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Is it really that hard to be nice?

March 10 2010

Mind you I do find it hard to hold my tongue when responding to some of the UGLY posts on here. Sure it's really interesting to hear different views about things but FFS do people have to be so damn obnoxious?Some have mentioned the greatness of free speech, OK so lets embrace all the racist, sexist, homophobic, ageist, ist, ist fooking ist people out there!Some say they are intelligent but can only heap crap on everyone but themselves, some are so beautiful on the outside that they can't see the ugliness on the inside and heaven help them if they are ever involved in an accident or medical crisis that makes them less than perfect to look at.We all have our preferences, there are people I am attracted to and some I am not but I try not to berate them because they don't fit into my ideals.A general "Grow up and grow a brain" to all those who deserve it.Also a "thankyou" to the rare glimpse of true beauty that some offer from time to time.Love a good rant!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Its one of the many crap sides of human nature; Some people aren't able to express their opinion saying how "wrong" another persons opinion is. Some people can't accept that people are different and think different ways. its the way of the world, crap as it is... BUT!!! we can chose who we listen to and we can ignore posts that we know come from the obnoxious ones. Can't we all just get along? :) Entertaining though........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It's like you read my mind. I mean, not that you'd know this about me ... it's my dirty lil secret really ... but I LOVE to have a good rant!Oh the relief now that's out of the bag :P< tongue planted firmly in cheek lilmiss x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    See pups. That humanist perspective of yours 's why its difficult not to like you.... and that beautiful arse avatar purched up there all purky and ready to pop... well.. that's just the cherry on top waiting for some whipped cream! hehe. What kind of cream.. whipped baby .. whipped! Lots of hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I think it's fantastic, that we can share our views and experiences.other like minded people.I've experience life from an early age and out of home at the age of 16..so i've been there done that heaps of times so to speak.where many are only just starting out on their sexual adventures or wanting to try out their sexual fantasies.So i tend to see a situation from all sides..with out passing judgment, as i see it who am i judge.with what i've been through.Sure peoples views/opinions are going to differ, due to each ones experiences and other factors,but then again ifall can get a greater understanding of people.I see it as a good thing.xoxoxheymumma

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm with you Mumma...nothing like a passionate rant to clear the sinuses! Conversely..nothing worse than a sterile politically correct 'deep as a puddle', ego stroking blurb. Theres a place for everything and everything in its place ergo RHP's culture is aimed at adults...if you wanna be all peace, love and shimmer, socialize in appropriately themed sites. However, I do agree that there are far more productive ways in which to make ones point rather than applying the base mentality approach.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It's nice to be impotant but its important to be nice !! I get pees me off when people as k for advice or imput on something , you give your opinion then they slag you off !! What the fuck is that ?? There are no wrong or rights here just opinion !! And stalky's view which generally makes me laugh.. I would like to see a" Stalky in the city" , column..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Every single person on Earth is broken somehow. Its how we each deal with it that matters most. Random

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    No it aint peopleS, it's acually really easy even without trying. However you will get sour pusses out there who are only happy making you miserable (you know like your x usually does LOL) Stalky, Taipan, Random you guys ROCK oh and u2 Earl. Mynameonyourlips, Miss Saturn, heymamma you gals rock too way cool ladies way cool.

  • Wild_Pagan_Love

    Wild_Pagan_Love

    16 years ago

    Attractive people with sour attitudes are such a bore (and a nauseating cliche).Wanna stand out a little? – try putting out a bit of positive energy (or at least a smile is a good start).

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    commenting in the same post ... nice :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    not hard too be nice at all, yet some people no matter how nice or polite you are, for some reason only they will know take any opportunity too be rude. i had the misfortune recently, after many, many times telling someone i just wasnt interested, have him fire back at me: its kool, i dont really like fat, ugly old women, but i thought u may appreciatte a good fuck. while i am no oil painting, i do have a great personality, get long with most people, and am quite happy too say have no trouble attracting playfriends. i may not be everyones cup of tea, but there's no need too be a prick. i have been lucky, i have made some good, genuine friends on here.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Quoting 'Taipan12' It's nice to be impotant but its important to be nice !! That would have to be the funniest Typo this year.Sorry mate, just couldn't resistNow whats all this about being nice crap???? Jokes Joyce!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ..and even though you're a little rough around the edges roughfukr, we all know there's a big sweetie in there somewhere ;)Hmm I've got the cream, now who was it that owns a whip?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Enviable statement. Wish I'd thought like that!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Puppy, i read your post and agree wholeheartedly...but your reference to ugly posts made me feel guilty for having made UGLY posts before - i keep trying but no matter what i do i my mac wont format my posts properly. So sorry for the ugly posts if they were mine lol...2b :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    you got it buddy.Earl, the quiet one

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I personally think its pathetic how some people act on this site like they're all high and mighty cause they get a bit of attention. They have the nerve to call themselves the "nice ones" on here but will ignore you first chance they get

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Yes pop, pop balloons away, I too can blame the Mac for unformatting my rants into sad, ugly posts too. I'm far from perfect, you're probably some way off as are most others. It's the TRYING to be beautiful that keeps us on the road to happiness isn't it?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Puppy, It is easier for someone to post a caustic retort than a polite one. For some, it gives them a feeling of power and superiority, for others they enjoy the contfrontationalism (yeah I knw I probably spelt that wrong) that the anominity of a forum can give. Lets face it, a nice helpful post will be read and ignored by the majority, whereas a biting, abusive srpay will generate attention - and we all know how much some here enjoy being the centre of attention. Anyway, we all know that any form of 'nice'here is looked down upon, we all have to have the alpha personality to score lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    how am i doing mooka..???nah...be yaself mate...be someone else...phhhhhhttttttttttttttttttt....just be yaself...we all luv's ya...cheersjose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Hello puppy!!!! Yes dear it is hard for some people to just be nice on this sight....... We were suppose to catch up with this couple on this site but we couldn't hubby's Auntie died... And of course we didn't meet,now everytime we reply to any forum on this site they have their 10% to add. No doudt they will reply and say something again i wish they would just fucking grow up already get over it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Kittycat49

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I'm with ya Random! Every human is broken in some way.... It's just that some out there can't see/admit it! A smile costs nothing and uses less energy than a frown. WE should all listen to the words of John Lennon.... we are all one big family in some way... Be nice to one another folks!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ..customer....I don't think it's male PMT, we can just be plain cranky sometimes!Kitty, sorry to hear about the auntie. If we're ever up your way we'll come sailing with you and we can send a couple of action shots to your friends ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Puppy Yes that would be awesome!!!! More than welcome anytime......... Kittycat49 xxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    Will you spank me puppy if im naughty

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    My beef is people who respond to idiots and rude people and give them credibility.Ignore them and they will go away if they can't get a response.End of rantRegardsMr. SR

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    It is the trying that makes for the happiness ...i would add that the moments of witnessing beauty add to the happiness also. :) Mooka .... I agree....especially liked your last paragraph...cheers . 2B :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    ...we will lavish you with kisses all over your gorgeous bod but if you're a naughty girl with a mischievous grin we certainly will enjoy spanking your cute little butt.xxx