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Is the single male the new pariah?
November 06 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
we'd be complimentary of the contact we've had with 'single' guys here, and on other similar sites. we've found 'single' men to be, on the whole, polite and respectful in their approaches and messages to us. we stress though, that its 'single' men....we arent of the same mind when describing some of the messages, and antics of some of the 'coupled' men who have contacted us over the years.... to say that some have been 'less than respectful'..... is generous.
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's all relative I think, good experiences minus bad experiences and if the number is a negative, either sex can be called the pariah. To be blatantly honest, after my wife and I separated, ALL women were the devil!!! Now I've had time to be rational I've realized there's 2 sides to every coin. Sad but true
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RHP User
13 years ago
I suspect the negativity is more aimed at the single men because they send out a lot of generic emails without even reading that the profile is saying specifically 'no single men'. I don't blame them for casting their net so far and wide; with a site like this and, as it has been said many times before, with the plethora of men on here, they need to make themselves known to people who may give them the slightest inkling of consideration.Most have been polite and have replied with a 'thank you for replying' when I decline, although there have been a notable few who started off polite and very complimentary before turning very nasty and abusive when I've sent a polite decline.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ode to the single man He sits alone , the computer lit Trying so hard not to be a twit. Scrolls down through the pictures, all tits and bums Breaking out in a sweat all fingers and thumbs The single guy on red hot pie Looking for that pie, in the sky Some furry muff or a fur-less Flange Just so he can take himself in hand He often is much maligned , always looking at a girls behind Its so unfair the odds on here , it makes us women want to shed a tear So give those single men a bit of a crack So stop being mean ,don’t give em a whack For doing all the things men tend to do No need to say single guy just shoo I love the single sexy beasts, who lurk and perve and want to meet Who lay me down upon the bed, and lick right up to my moist wet heat Who kiss my lips, and pull my hair and go to place married men never dare To nuzzle my neck, a hand on my hip, to tug and pull at my bottom lip Oh how I swoon in my single bed, With a single man trapped by the head Between my thighs they like to linger And trace my mouth with a moist wet finger So come to me. you sexy single men and cup my breasts And find all my zones from A to Z , and give all the married guys a bit of a rest. TR Elliot
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RHP User
13 years ago
I have found most to be polite, cheeky, and of course, trying their luck but, of course, that is what this place is for so.. all good.
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RHP User
13 years ago
TR Eliot ,was that an ode from your Old Possum's Book Of Practical Pussies ?x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ive recently closed down my old profile and started a new one. Of course in those first few days when you join, all women inboxes :) are overun with messages (very flattering). Ive made a real effort (having lots of time now) to reply to all who I have contacted me. For all the potentials I have rejected, every single one so far, has thanked me for replying , wished me well, some have even paid me a compliment ..maybe expressed disappointment ...but I have not received any negative feedback from my rejection (perhaps that is still to come) . But I have been pleasantly surprised and impressed. So OP I am with you when you say, that perhaps there is a lumping together but then that is human nature. On the other hand I have made in the last three days, brilliant phone contact wtih two lovely men ( 4 hour convo with one, 1 hour with another) both expressing interest and in those long conversations, much was exchanged..and then total silence...more silence than a tomb......and when you contact them with a "Um Whats happening?" sms politely enquiring "Are we still on ?" ..........total ignore.....nothing So there you go....not being gender specific here, but oh how easy it is to hide behind a computer screen and a mobile phone....so many promises and zero follow thru..and both men told me that they were quote: "Werent like other guys" yeah rite...actually your two are in your own catergory of which there is plenty of company ..just plain rude jerks... Grown men (pussies) behaving badly, in that scenario ...yes.
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RHP User
13 years ago
We choose our apples for the basket, there's always going to be a bad one in the mix. But men and women it doesn't really matter. But it's just easier I think to bash the single men and get away with it. So far I'm yet to see a male post a thread pertaining to the real fake women, the women that DO cocktease (be honest there ARE going to be a few), those that do all the same things as some of the bad apples basket of men. I just think that some women, and couples just like to whinge for the sake of of it.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Yes please! And as others have said, I have no problem with those that are polite and have found most fit that description. The men that annoy me are the attached ones who ignore my clear statement that I'm not interested in anyone who is attached or married. I think its couples who complain most about single men because they ignore their "what we are looking for" descriptions. I certainly don't think its fair that all single men be cast into a negative light because some won't play by the perceived " rules". JMO
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RHP User
13 years ago
Which is why i'll be buried under a stone Pyramid..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'hardtruckin2011'We choose our apples for the basket, there's always going to be a bad one in the mix. But men and women it doesn't really matter. But it's just easier I think to bash the single men and get away with it. So far I'm yet to see a male post a thread pertaining to the real fake women, the women that DO cocktease (be honest there ARE going to be a few), those that do all the same things as some of the bad apples basket of men. I just think that some women, and couples just like to whinge for the sake of of it. lifts my top, does a shimmy licks a finger runs it over a hip, szzzzzzzzzzzzles sings You cant touch that! I think my cock teasin days are long goneeeeeeeeeeeee. I dont think I can tease a Bantom rooster now. Maybe if I called it a short little cock, is that teasing?
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RHP User
13 years ago
There is a bit of bad in all of us BAD BOYS !
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RHP User
13 years ago
Lol *looks at pants* she didn't mean mini-me. :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
They sure beat the married ones!
