... of your favourite ways to say "piss off player". It could have it's own hotkey..... "BAD BOYS LOVE BULLSHIT".. just type "blab".. and you're there. Hugs Stalky<<< sympathetic that you've been played. Re-visits previous post on bad boys. :p
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm starting to accept that experiencing a range of turbulant emotions is part of RHP membership. Perhaps the different "memberships" could come with different levels of emotionally experience ? For instance: Guest = occasional changes in mood with few highs Premium = lots of flat patches with gradually increasing highs Premium Plus = lots of highs with some major lows Platinum = rapidly fluctuating highs and lows providing a dizzying experience Sadly the longer a woman stays on RHP the more insane she will become !! Just come visit me and BYO straight jacket !! Sorry to hear your experience... it sux.. but yes, there are surely some great guys out there... SOMEWHERE ?? (please let me know if you find them !) Hugs, Ms Saturn
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi rosebud...I like to to know why myself...but it's just a game..that all that interests them is the sex only..that way they donthave to pay for it....we're just a means to an end...nothing more....they dont want to get to know us as people..leta lone become friends with us...well in my case its not in the realm of possability..as im not young enough..pffftyou know what else..to you ones....that have treated us this way...ya's all can go get phunked...ya gutless ball less ...karma will bite ya on the butt....This mumma had enought..of all the bulls**t....These ones also still look around to see who else they can nail..as if we're not good enough...and spread their bull to them...they wonder why us genuine ones..dont trust anyone... like you...thats all i want..and it aint happening...if they aint going to show us respect and honesty to hell with them all.xoxomumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
Wound'nt it be great if we had a simple test, like word exchange. say i said "flowers" and he saids the first thing he thinks of like "love". heres some results, (GOOD GUY) SEX/ intence...RESPECT/always...ORGASM/together....HONEST/truth...(BADGUY) SEX/suck my cock bitch.....RESPECT/beer.......ORGASM/face...HONEST/ bullshit .
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RHP User
16 years ago
and all the other women who have been burned round here and every other site! Equally i feel for all the genuine guys who would like to meet a woman to have a friends with benefits style of relationship with but get nowhere for whatever reason.I can imagine there could be lots of reasons as to why these guys (Players) behave the way they doeverything from desperation for sex, right through to the "Mistress Laws" Similarly I suppose there are lots of reasons why women overlook/don't find the genuine guys who are what they say!Look i could write a book about this stuff, but meh....soChange your profile, to say something along the lines of "whilst i am not against ONS but would appreciate that you beupfront about it" might help ..might not!Alternatively adopt the good old fashion approach and don't give it up to quick, guys who are players probably will move on quickly....but then again for some its the thrill of the chase i guess!I am afraid it can be a bit of a lottery!Cheers Nev....who was one of the genuine FWB guys but gave up in the end!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Rosebad, As a member of the male side of the race I can tell you that a lot of guys just want to have sex with as many women as possible and not have any form of commitment. It is like a race to see howmany time they can score. Other like to have an ongoing thing with some one that does not involve a "relationship" NSA sex but still friends as well. Some guys are scared that the woman will become attached to them and want more than just sex. In all of these case all you need to do (guys) is have a conversation and explain what you want. LC
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RHP User
16 years ago
There must be a post Christmas/NY sale @ BS Brothers inc! As Nev advised me recently, there is a way to quarantine some of the worst BS offenders...that being posting 'health hazzard warning' via Secret Women's Business. As they say, all is fair in love and war take care Rosebud
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RHP User
16 years ago
I guess my quest will stay a mystery though lol thanks for the suggestion kjandnev - will reword my profile & see if it helps can't hurt! as for falling for someone, that goes both ways - supposed to be just friends then he started to care a little to much . So yes it does happen, but then again I AM simply AMAZING lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
i wish, i wish, i wish...that i could give you a bullshit detector...but i'm afraid it comes attached to me...lol...mine works quite well...lol...well, most times anyway...i think ya should accept that ya gunna meet some f**kwits on this site...i only hope they don't hurt ya too much...or screw ya around too much...it IS a shame that lots of guys are on here to score and then say "next"...but there are also guys on here who like something more, as long as it is not too much,and there are...ahhh....me finks i said enough...starting ta get boring...big hugs for ya...and some more hugs...jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Rosebud...I think sending you a message saying they can't wait to see you again and then blocking you is just plain rude, wrong, unnecessary and insulting (not to mention very immature) and I'm sorry that you've had this happen to you. But here is the deal the way I see it...and I'm not specifically singling out you Rosebud, this is aimed at all the girls who have been burnt on here (going to do this in point form cause my head is filled with stuff that will take forever to try to put into paragraphs *giggle*) * While I may not have had a vast amount of experience, I do know that the sex is always better if there is some kind of connection. * I don't understand why women don't feel the need to establish such a connection before even meeting a guy - is it because they're worried if they drag it out too long they'll be considered a time waster? * Those that will consider you a time waster (some even bitch about it on the forum) because you have enough respect for yourself to get to know them before you share your womanly goodness are the players anyway - they are just after a quick ONS that they don't have to work for. * Always have your radar on and if you're unsure then keep 'em talking. Actually, if you're unsure then go with you gut - there is a reason you are unsure.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Just the other day....I decided enough was enough and I was gonna jump the fence....but then I met a wonderful couple that fulfilled all my needs without any of us thinking it was going to become anything more serious beyond friendship.So now I've decided that I prefer to play with friends only. If people wont take the time to form some kind of friendship based on mutual respect and honesty with me....then they dont deserve me.I also look at where they have been. I swear....some guys really dont like their cocks much...given some of the things they will stick them into. I even have a list.....if he has fucked anyone on that list....then he will never get me.I love sex...I love connecting with people...but I just cant be buggered with all the mind games some guys insist on playing. If you just want a no strings fuck....then ask me! I might just want it too!! But please dont snow me with all the stuff that a girl dreams of....and then ignore me once the deal has been sealed. There is just no need for it.And if this is what you do...then just remember....you are ruining it for the guys that REALLY WANT a relationship... coz she has been bullshitted to so many times that she wont believe ANY OF YOU!Just my opinion...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi all...My kids have grown up hearing the fable about a little boy who cried wolf....as a result of his constant lies no one believed him and in the end it cost him his life..May be if some of those people take heed...they'll realise that the BS will catch up with them..in the end.and by being up front about what they want....they might get somewhere also if they took time to form friendships.xoxoheymumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
