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Is it so absurd for the female of the couple to ask for a male face pic?
March 09 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
Yep... You make your own rules. No face pic, do not pass go, do not collect $200. Really, a face pic is a pretty simple request. No need for frustration....just say next. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
yes face pic means a lot to me. yes yes.
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erotictouch4u
14 years ago
1. Paper Bag 2. Don't look at the mantle piece when stoking the fire They think that because they have a hot bod then that is all that matters ? Tell them they're dreaming ET xox
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RHP User
14 years ago
no...face pics are a must, theres no point going to the drama of arranging a meet somewhere, only to find he's got a face like a smashed crab, is there?
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RHP User
14 years ago
My number one rule, if I don't see a face pic, it's never going to happen. As Stalky said, you play by your own rules and if they don't like...next!
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RHP User
14 years ago
If that face you request is the type of face you envisage down between your legs pleasing you... . Insist on the face pic, or it's likely you'll be just having a drink and departing awkardly coz it was not the type of face mentioned above.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Some are complete novels!
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RHP User
14 years ago
not absurd completely reasonablei for one recieve many flirts or date requests from faceless profilesIts amazing how many "non responses" i recieve from a request for pics.
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RHP User
14 years ago
While a photo cannot capture personality or a twinkle in the eye, it's certainly a great indication of base attraction. Asking for a face pic is completely reasonable and if they're resistant or unwilling, oh well, plenty more cherries in the (red hot) pie!
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RHP User
14 years ago
They're probably average looking or cheating. That's the assumption I make anyway.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I have no idea why, do people really expect you to meet up or continue to waste your time writing when you don't know if you're attracted to them?? Many times we have talked to couples to finally see pictures of them and been horribly disappointed. So now we figure if you won't show us pics straight away we assume we won't be attracted.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Your rules and procedure are the same as ours....
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RHP User
14 years ago
NO PIC NO MEET. As i see it if hey dont want to send a face pic wtf are they hiding behind then.........
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mensbits
14 years ago
Surely that is fundamental? :-) specially if you like to kiss?Yep a face pic goes a long way during the process I agree with you Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
I always insist on a clear recent face pic upfront. Saves time and embarrassment and even though rejection is never nice I would rather someone say "not interested" online than face to face ... but I also don't take it too personally on sites like this.
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RHP User
14 years ago
maybe their just '2 faced 'and not sure which one to send?! ..... they will have to 'face' the music one day..... haha, sorry
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm getting sick of you beating me to it, mate. Do you live on here or what? We all set our own standards and requirements. If the other person desn't feel like meeting them, move on to someone who does.
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RHP User
14 years ago
This site must be unique, never has there been a collection of VIP's, Community Leaders, Company Managers and 'IMPORTANT PEOPLE' who must, under all circumstances, hide their identity here. Seriously, how do they manage to meet anyone yet still remain their anonymity. Do they use a MIB mind wiping device after a meet so there can be no recollection, do they move locations so they can continue their exalted career!For me, if someone says they can't provide a photo it is a sure indication they are hiding something, normally the fact that they lied like a politician in their profile! What is worse of course are those that insist on a photo yet will not provide one of themselves as they fall into one of the above categories .......
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RHP User
14 years ago
I've got to see a face shot first too, it's not much to ask at all. I've even had guys tell me after I've said no thanks, "it's a bad face shot, I don't look anything like that in real life" That just confirms the NO THANKS for me.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'll side with you.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I get what you mean. I am sure you have noticed........ Most of the guys here are married, or attached. They are on the sly & trying to get something extra. Sending a clear face pic scares them as they might get found out. Also, Sometimes you send a face pic & never hear from the woman, or couple again. It would be nice & polite to hear back either way - wether yay, or nay.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Absolutely agree. Our time is precious, so why waste it on faceless profiles. We're not just interested in dicks and tits. Face pics save time and sort out the timewasters on here too. Yes splashmat we agree with you. Its always nice to reply. We do. We're all grownups and can take rejection- just be nice about it :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Essential. Its so important to like what you will see.
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RHP User
14 years ago
i find it amazing.that most the people who answering this forum and saying face picture a dont dont actually have one of them selfs
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RHP User
14 years ago
sorry about the wrong wording.should say ...a face picture a must.. guess i got side tracked looking at all the tits and arse
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RHP User
14 years ago
To be honest if people actually say this is a sex site how many of you have gone out and not looked at the face of the person your trying to pick up? So how is here different?stopped and checked out the person sitting at the table next to you but didnt notice if they had an attractive face?I mean a nice body of your choice and a dick to your liking tits to your size are all great but i dont know many people who sleep toe to head and wake up thinking god those are beautiful feet Im sure some do but really get the judging over and done with!I hate having a great chat with someone meeting them and thinking OMG hell NO no way nah uh, call me shallow, i call it honest.
