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Is it really so hard to find a third?

December 22 2023

New couple ready to explore the more crazy side of our sex life but as a couple with a young family it seems to make it very hard. If it's not there and now it seems that any plans we make end up falling through. Any tips to help some newbies out?

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teamaj2
4 months ago
New couple , it’s an exciting time for you both . My advice is attend an event at a venue that is having a newbie night . You are then guaranteed of lots of people in the same situation as yourselves. You may not play that evening but then again you might . You can make connections to meet up at a later time . At least you will know if you are all attracted and on the same page . There is never any pressure at an event to proceed . It’s a great learning curve .
We found attending events taught us a lot about this lifestyle . Talking to like minded people was enlightening.

Good luck . Ax
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MsSuperFoxy
4 months ago
IMO: Being a guest doesn't help your chances much.
Theres many posts in the forums on this exactly Topic. The most reply is: Those seeking a couple/s for an extra will find you, as they know exactly what they want and desire. They choose you. You don't choose them.
Add more into your Bio about Mrs and Mr, without coming across as smug.
Also Check out the events Tab and attend social gatherings and the Chat rooms on here. Guaranteed you'll find connections
All the best

Ms Foxy
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fun2behere
4 months ago
Hi as a guest and not verified a lot will simply pass you by. You need to pay to initiate chats with potential matches. A bit of red flag is saying you play together … but this may change. Having been on here with a couples profile you should know there are many men who pretend to be a couple. As a couple we met one woman who said we were the first real couple she met after 4 years ! Always the guy turning up. So be aware that women are cautious and often cynical. As others have said get to events or clubs. Even just to experience the social interaction.
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newcouple4u
4 months ago
Hi guys pm me I’d love to join you
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Margo_Lover
4 months ago
It's exceedingly easy to find a male third, but not easy to find a good one.

It's extremely difficult to find a female third.

- Alex
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NeoAndTrin
4 months ago
Another slightly less conventional option is if you are truly time poor then is hiring an escort an option if you are simply wanting to try the experience of having a third?

There's no having to sift through fakes and timewasters. Only real downside is having to pay.

We've had this suggested to us before... and for us it boiled down to the fact that it wasn't truly an organic experience for us - thrill of the chase, etc.
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Pleasureseeker1
4 months ago
If you join a couple first it may lead to future solo play if the chemistry is right
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newcouple4u
4 months ago
I’d love to help out pm me male here
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hornycouple010
3 months ago
We are a couple intetested
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RHP User
3 months ago
Depends on what your third is. If you're looking for single blokes, it won't really be an issue. Single women, on the other hand....
There's a reason they're called unicorns.
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