Mr_MrsJones

Mr_MrsJones

M60 F53

Isn't Natural better.

August 09 2010

This is really a question for the guys out there but girls feel free to comment. I was chatting with my pole dancing teacher today and she commented that if she had the money she would go out and get some Botox!!! Now this woman is pretty easy on the eye and she can do things with her body that I only dream of. So I said to her 'What would you want that for??' She went on to say that in her industry; ie strippers and dancers it is really easy to feel inferior and that most older women (think over 30 here people!) have some kind of 'work' done to keep themselves looking nice. My question is. Does the average guy want these artificially enhanced women to look at or would he rather look at a healthy, fit woman bending herself around a piece of metal. Really, most women who keep fit and have a good diet look great and isn't natural better???

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I do prefer a natural look , natural feel but i cant knock anyone wanting to improve their look in their eyes..I know i may have sat on the fence with this one ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    nothing wrong with a woman wanting to Improve herself for her! Not for anyone else! If Infact Im having a tummy tuck done! its painful to be beautiful! but all worth the pain! XXX

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    if a person is that insecure that they need surgery to attempt to make themselves happy, then I think go for it.personally, it's not for me, I want to age gracefully. try to keep healthy, exercise, don't smoke, drink in moderation, no drugs etc.most importantly limit sun exposure and rarely wear make up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    soon those of us with smile lines will eb a distinct rarity as girls in their late teens/early 20's are now botoxing it up.I love smile lines on a face it will be a sad world when you can't tell from someone's face how they're feeling.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    why not? if you can afford it and you want to fix wrinkles/big gut/small doodle/tiny tits etc id say go for it.. And guys theres nothing wrong with some hair color and a healthy diet... i cant understand my friends with grey hair and big guts saying "yeah i dont need that shit" as they swill down more beer and their wives just frown. then they wonder why they get no nook nook hahahha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Jelousy is a curse! Casava! Insurcure certainaly not me! lol I have got silcone breasts having more breast work done in a few weeks! By the way! I had medical reasons why my breasts were done! as for my tummy tuck my choice cant wait im excited just got to lose a few more kilos to make it really good! hey casava I also drink alcohol socially, smoke ciggerettes daily, smoke joints socially, & wear make up! & get lots of sexercise! So hey wanna judge me now??? lol bet u i have a better & more fun life than u miss casava u sound so boring!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    In this case, I think, do what makes you feel good. Natural or Fake, it will always be how you wear it that will make or break a look.Besides like most of us I colour my hair, shave, wear make up and have my ears pierced so who am I to say natural is better? I think perhaps I may be fence sitting here too though because on the other hand I agree with Polar Bear Girl, smile lines are sexy and my body has seen me through alot, so some of the imperfections I am rather proud of and others make me think, you know what I work hard to look after my body and be healthy so when I get to the point where I have done all I can naturally to get my body in the physical condition I want it then I would consider doing something about my belly or lifting my boobs.Never say never is my motto, it was easy to say natural was the better option back when I was 18 and all tight and toned and...urgh dam shame you just don't know what you got till it's gone :P Young and sexy body and no idea what to do with it!xx Salina

  • Mr_MrsJones

    Mr_MrsJones

    15 years ago

    Thanks girls for all your great insights. Definitely everyone has the right to feel attractive and also to use their available funds to maximum benifit be it for gym memberships, make up, hair dye or plastic surgery whatever rings your bell. But what I was asking was do the guys (and girls if it applies!) prefer to see strippers / dancers / porn stars that are 'enhanced' massively so as to look almost plastic or ones that look more like real women. Much like the people who are on RHP! I have seen letters in some more popular girlie mags bemoaning the lack of 'real' boobs and asking why there aren't more; to be told by the editors 'suck it up buddy we like these ones!' So come on guys what DO you think??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i'm sorry, what do i have to be jealous about?my boobs are naturally the right size for me, I don't drink alcohol that much because I don't like the taste nor do I require it as a social lubricant, likewise with smoking. as for drugs, i don't need it to get high. i like to exercise because it makes me feel good and I need to keep a certain level of fitness as a dancer.my skin is clear that i don't need to cover it with make up, unless i'm performing. But mostly because I'm too lazy to put the crap on, I'd rather spend the extra 20 mins on much needed sleep. it's probably clear as well because i don't irritate it with too many unnecessary chemicals.yes, i'm fortunate that I haven't yet had to suffer from breast cancer so I don't need a medical reason to feel like a woman.yes, you're probably right that you're getting more sex than me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    good to see a response! Understand me clearly never presume! I dont have breast cancer! Understand! just cause I think plastic surgery is a wonderful thing I know that others may not choose the same! sometimes i wonder if there wasnt such a high costs of thousands of dollars involved would everyones opinion change? Its a good thing to have pride in ones self! Anyone can look a million dollars! choosing a stylishish outfit, taking the time to do hair nice and of course for the girls a little makeup! So for me I would rather have less sleep get up early make myself look my best and make an impression in this world!....................Miss casava! Im really happy in my life! And yes I do get lots of sex! not from no tom! dick! and Harry! I have a guy! a hot sexy one! And I dont need lube either! I have a beautiful sweet n juicy VAGINA! u want to see? xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Ahem... not trying to state the obvious... but "feeling good about yourself" is intensely personal. If botox helps you get there.. or just a swipe of lipgloss... I think you should go for it. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    JENSTA. Sit down, light a smoke, grab a drink and enjoy life as it is. It's your choice what you do with it. Casava same for you minus the durry and grog. If you are happy with what you have, fine. But please allow people who are not the liberty of getting ehancements without prejudice. Having said that please dont go as far as lets say Joan Rivers for example. We all have something we wish was different, wether we admit it or not.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    mr! Im fine Its wednesday dont drink through the week only socially! yes i will have a smoke with my coffee (also caffine addicted) lol Im through the front door! not the back door! I say it how it is! I have a happy and fun life with many love ones family and friends! most people tell me its amazing the true loyal people i have in my life! so hey happy! happy! joy! joy! If plastic surgery was on medicare! everyone would want to have lots done! people only critisise when they know its not in there reach or jealous! Im a realist I know I have lived for some years hearing n dealing with many opinions on sugeries n trust me all the same! Love it, cant afford it or jealous! casava I checked out your profile! always room for improvement!