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totallygenuine
14 years ago
Hey guys, as of late i've been getting alot of msg's from couples looking for an extra male to spice things up. If im interested in a profile access is always given from my end 1st. Who do you think should give access 1st? Couples or single males? Your thoughts. TG.
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RHP User
14 years ago
After all...you can't force attraction - and looks (for me) is the very first step. Without a face pic, there is no way I would even consider taking things any further.Perhaps some resistant people are average looking...but that's not going to change - no matter whether it's in a pic or face to face. If they're not attractive to me, they're simply not attractive to me.
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RHP User
14 years ago
See left. Quoting 'PleasureKraft' They're probably average looking or cheating. That's the assumption I make anyway. Sometimes they might just be avoiding being discovered socially or professionally. But you could definitely say that if someone has their face as their profile pic they are not cheating or unattractive- but really they are going to have to show it at some point so why waste time???And what's with sending a message of interest with no profile pic and not giving the access to their pg......just so I have to send an automatic response requesting access = waste of time. Ours is streamlined and straight up.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Hang on they might be still unattractive with a face on profile pic lol haha just not hiding anything :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
They're probably so boring they don't need an MIB gizmo to be forgotten.
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RHP User
14 years ago
The point is, while our faces aren't on public display, they are on our pg's or, I guess, at least available to be emailed on request.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'dumbfounded' i find it amazing.that most the people who answering this forum and saying face picture a dont dont actually have one of them selfs Are they saying they need it to be in the public galleries? No.
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amore4ever
14 years ago
I was starting to think we were the odd ones out... And oh yes, face pics in Private Galleries of course, no one expects them to be public I don't think...Cheers,E&D
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RHP User
14 years ago
guys who dont have them...ofetn use the excuse 'i use an i-phone and it wont let me' or 'i'm not very techno savvy'.....yet they have 7 cock shots to share, and a pic of their vc valiant, or postie bike..... wtf? take a pic, post it, or forget it....and while you are there.....fix the 'ask me' bits of your profile...we wont ask, and will only ever assume the answer is not what we want, so will give you the flick accordingly..........(we have face pis...and much more, and share them if we feel its appropriate)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I don't have time to waste so it is a must to have a few current face pictures as it speeds the process up for the play meet.
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Mr_MrsJones
14 years ago
Quoting 'splashmat' I get what you mean. I am sure you have noticed........ Most of the guys here are married, or attached. They are on the sly & trying to get something extra. Sending a clear face pic scares them as they might get found out. Also, Sometimes you send a face pic & never hear from the woman, or couple again. It would be nice & polite to hear back either way - wether yay, or nay. I just had a mental picture of two people saying, I'll show you mine if you show me yours. They go for the big reveal and voila!! They are already married!!! It was funny in my mind anyway.
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Mr_MrsJones
14 years ago
For us. If there isn't a clear pic of everyone in the profile presented at some time early in proceedings then there is no more proceedings. PS I know this isn't the topic but WTF with couple profiles with no pic of him AT ALL in the public gallery? Seriously don't waste my time asking me to meet up with someone I have never even SEEN. Mrs Jones.
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RHP User
14 years ago
There are reasons I opt not to put my face on my profile...and it has nothing to do with looks (one way or the other). I am happy to show a face pic of me if requested.....I simply expect the same in return as a courtesy.....no pic....no way......
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RHP User
14 years ago
Are you guys for real?? Of course it's reasonable to ask for a face pic. What disturbs me is that it's not a two way street. Go into a shop and ask them if it's ok to try out a saucepan for 3 days before you give them the money, I'd be interested to know how many disconcerting responses you get. The way I see it, I have a face pic available in my public gallery so that people what sort of ugly men are out there, but I thinks it's bullshit when you see profiles asking you to trust how attractive they are without also being as forthcoming. Are you embarrassed by your head or something???
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RHP User
14 years ago
Its not a blind-date, and its too hard to find people in a coffee shop or pubbased on genital pics. Yelling "show us your genitals" is likely to end badlyand ruin our night. Also if we take the risk with face pics, so can others
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RHP User
14 years ago
asking for a face pic after initial contact is a must.anyone who will not allow a face pic is either too damn ugly or attached and are scared of getting caught.we would not consider meeting someone without first seeing a face pic
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norti4u
14 years ago
we are the same, no faces no meet too EASY!
