Is there a bit of double standards here?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  im on another more conventional site i get nothing there either so i guess that makes me no good for sex or a relationship haha but i know a few men that are on both and yeah they tell me the same thing RHP for sex...other site for relationship i guess us girls cant win sometimes roxxy

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  tamworthguy46

  15 years ago

  Hi there Fellow tamworthian.....and roxy....1st post a reply...The " more conventional sites that you speak of" To me just seem to be Sex Sites in disguise..With both girls, and more so guys, going the long way ...in finding a possible sex partner, which i think peoples feelings end up getting hert...by the assosiated bullshit that goes with saying you want a lasing relationship...when you don't realy !.....I usually apreciate someone saying they are after more of a relationship than anyting else.....It gives you a bit of an idea, weather your suited or not....But i get the feeling sometimes women just say that....So they don't seem like a slut.Which goes back to the other thing you were talking about......That some people think that someone might be good for some fun.....may not be good relationship matterial, Because of previous sexual partners or whatever......But I just view that as Narrowmindedness, or some sort of moral handicap. love and Peace ...Tam

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Fiona if you are going to find Mr Right it could happen anywhere. Who says that you can't fall for someone you meet here. And yes I did read your profile and you say you are not looking for MR Right, sure, aren't you always looking just a little bit. Last time I checked you didn't need a chemistry degree to enter other sites, just like you don't have to be a nympho or hung like a donkey to get onto RHP. Just like anything else in life it is finding that needle in the haystack, and just maybe you will get a little prick in your hand during your search. So as for double standards, not for me. What you see is what you get. Not sur ea bout being a Jester In Aluminium but I might just have to put the Steel Undies on to protect against the kicks I am likely to get from this.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'ORBITRON' Fiona if you are going to find Mr Right it could happen anywhere. Who says that you can't fall for someone you meet here. And yes I did read your profile and you say you are not looking for MR Right, sure, aren't you always looking just a little bit. Last time I checked you didn't need a chemistry degree to enter other sites, just like you don't have to be a nympho or hung like a donkey to get onto RHP. Just like anything else in life it is finding that needle in the haystack, and just maybe you will get a little prick in your hand during your search. So as for double standards, not for me. What you see is what you get. Not sur ea bout being a Jester In Aluminium but I might just have to put the Steel Undies on to protect against the kicks I am likely to get from this. Not I sweetie. I am not looking for Mr Right, nor Mr NearlyRight. Just for funa nd games. If it happens, hey well and good but certainly not dilligently searching. Fionabee

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  If i was looking for a woman for a relationship, i would have absolutely no hesitation with finding a long term relationship with a woman from RHP, and in fact i can think of a few here i would happily date with a viewto such a relationship!What da hell is wrong with these guys!Cheers Nev.......Mr Strange

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I used to have my profile on more conventional sites but took it off when I realised that the expectations are different. Many of the guys that contacted me were after a full relationship which was not for me. This is a fun, sexy pick-up site where the expectations are short term only. If you meet your knight or princess here then thats an added bonus. I met my knight at a party that I found in the events section!! Hope you all find what you are looking for.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Not sure if I would call it all double standardsI have a profile on a dating site for the off chance I might meet some one (but not holding my breath)I also have a profile on here for fun untill the above happens (if at all)I look at it we all have an itch we need scratching and if I was to meet someone via here well then alland good but I try and keep the attached emotions away from here as it is I guess a sex siteis that double standards ...Im still true to myself and honest.... have nothing to hide or keep secrets...honest profilesmaybe just worded different for the sites in question

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Good question Fionabee, the beauty of this site is we can relate straight away to our sexual needs..The other site are more the emotional needs first.. Lets enoy the ride before we go off and get hitched !!.. i vote rhp !

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'Taipan12' Good question Fionabee, the beauty of this site is we can relate straight away to our sexual needs..The other site are more the emotional needs first.. Lets enoy the ride before we go off and get hitched !!.. i vote rhp ! But it did actually amuse me when one of my friends said he was on **** looking for someone permanent. Had I been more sensitive I could have been insulted. I have always known whether or not I fancied someone enough to do the horizontal mumbo with them. Could ever see the point in endless games of "lets wait". Lol. Guess that is why I never married. Fionabee

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Having tried the more conventional sites in the past, I find RHP to be a much better way to meet women. I'm not looking for anything lasting, but (hopefully) nor am I stupid enough to pass it up if it comes along. I find that as they are more able or willing to talk about issues as personal as sex, women here tend to be more open and communicative generally. Far from it being a stigma to be here, I think it often indicates that women here are more interesting and open - they don't feel a need to veil themselves behind emotion and social convention. Stand proud, girls!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  here and on fark book. just stop lookin. seems ta work jus fine............. ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhaha found an old girlfriend from 1985...... ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha Earl

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I often hear the two sports compared, however would suggest that, short of the ball having a similar shape...the two are entirely different games. | Personally, I prefer to "play" here...albeit I am not nor have ever been on a "traditional" site. That simply is not at all what I am looking for presently and certainly doubt that I would have had the opportunity to meet, have fun, and become friends with the diverse group of people that I have here. I enjoy spending time with those that I have met and I like "the rules" of this game. | The double standard exists in either sport and perhaps is best stated in an old quote whose author escapes me..."Every man wants to be her first...every woman wants to be his last". Fortunately, I believe that the quote and philosophy is as antiquated as it's author...and you may find any number of very pleasant surprises on the journey regardless of the path you choose. | John Gray still has a lot to answer for in my very humble opinion...we are not at all from other planets but rather, quite complimentary if we so choose. I prefer options and derivatives when trading on the open market rather than fixed interested low risk contracts with penalties for early withdrawal. There is of course more volatility in that market...but the upside can be substantially higher yields and the opportunity to take profits and trade out. It may not be the right market for other investors...but suits my style very well. Risk and return...grid iron or Aussie rules. We make the choices and know well ahead of time that they are not the same sport. / I prefer the options and derivatives!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  ...hell its why i joined up in the first place but the question I think Fionabee is asking is why is it that people use this site solely as getting their sexual needs fulfilled and use another site for their emotional needs??? Are those of us only using this site (whether they be male or female) only good enough for the odd romp in the bedroom (lounge room, dining room, kitchen, ....) and not for something a lot longer lasting?? I firmly believe that for a relationship to succeed properly for everyone involved to be happy sexual compatibility is essential...so why are people adverse to the idea that the right one might be here for them??? Kisses Focus

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I don't think that people use RHP solely to satisfy sexual needs. I'd be totally open to finding someone here for a full relationship, despite the fact that it's not a priority at the moment. In fact, I once met a woman here with whom I might have given that serious consideration had she not moved on. At the end of the day, if we find someone we're happy with, we're not going to care whether we met them here, another site, or as what started as a one night stand in the pub. Other sites are just another option - the long game is the person, not the details about how we met.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Understand the damsel in distress, but sorry gave up the uniform some time ago. Oh bugga, should have kept it.

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