F57
It's all about me!
November 06 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I do not have time for the other stuff. Besides I have all the other stuff I need My FriendS WB know its me and them right into it, roll in the hay , lovin every minute of it Intimate yes, but does not have to be war and peace , its not rocket science for me. I happen to like sex. It happens that some of the men on here like to have sex with me. simple I have social meetings with people off here as well, but my sex life is pretty basic You man. Me woman with short fuse. Or as one kind man said, I manage my time well.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Then it's drinks...if I get a call for maybe benefits, it's still drinks....if I get a call for benefits it's NEXT....
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RHP User
13 years ago
But whats a FWB ? Fucked if I can even find one.....WA men are very picky apparently...ah thats the prob..its me !! Ah well TR will you share...pretty please ??? Oh ho - No - I remember what happen last time we did that ...:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I totally agree with you Lollypop. Without the vagina with NSA, the guy would probably be at home masturbating... Stand your ground - it is all about you. You have the missing piece of the puzzle which is the choice of giving benefits on your terms. I personally do not like the idea of FBW as it hard to get two people that want the same thing at the same time. I like the whole romance, adventure and getting to know somebody, when you have a connection other than sex, the sex just becomes that much mire satisfying and enjoyable - that's just me though and I believe each to their own as long as it works...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Its very rare that would I meet a guy and have sex with him straight away so I think of meets as social with potential, unless of course I have had sex with them before and know I want to do it again. Even then I enjoy some social time either before or after sex. Is it all about me? I like to think I am into reciprocity so I am happy to share pleasure. I feel my best after a mutually satisfying encounter.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hardtruckin you are so straight! LOL I don't mind just the benefits call on occasion but only from my lovers who I already know.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sometimes I just want it. Dont want to talk just want cock.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ermmm make me a twisty ;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'Hardtruckin you are so straight! LOL I don't mind just the benefits call on occasion but only from my lovers who I already know. 04xx xxx xxx :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011' Ermmm make me a twisty ;) I know something that will twist you up.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's not for me. I usually don't even have sex on a first meet, though there are exceptions. A few days ago I just couldn't help myself. The chemistry was electric. I need the "other stuff" as part of the foreplay. (Though I can see that going to a club would be a whole different story. Meeka take me!) If a regular FWB would ask for a sex only meet, I'd consider it. But I'd still prefer a call for drinks and maybe benefits, like you said OP. In that case the chance it turning into benefits is around a 100/100 chance.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Reversing the b-double around a round-a-bout doesn't count ffs :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
Drink yes I'm not just a piece of flesh for a man personal enjoyment. I love a chat first and then sex, but if I've slept with them before I still like a chat and a laugh before and after a coffee or drink before I am on my satisfied and merry way.Nothing against you tuscanred as I know your situation.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Selfish people leave me cold I'm afraid, just don't want to go there.Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not here to buy dinner , drinks or movie tickets .. if we want company we play sport , if we want a drink its a drink with mates male or female , if we want sex its just sex ... NSA is just that no strings attached dam string just gets in the way Japanese Silk Ropes now that is a diff matter
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'feloniusfossil' Selfish people leave me cold I'm afraid, just don't want to go there. Cheers Felonioushey I am a good girl, I share my toys
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RHP User
13 years ago
Noooo...I can't say I ever considered you to be the selfish type. Cheers Felonious
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RHP User
13 years ago
Mrs Alfie here I dont mind at all ... what is wrong with a blow and go i dont want to hold hands and listen to footy scores ..Just fuck me and get moving
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RHP User
13 years ago
why would you not embrace mutuality?Giving another pleasure, is very intimate and erotic and a pleasure in itself.I think the ''treat 'em mean and keep 'em keen'' philosophy is quite frankly,puerile . Sex without mutually giving pleasure is for me ,empty,and I would rather sit on my finger,it is a very unselfish finger afterallx R
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RHP User
13 years ago
it's about me ? Has RHP registered as a charity ?But of course I appreciate that your here for you, WIN WIN !
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RHP User
13 years ago
I like Effort ... I like to get to know someone over a drink or dinner Its all a part of the flirt the anticipation ... Free Sex is not my Game ... If I wanted to FUCK Strangers I would Charge a Fee but thats not my thing ... I need to like & connect to be Intimate ...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'DeviousMissM' I need the "other stuff" as part of the foreplay. (Though I can see that going to a club would be a whole different story. Meeka take me!) I just love a little lady that begs.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'DeviousMissM' I need the "other stuff" as part of the foreplay. (Though I can see that going to a club would be a whole different story. Meeka take me!) I just love a little lady that begs.
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boots_69
13 years ago
Damn right it is lollypop.Have been a booty call on more than one occasion and have been used as the ride.That said there are a few ladies (good friends) who have heard me say use me abuse me throw me out in the morning and the nights have been filled with laughter and good memories.Love the social contact.Cheers Boots
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensta' I like Effort ... I like to get to know someone over a drink or dinner Its all a part of the flirt the anticipation ... Free Sex is not my Game ... If I wanted to FUCK Strangers I would Charge a Fee but thats not my thing ... I need to like & connect to be Intimate ... I once said to a date if i wanted to fuck someone i didnt like then I would be charging him.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' But whats a FWB ? Fucked if I can even find one.....WA men are very picky apparently...ah thats the prob..its me !! Ah well TR will you share...pretty please ??? Oh ho - No - I remember what happen last time we did that ...:) I do share but , ohhh yeah forgot that one... The WA men are very good, but just very busy all the time with the fifo thing, thats why its best to have at least 4. I think they come in a set like that over here. Apparently
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RHP User
13 years ago
and more often than not about the person Im with too I dont mind the booty call from a regular FWB but not from someone I barely know. I usually tell those people that if theyre after a one night and a quick fuck without getting to know me first - hire a prostitute but Im not one. I always meet socially first and then see where I want to go from there Kisses Focus
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm pretty giving. I could easily make it all about him as long as every third minimum were aaaallll about me. I personally love the built up and teaseMrsSplicey
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RHP User
13 years ago
Let me clarify, its all about me isnt selfish in terms of only if I call you, or I expect dinner first or anything selfish in that sense. I have several FWB's, and they all know I have several others and they are not my own FWB, yet they still seem to have a lapse of sanity and think that I am a booty call for their pleasure. Now dont get down the straight and narrow here with thinking this is the only way it is. Yep I will visit them and just bend over for a quick fuck, say thanks and leave, and all the rest of the stuff in between. My overall point is, if a womans gunna be a FWB then the tactful way a man handles the contact, matters. If every time its a 2 minute phone call "hey want a fuck?" and told no and then its just ok see ya later, well there aint gunna be many benefits happening over time. So, who's interested in a drink? I got enough FWB''s, I actually need someone just to hang with, go the club dribble shit and go home! lol no dramas there hahahaha P.S if everything regarding FWB's wasnt about mutual pleaure, then there is no friends and certainly not gunna be benefits. But still, I like saying 'its all about me!' Wondering if fwb from here is gunna be reading this and make mention next time i see him?? (for the record, i dont want leftovers LOL)
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