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RHP User
14 years ago
i actually prefer to chat on cam.....and i dont mean cybersex or cam sex.... i dont like to send face pics but i will readily say "lets turn on our cams" but when i do everyone runs a mile?????? classic excuse is ...oh we dont have one....i mean seriously....who doesnt have a webcam theses days?? am i being uncool suggesting to chat on cam instaed of swapping face pics??
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redhotozz
14 years ago
We agree with the face pic first idea, thats how we roll...but we have also met couples who said no to us on the basis of pics, only to hook up at parties without knowing who we were and say we're great fun, and then be stunned when they find out who we were...true story. We just laugh and say, yes, we need a better photographer.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just from the other side of the fence would it not be fair to send Your face pics to the other party when requesting There Face pics? Not all of You People wanting Face pics have Face pics that are available for others to look at either!Not looking for a Fight........... it's just an observation!Sure it's your Party your Rules, but aren't we all here looking for the same thing, a bit of Harmless Fun? One more point I would like to make is that just cause a couple look like "Barbie and Ken" don't mean they are going to be awesome in the shagging dept.... Beauty does not always provide that "Spark" between parties! Which, is way more important than looks as far as we're concerned! Cockmunchers
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RHP User
14 years ago
Several correspondents on this thread should practice what they preach and put up face pics and that goes for stalky too !!
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RHP User
14 years ago
For what it's worth, my hubby has always put his face shot in the public gallery as he has nothing to hide. Fat lot of good it has done him though, most single women on here are only really interested in other women or what the woman in a couple looks like.
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RHP User
14 years ago
There are some good reasons for not having face pics on public view but if people want one as part of their own 'vetting process' you have a choice, send one or say goodby. I'd say it's a very reasonable request, if you have too much to lose by being identified perhaps this is not the place to be. We don't post our faces on here but do expect to be asked for them, that's what mms is for isn't it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Everyone almost universally agrees that a face pic should be made available before a meet is arranged but most feel, myself included, that a face pic on the public gallery robs us of our privacy. Most of us have face pics on our private gallery to make available to anyone we feel comfortable with. Hardtruckin2011, yes, we are for real. Yes, it is a two way street. No, we are not embarrassed by our heads but I think that, the occasional few, of those who have their head on public display should be embarrassed.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Asking for a face shot just cause you can without sharing is about as nice as posting a picture of yourself that is 10years old and 20kgs lighter..... Either reciprocate or stop being rude lassies when someone says no...
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have one profile photos that was shared to us and there was a face pic of him in the profile, but none of her just body shots. Something else we have seen is that there is a face pic of the people on the site, but no photos from the neck down which is another thing that frustrates us. You might as well not have a face pic at all up on the site.What do you think?
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RHP User
14 years ago
RECENT face pics and body shots are a must... otherwise theya rnt very serious we figure... and move to next hot profile :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
soo......if we ask a guy for a face pic...and dont like what we see...what would be the point of then sharing ours? especially if we felt it was not going to progress any further? there would be no point, it would serve no purpose. how can this be any different for a single woman?
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RHP User
14 years ago
"We would also like to see a face pic or two as our jobs mean we need to be careful before meeting anyone." This was part of a message I received, they would not show me their face pic's before they seen mine. Do these people honestly believe they have more important job's than anyone else in a small community?When questioned, I was told that she works in a high profile important job, what and I don't have board room meeting which would be of a higher profile as we are often referred to in the news!!!Some people need to get over themselves!
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amore4ever
14 years ago
The other day I said to a bloke he wasn't my cup of tea (wife speaking), so he answered that my hubby has a small penis... I don't think so...
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'cicciaekot'The other day I said to a bloke he wasn't my cup of tea (wife speaking), so he answered that my hubby has a small penis... I don't think so... It's a good thing too. His own big penis is probably all the company a wanker like that would have.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Definitely uncool, and I don't have a cam!! ... simple pic ... too easy! Quoting 'johnc82' i actually prefer to chat on cam.....and i dont mean cybersex or cam sex.... i dont like to send face pics but i will readily say "lets turn on our cams" but when i do everyone runs a mile?????? classic excuse is ...oh we dont have one....i mean seriously....who doesnt have a webcam theses days?? am i being uncool suggesting to chat on cam instaed of swapping face pics??
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'katlou'Definitely uncool, and I don't have a cam!! ... simple pic ... too easy!
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RHP User
14 years ago
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RHP User
14 years ago
No picture = no further! We agree with the general consencus of all above. We have, on a particularly "in need of it now" night, let something happen with a no-pic person..... NEVER again!
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