Cheekyarses

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Jealousy is such an ugly word!!!

December 13 2012

Why do we have the emotion jealousy!! It is such a energy wasting emotion! Jealousy tears people n friendships apart! It is such an ugly trait that people can have, although in small amounts its nice as it can mean you mean alot to someone!! Who gets jealous and why??

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Jealousy manifests itself when someone is scared of loosing the other person or they are unsure of themselves and the relationship. Jealousy does not mean someone cares about you CA!! It just means they are possessive over you and no this is not particularly a good thing.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    is a sympton of insecurity.Some people love provoking it in others also evidence of insecuriy.I don't personally think that jealousy is any evidence that someone cares.It is evidence that someone wants to own another. In 19th century France ,jealousy was a defence to murder, it was called a crime of passion.It is still a defence to murder but now it is called temporary insanity.Jealousy is indeed an ugly and sometimes dangerous emotion

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    I agree with you both very very strongly!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It's just another word for insecurity !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    spurring people on..making them self evaluate, to motivate, to examine   Why do we instantly think that a "negative "emotion, as such - is in fact a "negative"emotion ?   It only is.... if we let it be   Love is an emotion.................bet that word does everyones head in on hows thats perceived....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Shinasbabe,I see nothing positive about such a negative emotion as jealousy.It causes agitation,depression,feelings of powerlessness,panic and can lead to violence. Envy on the other hand may motivate someone to achieve more,do better than etc ....but it can also be like a poison.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I don't do jealousy, as its much better to put your time an effort into other positive avenues.Why spend time being bitter/negative in life.People who are jealous need to understand that something better awaits them in life An example would be ,"J" leaves you >>>>You meet "K" who is someone who you would not have met if still with "J"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...a compilation and culmination of many emotions including jealousy, the range of feelings are both physical, mental and emotional.I get jealous when I see some doofus ripping past me in a brand new Maserati Quattroporte Sport with an absolutely stunning blonde showpiece sitting next to him and think... 'Damn, I wish that was my car'.I could never ever afford the blonde, but maybe one day I'll be able to get that car!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    is probably the ugliest of human emotions.... luckily its one we dont experience... neither of us is insecure in any way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ... happy to replace "J" ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'Freya13' Shinasbabe,I see nothing positive about such a negative emotion as jealousy.It causes agitation,depression,feelings of powerlessness,panic and can lead to violence. Envy on the other hand may motivate someone to achieve more,do better than etc ....but it can also be like a poison.   Freya I totally agree with your summation..totally       but as I said jealousy is only negative is you let it be...any emotion can destroy you if you let it...even love

  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    Kizza1973 I like it!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Because I'm insecure

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    13 years ago

    ....is a useless emotion which demeans the individual and works/impacts negatively against them in the long run. DontLookDown.....I'm far from high maintenance and cars don't turn me on. But you can do me over your bonnet anytime.... OS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...by the chimney with care. Quoting 'On_Safari' DontLookDown.....I'm far from high maintenance and cars don't turn me on. But you can do me over your bonnet anytime.... OS And Santa has already told you he's going to be there. Leave your knickers hung next to your stockings too, unwrapping packages is so overrated and the bows get stuck in my teeth! This Santa comes more than once a year and will probably have that part covered before we even get out of the parking lot, little girl.*Making a list, checking it twice...gonna find out who's naughty*Who cares about the rest, you sing it your way and I'll sing it mine.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    jealously an emotion you get when you want something that someone else has ,,whether it guy,girl .house .flash ,car fancy life style..just because you get jealous doent mean your insecure

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi! Hun Well said! .Exactly what My view is on Jealousy Thanks for sharing it Cheers Lu :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'zx10knight'jealously an emotion you get when you want something that someone else has ,,whether it guy,girl .house .flash ,car fancy life style..just because you get jealous doent mean your insecur jealousy is a different thing to envy the latter being what you have described I think....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    im enviess that guys banging the hot babe..im jealous the guys banging the hot babe...either way i fucking pissed off the guys banging the hot and im not..... lol