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Ist Meet In Person...

September 23 2012

I was just replying to a Topic Excuses by Bellas.. and it got me thinking about the funny things that have Happend when we meet someone we've only Chatted Online with for the 1st time... The 1 that stands out for me was A Guy in his 40s He was way too eager to meet me .I was keeping it on a Friendship Basis because I knew it wasn't going anywhere . I figured Let's get it over and done with.... He arrived early, I let him the Gate whilst he Parked and went to get dressed...Then I remembered I hadn't unlatched the door I did so .. as I turned I heard footsteps...Thinking it was my Neighbour passing and I was naked still I dived into the Kitchen not wanting to scare him he!he! .... It was My Visitor! I pressed My Naked body against the Cupboards as there was no where else to go..Like that was going to make any difference ha!ha! He was pleasantly surprised when he saw me there and proceeded to cuddle Me very closely . .Oh! I thought Damn!! the last thing I wanted was for him to see me Naked when I'm trying to keep it as Friends he!he! His approval was very evident he stood in the lounge with a Hard on...He I wanted to show me what he was wearing ..He dropped him Pants revealing his G string ..I grinned because he was so full of himself God's Gift and all that.. All I could say sitting there still Naked was.." Well You're certainly Prepared for some Bi Action" ha!ha! ..I'm not sure he saw the Humour in it.. He was then looking very intently at a collage My Daughter gave me for my 60th ..After he said he'd go get a bottle of wine whilst I get ready ...When he returned we'd go out for Chinese .. He didn't return ..I was getting concerned thinking he may have had an accident .. It was so Pitiful .. He couldn't even say he had 2nd thoughts... I would have been fine with it ..Offered him coffee said Good Luck! in his search .... But the way he left was so Disrespectful, Cowardly ...It makes me giggle to this day .how much of a jerk he was My Vibes were right the Universe was letting me know too.. I saw him On the Dating site a short time after ..I warned him I focused on him being in an accident with my Abilities it will happen so he needed to explain his actions to prevent it ...He hasn't so I've no doubt that accident will happen. if it hasn't already Foolish Man!... I wasn't Fazed by his action ..I was more disappointed not going out for Dinner than I was him leaving..Karma is a Bitch! ha!ha!... So Spill People who's your Guy who comes to mind ha!ha! ...Enjoy Lu :)

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  • Cheekyarses

    Cheekyarses

    13 years ago

    That is priceless!!! What a jerk!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    those vibes we feel, are ALWAYS right!i have learnt that the hard way!you know, when you have that feeling, creeping around in your gut, that this guy is a dickhead in disguise ...you cant put a finger on it, why....you just know!i had something similar, a few months back...unfortunately i managed to get fooled long enough, to get him in our bed...and although i cannot say, that i was "feeling used"...as his oral skills were quite memorable....i had the feeling, after our night, that he really didn'tt give a shit about me...(even though, that on the nighthe was "mesmerized", "blown away", "lost in my spell", etc.....)i thought /felt that i shared an amazing connection, with this person, on the night...(which is very important to me...)but it turned out, that i was only an other "experience"...just a fuck....a body to play with...and not a person...it took me a while, to listen, to that little sound in my head, telling me "run..run as fast as you can, this guy is a self absorbed moron...."i kept telling myself, that the little voice is wrong....(after all, we have gone as far as playing...and i dont like bed hopping from one man to the next..would rather work on, what i already have..)until one day....it became so loud and clear, what he really was...that i could no longer ignore, the warning signs...i was a fool, for not listening, to my inner voice, my intuitions, earlier....as i could have saved myself a whole lot of disappointment...(and hurt and betrayal), if i had just cut my losses, and walked away, the first time i had doubts....those female instincts are gold, if you learn to listen to them!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My girlfriend and I were being pestered by a sweet young thing to meet us. Kept saying no yada yada, he got my number of another woman of rhp, so to this day I have no idea how he got it.   anyway   In the end we decided to put him out of his missery and said come see us at my art studio   we are in our daggy old paint clothes, no makeup here were are a couple of old chooks warts and all     He pulls up in the flash ute jumps out bounds up the stairs full of anticipation and comes to a grinding holt when he sees us the look on his face is priceless   Like fuarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrk they are old   I say hi baby you up for it? as I wipe paint of my brush onto my daggy overalls   he says all a stutter errrrrm look you ladies are really NICE lol but I have to go ummmm errrrrr ummmmm my mates are waiting for me ummmm maybe another time?     He was low running out the door, we pissed ourselves laughing poor luv   And madamdrf what a hoooot re your story made me smile, what a coward indeed he needs to Man up!   That is why boys do not talk it up, about what your going to do to any woman before you lay eyes on here, ditto for women   Chemistry and attraction can fall flat when you meet a person in the flesh   And there you are with dick in hand and not wanting to put it where you said you wer gaggin to put it.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    you are hilliarious hunnii :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    What a skunk! Hope he catches a disease and his dick falls off.Cheers Felonious

