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Is it ok to WHILE ..........

November 07 2011

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SO in my ongoing mission to learn all the p's and q's of swinging etiquette I have another question for the good people of RHP. . Now on the same evening as before , just to recap ..... at a swingers club , Sarah, a friend and I , now this time the event involves ourselves and our friend. We were all having a jolly good time. Sarah our friend and myself were wandering about voyuering at the attractive people at the club, of course we were admiring thier style, critiqueing the good swinging folks style! When I happened across an attractive yet happless young lass who appeared a little lost. I struck up a conversation with the happless lass and asked 1. Why was she fully dressed ? And 2. could I help her with her problem ? As it turned out I could !! So we all slowly undressed and made our way remarkably orderly to an area to remove more clothes and ensure this poor young lass had a chance to enjoy herself! . Now our friend is just that a friend. She is not a play friend. So while she came a long she did not become involved. So as Sarah and I where doing our thing our friend was in close proximity watching on. Sarah and I and the happless had an awesome time and finished up by having a shower together. . I spoke to our friend a few days later and she said to me that she was going to play with herself ...... as she was really enjoying what she was watching ....but didnt want to as she wasnt sure of the protocal !!! . Well hells bells is the a protocol in playing with yourself at a swing club? Is there a defined wrong and right ? Should you be able to get busy with your junk no matter where in a swing club ? . Should you keep your hands to yourself ....ok maybe not even to yourself !!!!! . Lets get you hands out and tell me what are the rules here ? Surely its all hands on deck ? . Brae ..................... learning about politics at hand!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well Brae, I have been at a club when men stand around and have a wank while they watch. And that can be a little disconcerting. Admittedly they do politely ask if it is okay if they come on you. FFS - NO!! I was also at a private private party once, actually my first private party, a naughty friend took me along. So my friend & I go upstairs for a little play as he knows I am a shy & that I have never done anything like that before . We are on the lounge and I am straddling him.... well you get the idea. And this dude sits down right beside us, and I mean right beside us and pulls out his wanger and starts wanking. What the fuck? Is that cool??? I suppose the wanking is okay but surely there is a 3 foot distance rule or something??Maybe your friend is still a bit shy in such large groups of people Brae. I know I would be. xxMeeka

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Ok I understand part of this it like live porn. As a voyuer myself I have been well known for a little look and see. Its all seems fine by me. I have a thing about people touching without asking but surely your ok to grab your JUNK when ever you feel like it ???.As for not allowing people to cum on you, well I think you maybe getting a bit soft in your old age Meeks ..... ;-) .You seem to personalising this a bit as well don't you think .........Brae ...........

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    In a sex club, you know.... sometimes you are just trying to catch your breath... so you find yourself a comfy spot... put your towel down there.... re-play the evenings events so far... maybe watch a little bit of sommat going on around you..... inevitably I end up with my hand on it.... and well... everywhere... wreathing and wriggling... lost in my own little private world of pleasure... oblivious to the goings on .... THIS is a point in time when one is MOST vulnerable... when you aren't as alert as you should be... and inconsiderate people just take it upon themselves to have their way with you in any way that they choose.... IT"S POSITIVELY DANGEROUS.... and mind numbing being encapsulated in sexual stimulating contact. HugsStalky

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well Brae, you asked a question and I answered it with my personal experiences. Or didn't I answer the question?? Probably not ;-) Yes, I think there is no problem with playing with your junk. To be honest I love watching some men play with themselves it can be very hot! I suppose my comments were based on certain experiences where the boys sometimes get carried away and get too close. But that is whole other topic I suppose. A RUB A DAY KEEPS THE DOCTOR AWAY ! Hehe Xx Meeks

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Stalkers ..... I got nothing to say but YUM!!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I knew there was a reason I am so healthy !!!!. So if a rub a day keeps the doctor away does it also clear a dirty mind ??.Hmmmmmmmm.Now as for boys getting too close - surely there are rules there that stop young men from having thier hands violently smacked away??? .Brae .....Stalk I hear you who wants to be taken advantage of in those senarios ....... mmmmmmmm

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    No I am afraid Brae that once you have a dirty mind you always have a dirty mind. There is no cure. What are people's thoughts on girls playing with themselves then ???

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'looking2try3' Now as for boys getting too close - surely there are rules there that stop young men from having thier hands violently smacked away??? That's why it pays to have a friendly minder nearby. Someone to look after your interests while you're melting away into a sexually induced cum coma from all the stimulation. Sluts look out for sluts. :pHUgsStalky

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'looking2try3' Now as for boys getting too close - surely there are rules there that stop young men from having thier hands violently smacked away??? That's why it pays to have a friendly minder nearby. Someone to look after your interests while you're melting away into a sexually induced cum coma from all the stimulation. Sluts look out for sluts. :pHUgsStalky PMSL

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    who is the slut in this conversation? Can't be me I am almost a virgin! xxMeeks

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    which were fuckky buddy, sex toy, semen, cougar bait & cum

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Women comen and only leave wet spots or puddles, now men ejectulate. (surprise). Is it fair for a women to sit beside and come, but a man to do the same is out ? Women get excited as do men, what is fair as far as letting out your excitment goes. Manporsche

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    For a women to play and enjoy her self is arousing, I am male. But for a man to play with himself is boardering insult intrusion. To me both should be allowed to play as long as no unwanted contact is made. Definately ejectulating on a person without ok is definately out. But if this excites you meeks I am happy for you to watch me. manporsche

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