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Is sex your everything???
March 02 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
At this present moment in time...Im sitting in a damn fine fancy restaurant, watching my ex husband take a business call just outside on his cell phone - the 4th phone call his taken since we met up 3/4 hour ago. Its the first time we have seen each other in 11 years although we have remained friends and have stayed in touch over the years... As his closing another deal in China no doubt - (while keeping me waiting) ...Im surfing the forums on RHP on my phone.. The point of the story ?? Approx 30kms up the road, rite now...there is someone Id like to be having sex with, however Im chosing friendship - even if it is my ex husband, who is a real Master of the Universe (plus I need his help with a issue plus his paying for dinner - wonder if he minds if I order the crayfish ??) Moral of story: I love sex.....but I love my life friendships more....nope Im never gonna sleep with my ex husband again .....we are good friends...and that is all. Now the sex up the road...is also a good friend...........the dilemma of it all...... And now Im watching him check the Dow Jones index. .and he wonders why I walked... - posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
It's funny but you always seem to know which friends you would loose if you went to bed with them and in most instances you value their friendship far more than the sex even if you fantasize about it with them. It doesnt take away from those friends you have with benefits but it's a whole different dynamic.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I`ll choose Life-Friendships and getting to know someone anyday over sex...for sure!!! I`ll just masturbate...LOL All my friends I've known for over 10+yrs...One girl friend known for over 25+yrs-oh the stores we could tell...LOL PFFFT I could get vanilla horrible sex anytime if I choose.. but it nothing like the real deal with friendship bonus included! Foxy Oh Shinas you bring tears to my eyes...*laughing* LOVE IT!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Try living in Karratha.
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Jed181
13 years ago
Well said vagabond....
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
Is it a question of choosing? Have not some great life long friendships been born out of relationships that didn't work. Others happen in the course of life.Does sex change the dynamics of a friendship. Does being single change the perspective of sex & friendships compared to being in a relationship. Being single i think changes the dynamics of sex & friendship.
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RHP User
13 years ago
does not preclude the other.I have had sex with friends,and become friends with people I have firstly had sex with.I have to admit though that the sex was wonderful,maybe if it had been crap it would have made a difference.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I live an active, adventurpous and interesting life.... of which sex is a normal, regular part.Me, my life and my sexual being..... we're a package deal.DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
... we are attracted to the opposite sex for the purpose of sex to make more of us. I never tire of that male female reaction when attraction occurs, but I know which side my toast is buttered when it comes to friends and would never take the chance of losing that friendship for the hell of it. Tempted as it may be, there is one attractive friend who just broke up with her husband' who I know would like to be closer. But its just not worth the possible fallout with the group of friends we mix with...So no' I dont fuck friends.. Theres enough to go around outside, so why rock the boat...
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
My question wasn't would you have sex with your best friend? My question was is sex your everything? Is it the only thing you can think about - instead of having conversations, hobbies that are not sexual! Stay on topic lmao!!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not much to talk about in Karratha
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RHP User
13 years ago
is my everything.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sex is not my everything. It is a small insignificant part of my life. Just a great place to start and a great place to end.
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Handmaiden I like it
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RHP User
13 years ago
I constantly tell a certain male friend I don't get enough sex. He always offers. No can't go there, value his friendship too much. So, yes sex is a big part of my everything. If I was getting heaps, it probably wouldn't be. Does that make sense?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sex is very important to me - I like it. A lot. But is it my everything? Kinda depends on when you ask me! Seriously, no. I'd be sex free in a heart beat given a choice between sex and friendship and all the wonders that brings. But phew! Glad it's a hypothetical question though, right! Mrs Inadditionto - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sex is a big part of my life. I hesitate to say "everything", but it is intrinsic and important in many, many strands of my life, and it percolates through much of what I do, every day. I don't mean just "cock in pussy" sex... or even "orgasm" sex. I mean sensuality, sexuality, connectedness, flirtation, titillation, arousal, intrigue and desire. I'm less an "on/off" person, and more a continuous flow, sometimes strong and sometimes slow, kind of person. I wouldn't ever say sex was insignificant, and I would say it is *in everything*, at least. That feels better to have that off my chest :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'I live an active, adventurpous and interesting life.... of which sex is a normal, regular part. Me, my life and my sexual being..... we're a package deal. DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sex come way down the line for me
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RHP User
13 years ago
That reads like a humblebrag. It isn't, it's an admission. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Smilingwithfun
13 years ago
Cheekyarse,being in a relationship gives you a different view to those of us who are single. You have found the one, so friendship can stay platonic, if it doesn't people still know the limitations. When single,its a whole different world.It depends on a lot of things as to what we whant.We don't have the platform of a secure relationship.Its life.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think Messo has best described how I feel about sex. It's certainly not my everything, but it's an intrinsic part of my every day. For me it's a natural expression of who I am, an undercurrent that runs through my life, I'm sensual, when I have a partner and we are connected it is never far from my mind and I'd expect to express that connectedness on a daily basis through sex. I feel sexy and sensual, I feed that side of myself in a variety of ways. Enjoying my sexuality is one of the joys in my life. However, Will I compromise and have sex with no connection? No, frankly that's just masturbation using a different toy.- Posted from rhpmobile
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Cheekyarses
13 years ago
Sex is a very big part of my life, but it does not consume my life!
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RHP User
13 years ago
is not my whole life,in fact having sex is a small part of my life,but sex whether we are having it or not still occupies our minds. We have sex with others,we have sex with ourselves,fantasise about sex,talk about sex,wish we could have more sex,wish we didn't feel that we should have more sex. Is sex more important than great friendships?How much time do you spend thinking about your friends, talking about your friends,spending time with your friends?Is that more or less time than you spend on sex? ''Sex is.There is nothing more to be done about it.Sex builds no roads,writes no novels,and sex certainly give no meaning to anything but life itself.''...Gore Vidal
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