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks Hun he!he1 well he wasn't the fish that got away because I wasn't realing him in ;) He makes me giggle so a Postive thing I hope he hasn't had an accident reason I warned him ..Cheers Lu :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hun Don't focus on you being fooled you weren't ..Your Intuition knew, you chose not to listen.. So learn from the experience,,, listen if you need to again,, just think of it as a rehearsal .. You Enjoyed the sex with him ..So remember that.. Hun he didn't use You as another Fuck ..You shared eachother at that time you wouldn't have had great sex otherwise . He used himself he is the Prostitute not you he needs to get Emotional schmoosing Payback in a Sexual way with many Women because he doesn't know how to have 1 Balanced Intimate Relationship .. Either he's too Immature or he hasn't learnt to love himself ....You know who you are.. how awesome you are..He may never know that about himself ...Blessings Lu :).

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hey Hun :) Oh! it is a giggle Poor Luvs they let their Fantasy Female run away with them then their hot with a Reality Check he1he1 I bet he nearly wet himself ..not only that Probably looked like a Rabbit in the headlights ha!ha! Oh! I somehow think you had a giggle got online or went out had a drink with your G/F..You would have killed the Poor Thing anyway the Sexual Woman that you are..ha!ha1 It remeinded me of a Young Immature 23yr old Guy who had a thing for me ..I went to his place it looked like a storm had hit his Lounge ..he's computer nerd ..very smart. .Anyway we sat down on the couch he was so excited with me being so close that he kissed me then he started masturbating and finished without me touching him ..Then asked if I could drop him off at his Mates Please ha!ha!.. We parted as Friends ..Enjooy Lu :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hun ,, Well most Guys would think she was removing her Panties ha!ha! ..Lets face it you'd love a beautiful Woman to thow herself at you and you get to have your way with her..She was just doing it 1 Limb at a time ha!ha! Good idea talk for alittle while.. know them more even a full length pic may not have shown her leg .. I'm guessing if she did that you must have Pissed her off! in some way if that was her reaction what can 1 really say after that .:) I think your follow up line was very appropriate ,Good for you .. .I 'm curious did ya get to keep the leg? it makes a cool beer Glass ha!ha!..Cheers Lu :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Lu,Honesty would be easier all round on everyone but it seems that its like common sense, so rare its a super hero power.TR, very funny indeed :)Cheers,W.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hun ...I understand your reason but wishing someone I'll like hoping this Guys dick falls off! is fine but it can come back on you ..You don't want your Dick falling off! now do you .. So better stroke it each day swisper sweet nothings to it so you have pos; feedback instead he!he! Enjoy Lu :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    You Old Schmoozer You he!he! cheers Hun I hope all's welll with you :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi! Araps :) Yes Hun I agree it would .. I've only been really caught out by a Guy once ..He's a Afgahani.. He came to me on a Dating site his 1st hi! was so abnioxious I couldn't believe anyone could say what he did ..so I asked he told me an Older Friend told him that's how one says it Online ..Anyway long story short. He told me he was a 39yr old Virgin ..I took Pity on him as I would if someone was Cold ,Hungry aid them .I taught him how to be a good Lover. for the Woman he Marries . He kept the sherade going well because he was crap! as 1..He had 1 lesson I checked what he knew . Then he was going to NT to work Ok fine by me I had no attraction to him ..but he came back wanted to see me Nope..I rang his Mob he had given his Friend so he told me made an excuse not to catch up..I received a Missed call Later it seems He had been Married 20yrs had 5kids youngest 4yrs.. His Older daughter was very confrontational towards me I understood that.. I explained to his Wife she was Lovely we became Friends .But she had to believe him for her Marriage, Home, her Kids Sake ..She knew I acted in an Honorable way not wanting to come between them.Infact we used to have a giggle about him I said to her I hope she's getting the benefit of what I taught him he!he! I told him he will live with the Guilt of betraying his Wife and Family for the rest of his Life because they know everytime..He will see that in their eyes.. Even after that I still have the utmost Confidence that their are very Honest People out there the ones who need to Lie have their own issues to deal with that's why they do it..Enjoy Cheers Lu :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    @sensualtimes2   you said I had something similar, a few months back... unfortunately i managed to get fooled long enough, to get him in our bed... and although i cannot say, that i was "feeling used"...as his oral skills were quite memorable.... i had the feeling, after our night, that he really didn'tt give a shit about me...(even though, that on the night he was "mesmerized", "blown away", "lost in my spell", etc.....) i thought /felt that i shared an amazing connection, with this person, on the night... (which is very important to me...) but it turned out, that i was only an other "experience"...just a fuck.... a body to play with...and not a person... Its funny what a small world it is re rhp sometimes. I find that yes, I have had the same guy as a few other women and that often the experiences are not the same. I remember fucking to mates, on seperate occasions One said I was the best fuck he ever had, the second said I was the worst fuck he had. The guy may have just really enjoyed you, at that point in time. He is delightfully intense and yes I can also vouch for his oral and other skills. For me, as he had his own woman and I have my husband, like you do. Then there was no expection at all for any other kind of connection. His partner is deliciously smart and sexy so she manages to give him all that he needs , I was just a little frosting on the side that his partner was ok with. I still have a nice connection with him and his partner and I consider them friends. I never feel used by anyone, man or woman as I make the choices to fuck or not to fuck..bit of shakespeare here I do not think a man is a dickhead if he fucks me and does a good job and does not come back, as after all I said he could get into my twat and was happy for the experience. Most of my lovers are good in the sack, mainly because I help them to be that way. I am a catch and release kinda girl, if the little sparrows want to come back then fine. I think if your a married woman then you had best not have an amazing connection with anyone but your hubby, friends with benifit yes. I tend to leave that amazing connection to my own partner and this man has one to his partner as well, that I think is very healthy. I would think that other women and men on here, especially in Perth have fucked the same person and each one would have a unique tale. this man was pretty darn hot and very respectful to me,so no complaints my end and if i was bi, I would do his georgeous girlfriend as well. she is hawwwwwwwwwwwt and smart

