RHP

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It's happened again

September 22 2010

Got rejected again cos he is an academic he says and cos I'm not a career woman cos I chose to stay at home and look after the kids, he don't want to meet. I mean he only wants a sexual affair but he seems to think it will make a difference. I guess he didn't take into consideration the fact that i actually graduated from high school and travelled and did have a career for 20 years before I had the kids. Maybe he thinks career women are better in bed!! Personally I think for these purposes it has nothing to do with it. It has everything to do with sexual chemistry especially when he is looking at an hour or 2 max of sexual fun!!

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Plenty of other fellas out there Desserts,  maybe it was a blessing in disguise! Cheers Nev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Does he want someone to do his presentation for him and discuss politics or does he want to have sex?? *scratches head* as confused as a baby in a topless bar......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    No big loss... full time academics are duds in the sack anyway... I could prepare another doctorate on that topic but.. you know... too busy putting my skill into practice. :p Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Desserts, What have you lost here ? Maybe you should do a powerpoint presentation on what he missed out on! umm that may get up these types noses..Your worth more than then baby x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Look out mate ....you will be in trouble for stereotyping.....lol Or maybe its just me they like to pull up.Cheers Nev

  • Almost_Ready

    Almost_Ready

    15 years ago

    But you are right, it was probably an excuse. I mean you sound perfect, as far as I am concerned you are just what I would be looking for. I wouldnt care about how "smart" you are, if you went to uni or if you worked in a broom factory.. As long as we get on we can get it on! You deserve better.. His loss Desserts. Cheers Oldog

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Desserts, Please hun, don't worry about it. It sounds like he is a player and you basically called his bluff by saying yes. His reason is nothing but a very weak and ill thought out excuse. I would say he isn't an academic, nor probably anything like his profile portrays and because you took an interest in him, he panicked and came up with one of the lamest, weak as piss excuses I have heard. Just put it down that you dodged a major bullet in this one, he wasn't worth your time anyway. Mooka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ....... judgemental professional academics

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I recon his profile is nothing like the reality and that is why he bailed. Please ladies and gentlemen and others, do not put down the academics, I know a few that are simply fantastic (both in bed and out) Dont worry about him desserts. Move on. Plenty more out there that are genuine. Just persevere Hun. Fionabee

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    who gives a flying f___! what you do with your private life and choices? was he after a debate? perhaps he should mass-debate.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I so don't get some of the reasons used for 'why not' on this site, hope it's not too long till you have fun with the fellow who works out 'why'!Hugs... Mrs P xoXox

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    15 years ago

    Desserts, You look and sound gorgeous and you will probably find he did not state the truth in his profile as Fionabee said. I've known so many "uneducated" trades people who knew more than the supposed "scholars" with degrees. And anyway, why talk shop when out in the playground ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    hardly have time for bed, and he's made a mistake by not having dessert...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    See how much fun he gets from crawling into the sack opening his Thesaurus and placing his member between the pages. LOL Talk about going to be with a good book. No thanks. Better things can be located and I am sure you will find plenty of them.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    What a knob, some guys don't deserve a penis let alone a quality fukk...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The world is full of them, those who have no idea about the real world, their IQ is high but EQ non existent.. Try not to take it to heart Desserts, someone better always comes along!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    and wank off whilst imagining himself being gods gift.....................blow him off......... I hope he reads this Forum.......... Exit says your a wanker buddy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    sounds to me that the "professional" v's "non-professional" argument rears its ugly head again!This guy sounds like a total tool...and yes...I think Taipan's suggestion of a powerpoint prezo sounds marvellous!!You could title it..."This coulda been you if you weren't such a shallow, judgemental twat"Hahahahahahaha!!!His loss honey.JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Desserts, Buggerhim. Meet me next time I'm in Sydney...LOL!

  • playfulminx

    playfulminx

    15 years ago

    Me thinks that guy can add another letter to his name: L, as in LOSER!I am sure there are other appropriate letters that can go after his name too :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    He is entitled to make any excuse that he wants or choice of selection for that matter .. who knows what the real reasons are. But to crucify him because he is an academic is hardly fair. God forbid that someone may want to educate themselves and provide them or their family a comfortable life or perhaps choose a career that interest them......! Wouldn’t we all like to see our children excel with their education and graduate from university with a degree ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    With all of the above and on reflection I think it was his way of getting out of a potential meet as he did seem rather astounded when I suggested having a phone chat. Certainly his loss, but I'm constanly astounded at how many guys want to know if my hobbies coincide with theirs or if the stars are aligned before they will even consider a meeting!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'MissBJ'sounds to me that the "professional" v's "non-professional" argument rears its ugly head again! All academics are professionals but not all professionals are academic!! :p Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    No one has the right to make up an excuse that includes putting or talking down to another. if it's not "right" he should just say "it's not right". I am uni educated and run my own successful business, if i required the other party to be the same i would spell it out. .....at the end of the day many on this site need to just use a little common courtesy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    He is married and I am married and I am not crucifying him cos he has a uni degree, but at the end of the day we are looking at a brief sexual encounter during the day in a hotel room and quite frankly what jobs we have shouldn't come into it. We are certainly not going to be going out for dinner or anything else. Pure sex with a bit of chat afterwards, and I'm quite well versed on most topics!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I might not have a uni degree but I am financially independant of my hubby cos I worked hard and made good choices and never had my kids until later in life and I do own my own home, no mortgage here sunshine!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'MissBJ'sounds to me that the "professional" v's "non-professional" argument rears its ugly head again! All academics are professionals but not all professionals are academic!! :p Hugs Stalky hahahahhaha....yep Stalky!Although I didnt mean professional per se...its the whole...."I'm something and you're not so we are sexually incompatible" argument that just gets on my goat.Of course everyone is allowed to have their own tastes etc...but joizus....when you are being that picky about someone you will probably only ever 'know' for a few hours...then you don't really wanna get laid, do ya?JMO....BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Next time I come across someone like this again, and I seem to get my fair share, I shall pretend to be a lawyer and after we have done the deed I shall say "Surprise surprise!! I'm really a ......., but hopefully the sex was good!!" LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    never settle for just good sexyou want it to be mind blowing quoting desserts Next time I come across someone like this again, and I seem to get my fair share, I shall pretend to be a lawyer and after we have done the deed I shall say "Surprise surprise!! I'm really a ......., but hopefully the sex was good!!" LOL.................................tell him you used to be a manstroke and look at his penis and tell him how you miss yoursyou deserve much better with lots of play and satisfactionffs we all deserve that

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    no no no desserts......tell him you've seen better bars in a courtroom.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    that is a bummer maybe he might turn around or you will find another.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'm guessing his wife is a stay at home mum who never had a career and he considers she has no right of complaint because he is the bread winner and he is allowed to cheat. I am also guessing he thinks you are in the same category as her and what you are seeing isn't snobbery it's in actual fact a disgusting display of chauvinism against women. He doesn't think you have the right to do what you're doing... He's a bigger wank stain than I first though.