The anonymous nature of this site encourages this behaviour from the irresponsible. Some may just be pushy, thoughtless, ignorant, inconsiderate, impatient, selfish or a multitude of descriptive adjectives. They have little care for others and were probably graffiti artists as kids, threw stones at moving cars, punch people when pissed, or any number of other dysfunctional things... there I go using that word again. But there are a number of dysfunctional people here and in society at large. In the early days of the net there was once a belief in netiquette... being considerate of other users on the internet. Now the rabble have taken over... testified by the millions of spam emails which unwelcomely bombard our mail boxes every day. Dear rosebud its just a phenomenon we have to suffer, unless policed by spam filters and membership restrictions. But any rat-bag can create any number of handles they desire and continue inflicting havoc if they so wish. Fortunately there are also the passionate and caring people here in abundance who are wanting to indulge in the same things as you. That's what makes this site worthwhile in the end.
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RHP User
16 years ago
.....there is a way to tell if bullshit is bullshit.... Imagine you are walking in a paddock and come across a nice paddy of manure... (just go with me on this ok) If you pick it up and throw it in the air, and it comes back down and splatters on the ground, its cowshit. If you pick it up and throw it in the air, and it stays up there, its bullshit.... intrigued & curious *wandering off to find some water to wash my hands~~~~~
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sounds like horse shit to me :) Most often horses usually shit in a corner, whereas cows shit all over their tucker :( No wonder they say, "Silly cow!"
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RHP User
16 years ago
those 'silly cows' are sacred cows in some countries....lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Rosebud i will personally take it upon myself to redeem mankind & take you out for a great night out. Tall
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RHP User
16 years ago
but horses shit everywhere as well...as do sheepand chickens...omg and DUCKS!!!...they even shit in the water they drink...urrrkkkkk!!!now alpacas...they do tend to have their own pooh piles...cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Shame file of the iliterate or just downright STOOPID Just received: (despite my profile clearly stating Im not interested in married men) "hello. you have caught my attention. Up front, I,m married. your call."
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RHP User
16 years ago
I should warn you though I am pretty jaded. To redeem my faith in mankind, is a big call! lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hmm me thinks that these ones..think were mushrooms....lmaokept in the dark and fed bulls**t....that i aint...nor are other people..xoxoheymumma anyone got a paddle..lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
"lol...yes please...give me your number...so I can call your wife..."sorry...it's late and i'm tired...will sleep on it and give you some other comebacks tomorrow...or is that comeandgets...lol...??cheersjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
I luv mushies its my meat...lol...lightly season and crumbed ...soo yummo.will have to get some from sydney....hahaHmmm id think of gnomes hehe...or myname might think of something different..lmaoSorry myname...i try to look at the lighter side of life ...calmer head space...xoxoheymumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
LOL Jose'...man! Im off my game tonight...um...married man MESSAGE ME PLZ Anna Avacado xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have met some good people, and made some friends, but I have also met some people who have been a waste of time and effort. Recently I made a bad decision to meet up with a guy, and the experience was very average. A couple of days later, he decided to send me a series of abusive text messages. Unbelievable. I am certainly going to be more cautious in future.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Isn’t life a gamble, 2 months ago I received 5 replies in response to my messages, to which I replied and tried to organise something, my re- replies (if that makes sense) have not been answered, I don’t see it as a waste of time, but part of the process. For what ever reason they have decided not to reply. It is no different to when I play golf and don’t really enjoy someones company, being rude about it though is like have a better than you attitude. I try to make something out of every experience, recently saw an article about RHP being in some sort of regulatory trouble for supposedly placing fake adds to keep the males paying our fees, maybe the last 5 were fake. (that number 5 again) when we do finally meet the likes of customer 69 and heymumma, would e ever consider the journey a waste of time. dzynr
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RHP User
16 years ago
I will get a response that is favorable. up until now, it has either been crickets chirping, or a polite "no". the silence outweighs the no. just tell me if you aren't interested!! if you are, let me know. Not a mind reader. not good at signals, or flirting, either. far too long between dating - I am very rusty in the dating department, no clue what a player is...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Miss BJ - Simple sound adviceTo judge people by what they do not what they sayRegardsMr. SR.
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RHP User
16 years ago
please ladies get out and meet men or women face to face dont be put off. just real if you dont like them tell them to sling their hook,tis life and after allwe are here to learn
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RHP User
16 years ago
there is so much false in this site than truth whether its in their profile or their photo's I learnt not to believe much of it I have been lucky enough to meet some great ladies and couples on here but boydid it take some time and effort once you get thru the crap and false claims then you will meet the right experience you r searching for but unfortunately , like life we have to deal with the pretenders stick with it in the long run you will win one thing I found is look for validations on their profile and contact the person/couple who posted it
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