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hun it seems she's very comfortable with her self That's awesome she's had time to get used to having her new attatchment but you weren't aware of it at all so there certainly would have been shock value .Frankly she could have been more subtle and in a more Private place to share that with you .Oh! Sorry but I keep getting a visual of the episode just makes me giggle along with a Caption ..I don't want you to think I'm a fake Person or anything..So I'm showing you what is so we can be open with eachother he!he! ..I'd have No idea how I'd react probably as you did but because it wasn't subtle not because of her leg.. Phone is always good a few times before meeting to vet People and know for what ever reason if you will get along ..Good Luck! in the Future cheers Lu :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'tuscanred' @sensualtimes2   you said I had something similar, a few months back... unfortunately i managed to get fooled long enough, to get him in our bed... and although i cannot say, that i was "feeling used"...as his oral skills were quite memorable.... i had the feeling, after our night, that he really didn'tt give a shit about me...(even though, that on the night he was "mesmerized", "blown away", "lost in my spell", etc.....) i thought /felt that i shared an amazing connection, with this person, on the night... (which is very important to me...) but it turned out, that i was only an other "experience"...just a fuck.... a body to play with...and not a person... Its funny what a small world it is re rhp sometimes. I find that yes, I have had the same guy as a few other women and that often the experiences are not the same. I remember fucking to mates, on seperate occasions One said I was the best fuck he ever had, the second said I was the worst fuck he had. The guy may have just really enjoyed you, at that point in time. He is delightfully intense and yes I can also vouch for his oral and other skills. For me, as he had his own woman and I have my husband, like you do. Then there was no expection at all for any other kind of connection. His partner is deliciously smart and sexy so she manages to give him all that he needs , I was just a little frosting on the side that his partner was ok with. I still have a nice connection with him and his partner and I consider them friends. I never feel used by anyone, man or woman as I make the choices to fuck or not to fuck..bit of shakespeare here I do not think a man is a dickhead if he fucks me and does a good job and does not come back, as after all I said he could get into my twat and was happy for the experience. Most of my lovers are good in the sack, mainly because I help them to be that way. I am a catch and release kinda girl, if the little sparrows want to come back then fine. I think if your a married woman then you had best not have an amazing connection with anyone but your hubby, friends with benifit yes. I tend to leave that amazing connection to my own partner and this man has one to his partner as well, that I think is very healthy. I would think that other women and men on here, especially in Perth have fucked the same person and each one would have a unique tale. this man was pretty darn hot and very respectful to me,so no complaints my end and if i was bi, I would do his georgeous girlfriend as well. she is hawwwwwwwwwwwt and smart hello....thank you for your lovely comments....although i do appreciate your kind words, honestly...i think you misunderstood me..if you are talking about the person , i think you do....that is not the person, i was referring to...i know, that the "few months back" could have been misuderstood...but i was referring to someone, before him...(by "few months" i didn't mean two months ago....)but thank you for your kind words, all the same...wish you all the best

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ...and, no...i never said i was feeling used, by this particular person, you were referring to...it was good fun...a nice experience...but i have long moved on, since....as for wanting a connection, with the person i share my body with...i respect your point of view...but we all work differently...i am happy for you, if your approach is working for you..it doesn't mean, it would/should work for me...that is why we're all different, to one another...all the best

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