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Is it that hard to reply to a message?
October 06 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Desk with it :-)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Depends what sort of first contact it is?? * Wanna root? * I have a 10" cock! * Hey wadup? * Here's my number, call me! * Hey * Hey dude These are types of emails woman get daily. We have no obligation to answer them. FOXY - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is a reply :)
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DynamicCouple36
12 years ago
Well written FOXY. !! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sometimes no answer is kinder than a flat out rejection. At least then you can fool yourself into thinking it was some other reason. But seriously, with the number of emails ladies get on here, I can perfectly understand why. Sometime It is just timing, you read a message, mean to reply but then something comes up an a few more have pushed yours right down.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I reply to all flirts and messages. Except for the "I just wanted to say that I loved your profile" flirt, as there really is no decent flirt back for that! Why can't there be a "thanks for the flirt" flirt?!?!
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RHP User
12 years ago
"Deal"- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bi and Gay guys also get a lot of down right obnoxious or generic messages. Sometimes from the same pers
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bi and Gay guys also get a lot of down right obnoxious or generic messages. Sometimes from the same person over and over. I don't reply.OP if you think that the person is rude for not replying well then you have saved your self the hassle of meeting a rude person. If you bother to check whether the person has read the message and they have not replied is that not in its self a reply as well.I do love these big cry baby threads about non replies. Shows us those that need their hands held in life.#devilBest of luck OP. #whatever
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RHP User
12 years ago
I never thought of that,the altruistic messenger
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RHP User
12 years ago
YES, absolutely. It is rude.. Says to me '. You don't deserve my attention' ? Ever think it might be the other way round ? Quite possible..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why hasn't this topic been raised before - it is a travesty, a blight on humanity. Hmm must be the first week of the month, that is about the frequency of these posts!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Forgive us, this exact forum is posted at least once a month, but you wouldn't have known. Welcome to the forums! And I'm glad we have a new pool cleaner, with 50zkool leaving us.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MsElle72'I reply to all flirts and messages. Except for the "I just wanted to say that I loved your profile" flirt, as there really is no decent flirt back for that! Why can't there be a "thanks for the flirt" flirt?!?! I emailed RHP about this about two weeks ago. The response was that I could use the "Thanks, flattery will get you everywhere" flirt reply. No, I can't, because that would imply I'm interested when I'm not. I need it to just say "Thanks, I appreciate it". RHP, you fixed the dumb "I don't see our planets colliding" flirt, you can fix that one too!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry my precious. :( Oh darling how was the honeymoon?? FOXY - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's easier to not reply. I used to reply to every message and flirt I got. Even if it was 'thanks, but no thanks'. I stopped when the blokes started getting nasty and flipping out because I dared say no. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Maybe there at heaps that can't seem to locate the reply tab lol... You get replies be happy with that :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
My profile was written to help people make conversation with me, how do I reply to "hey" or "what you doing tonight?" If I wanted a boring and non stimulating conversation I'd talk to someone at work....guys need to realize women need not just their bodies but their minds stimulated when it comes to seducing.(This is of course a generalization) if more guys maybe took this approach then they would be surprised how many replies they could get. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
id love to be eating a girl out right now, Isnt one I feel obliged to respond to ....
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RHP User
12 years ago
I don't reply to people who don't bother to read my info like (sorry to say) older guys as it clearly states I'm not interested on my profile, aswell as people who are not within driving distance to me aka another state coz I don't see the point of wasting mine and their time if we aren't going to meet. And as I'm a guest I can not send u a message so it's annoying when other guests keep sending me flirts to message them, and when they send me stupid messages bragging about their dicks...not cool guys- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sadly mate it's the guys here that can't take rejection that has caused this issue in the first place ? It is clear the nice lady's and couples here tried to reply at one stage but due to the fuk wits getting all nasty on that it has caused a bad taste for us that r here for the real deal???
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's mostly the married guys screwing it up for us real guys
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DynamicCouple36
12 years ago
What about if, in ones profile, one makes it very clear that one does not want to receive flirts and messages from guys "single or otherwise" ? Would it then be rude not to reply to them if they clearly ignored ones wishes and make contact ?We receive a lot of messages from guys who have obviously not read our profile, or have simply ignored our request. We politely message them back, asking them to read our profile again, as we clearly have stated that we do not want to receive messages from guys. Seems to work with the majority, although a few then get abusive.There was one, who became extremely abusive saying that because I (Leslie) am "hot" and have posted "hot" pics, I am rubbing this in and thus a snob and that I relish the fact that for most men I am out of reach and that they can only dream about me .... he then became rather offensive and threatening, telling me that he would come and literally fuck me to death when my husband when to work ....... It was at that point that I blocked him.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It doesn't take much effort to say, thanks, but no thanks.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is not enforced or optioned or mentioned in a membership here. You cannot control other people so expect nothing and be pleasantly surprised when you get something.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Warning69'It's mostly the married guys screwing it up for us real guys The married guys are the fuk wits and the single guys are the real deal? Have you got any evidence to back up this rather generalising and more than a little offensive statement? I've always said no to married men, and have not had one rude response from any of them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's hard enough for some people to read profiles- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I send a rude or the stupid ' I've gotta big dick ' message. I would expect to get no reply. But if I send a message in response to something I read in a forum. I think it only polite to return the compliment. I reply to every message I receive unless I'm being stalked.. That's happened a few times.. Most members do the right thing, but some are just out and out up themselves...
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him_and_me
12 years ago
If you get no reply, how long do you wait until you're sure you won't get a reply? I would absolutely prefer to be told (kindly) that someone I had messaged was not interested than being left hanging. 'Cause that just sucks. Granted we don't get 100s of messages but I make a point of replying to everyone, even if it takes a few days. And I agree that a simple "thanks" flirt would be useful.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I ve only been on here a few days (if that) & genuinely am attempting to respond to all messages. But I actually want to meet people, not spend my whole day on my phone, messaging guys who are outside what I'm looking for (and expressed in my profile). Why should a woman have to reply to someone that hasn't even acknowledged her guidelines, obviously going to be a waste of time (& money!) ...- Posted from rhpmobile
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