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It's just dissappointing

June 28 2022

After many days chatting we agreed to meet, being very open and honest about what we are seeking she was saying all the right things. After agreeing to meet for coffee this morning, receiveing mesages, "I'm on my way" and "just parking now" only to be suddenly blocked. We support not everyone is a match and sometimes people get cold feet, but its just a shame they feel they can't simply say, "you're not what I'm looking for". Surely we can stop the harrassment of the ladies to a point they feel comfortable to say no thanks in person. xxxx ( not your profile name ), we understand if you got cold feet, just a shame you didn't feel comfortable enough to tell us in person.

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Flirty2020

4 years ago

“She” was more than likely a male posing as a female. Did you not do a video call beforehand ?

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Alex_Lover

4 years ago

I'm sorry this happened to you :( My first thought is... are you sure it was a woman, and not a guy pretending to be one? Soooo many fakes on here, and online in general. - Alex.

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Gamers

4 years ago

unfortunately men will pretend to be females just to get your x-rated pics , respond only to paid accounts and eventually you'll learn how to work out the real ones.

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RHP User

4 years ago

It interesting that most are of the belief it a guy posing as a woman. It could simply be a woman who for the first time was meeting another woman for possible bi sex and just got cold feet and was a no show and blocked you, in much the same way most guys would have experienced the no show and blocked. How different things are when the shoes on the other foot not very nice is it

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ddlbm

4 years ago

Flirty, we’re with you , we al aye arrange to meet couples at a bar or club that we were going to anyway, if they show , cool if they don’t , no harm to our night .

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peter196921

4 years ago

I know the feeling, was speaking to a couple for about two weeks, arranged a catch up with them, she was very keen to meet, was chatting to her up to a hour before meetings, traveled 45min to meet them, no show and they have disappeared from RHP 😱

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Mrs_Deep_Love

4 years ago

That sucks! Probably a dude. We all have experiences like this along the way. Good luck in the future!

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RHP User

4 years ago

I too have been left high and dry a few too many times by both ladies and couples. Like so many others I now insist on a video call to prove that they are real. I had one recently with a lady and she was real. Very real with a RHP profile. But in Russia, her accent and the TV in the background gave it away very quickly. I hung up that conversation Immediately and moved on. I find after chatting for a few messages moving onto a video chat is now my natural next step and boy has it worked out in my favour. Totally recommend this to weed out the time wasters. Good luck in your search.

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RHP User

4 years ago

That's why I restrict first up meets to at swingers clubs or parties. If they show up fine if not no biggie as there is always lots of other people there to meet

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FeistyFatty

4 years ago

Never had it happen as a solo one on one play... And neither has Hubby. We both agree couples are actually the most flakey demographic and don't play with other couples anymore for that reason. Guess just lucky over the years more than anything as I don't do phone calls or video chats. I/we always have a backup option available if it's not a spur of the moment playdate though ... Just in case.

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RHP User

4 years ago

Please remember we are all not like that. I don’t stuff people around and hate it being done t me. There are a few genuine ladies on here.

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RHP User

3 years ago

We’ve been fortunate enough to never have no show when doing a meet snd greet. Having said that we like to do a fair bit of messaging back and forth here first and then organise to exchange mobile numbers before meeting to be sure people are genuine. When you ask to exchange mobile numbers you quickly learn who the fakes are.

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HeathWild

3 years ago

Loads of weird guys out there pretending to be a woman. Welcome to the Internet mate 😂. But yeah, it’s why we have verification on our profiles. I’m only a guest account, but I’m verified, so I’m not pretending to be someone I’m not. My only suggestion is, if they’re not verified don’t even bother. 👌🏽

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RHP User

3 years ago

This just happened to us, luckily before the ‘looking for a park stage’. If we could leave a negative validation on the profile we would, trust me. So exhausting and draining - oh well back to the drawing board.

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