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RHP User
13 years ago
thank you for sharing that ode from your''Old Possum's Book of Practical Pussys''....I shall look forward to your upcoming readings in Sydney,I hope many will attend this major cultural EVENT.x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Try adding "single father" to your dating résumé. That makes you a pariah and then some lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' On the other hand I have made in the last three days, brilliant phone contact wtih two lovely men ( 4 hour convo with one, 1 hour with another) both expressing interest and in those long conversations, much was exchanged..and then total silence...more silence than a tomb......and when you contact them with a "Um Whats happening?" sms politely enquiring "Are we still on ?" ..........total ignore.....nothing This seems to be a cross gender scenario from my experience.As far as being a pariah goes well do your best I say, most of the mud slingers seem to have rolled up the shutters along time ago and are just here to vent. It used to bother me but it's really a waste of energy.This site seems to work best for couples and women looking for couples, so be it, I've given up worrying about it, but good things happen if you're open to it so here I am a happy coincidence waiting to happen.I rarely contact anyone on here anymore, flirts are ignored, there seems to be a double standard in that pro forma letters aren't good enough for a pro forma profile ! When you read a profile and think wow, nice, spend a bit of time to write a contact letter addressing the interests and common ground and have it sit there unread or ignored you just think fuck it !My age seems to be the biggest barrier, I contact women down to about 40 as I know I can deliver the goods but I'm just seen as a blohard or whatever, indeed most mail goes unread if I am over the age limit.I get that but hey I'm no worse off.But I have some "pen friends" from the forums which is nice. And I have met a rather yummy fwb on here so "I'm just here for the forums"I still send out the odd flirt though, if they have substance I will get a reply if not, too bad.
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RHP User
13 years ago
had a conversation a few days ago with a group of friends, both male and female. As far as the ladies were concerned, if a guy is hot but an arsehole then they wouldn't have sex with him. As far as the guys were concerned, if the girl was hot but a bitch, they'd still have sex with her. Torturedcliche, I hear you re single dad, that one has stopped a lot of connections dead in its tracks...
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your quite rite, it isnt gender specific, but the silence either way is perpelxing Pity you feel what you wrote but fully understandbable. Ive often hoped you would contact me :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Freya13'thank you for sharing that ode from your''Old Possum's Book of Practical Pussys''....I shall look forward to your upcoming readings in Sydney,I hope many will attend this major cultural EVENT.x R Yes my dear, we shall go through that old book of chestnuts and see if we can add a Sydney Chapter into the pussy book. Just wish they would put up the bloody event , its pending but someone may have had to go for a long dump or something? They might put it up after we have been and gone, safer for, Sydney me thinks , I am thinking of the Couples Swingers, maybe we can pinch the sarongs? Can I wear one of those old fashioned bathing suits, you know with the frilly cap and all? well it might just be someones Fetish?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'DeviousMissM'They sure beat the married ones! absolutely!
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RHP User
13 years ago
I believe in treating others the way I would like to be treated, with respect, consideration and dignity, I have had a 99% strike rate, courteous and respectful
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Your quite rite, it isnt gender specific, but the silence either way is perpelxing Pity you feel what you wrote but fully understandbable. Ive often hoped you would contact me :) I wonder what will happen with such a clear statement . . .and then the next challenge my dear . . . . . have you contacted him???????
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RHP User
13 years ago
while draping ourselves over a bar stool ,at the Sheraton on the 24th,we could start surveying the fetishests at 5pm. Bring ya frilly little rubber cap,it's sure to attract the right kind of attention.x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Wildreturns' Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Your quite rite, it isnt gender specific, but the silence either way is perpelxing Pity you feel what you wrote but fully understandbable. Ive often hoped you would contact me :) I wonder what will happen with such a clear statement . . .and then the next challenge my dear . . . . . have you contacted him??????? For you Ms Wildreturns... Contact Made - all good .... Punches air whilst skipping.......!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
For you Ms Wildreturns... Contact Made - all good .... Punches air whilst skipping.......!!!! Dives through hole in air executing triple somersault with a full twist.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Quoting 'Wildreturns' Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Your quite rite, it isnt gender specific, but the silence either way is perpelxing Pity you feel what you wrote but fully understandbable. Ive often hoped you would contact me :) I wonder what will happen with such a clear statement . . .and then the next challenge my dear . . . . . have you contacted him??????? For you Ms Wildreturns... Contact Made - all good .... Punches air whilst skipping.......!!!! FANTASTIC!!!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
a single male get lucky on this thread...this happy pairing is brought to you by FrEya Harmony x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
Shinas ... you rock girl! I might have to hand you my brave__heart mantle. I'm chicken shit when it comes to this dating bizzo and clearly don't deserve it :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'brave__heart'Shinas ... you rock girl! I might have to hand you my brave__heart mantle. I'm chicken shit when it comes to this dating bizzo and clearly don't deserve it :) YOU DO TO DESERVE IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - no apologies for the caps..... C'mon you Sydney male peeps lurking....... help me out here... This gal (Brave-heart) is BEAUTIFUL....both in heart, mind, body and spirit.......dont be shy :) compose and hit that send button.....NOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If she wasnt awesome then she sure as shit wouldnt have made it onto my friends list...........:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Shinasbabe27' Quoting 'brave__heart'Shinas ... you rock girl! I might have to hand you my brave__heart mantle. I'm chicken shit when it comes to this dating bizzo and clearly don't deserve it :) YOU DO TO DESERVE IT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - no apologies for the caps..... C'mon you Sydney male peeps lurking....... help me out here... This gal (Brave-heart) is BEAUTIFUL....both in heart, mind, body and spirit.......dont be shy :) compose and hit that send button.....NOW !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! If she wasnt awesome then she sure as shit wouldnt have made it onto my friends list...........:) Sounds a little like someone else we know ma'am?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Of course single men are more fun,, When I come across a hot sexy girl I want to give everything i got to please her and send her away with a massive orgasm, Knowing I have done a good job,
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