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Is it just us???
November 21 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well done Mrs G !....and if his tardiness and lack of respect wasnt enough of a reason...the fact that he got angry about you cancelling him would have been a definite block and ignore and go away for me !! Keep up the good work and standards...........................um......just a littkle question ......your not really only 4 years old are you ?????? lol..... check your profile ages xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nope it's not you - happens all the time. And good for you for standing up to him! Good luck next time. Pusscat xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nope....it has happened to us quite a number of times and usually it's the "single married" guys who are prone to this behaviour. We had had enough and actually put a ban on married guys contacting us. We only give them one chance ..... if they fail to keep an appointment - they're outta here. The Muffs
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'missbowpeek' just a littkle question ......your not really only 4 years old are you ?????? lol..... check your profile ages xx haha, that was the first thing I noticed too - I would've thought the age checker would fire errors at you for anything under 18, lol, what does the P in RHP stand for again? :p
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RHP User
15 years ago
The same thing happened to us - by two different guys. Have blocked both of them. I totally support what she has done.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Any person that is selfish outside of play time, is going to be potentially even more selfish during. I think you made the right choice in saying no. He didn't give you any respect, so why should he expect any back. I would have been unhappy too Mrs GunnaBHot. Good on you for putting him in his place !.
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RHP User
15 years ago
well i remember my first meeting with a couple...i was very nervous and second guessing if i could go through with it etc....i cancelled a number of times before meeting a couple and when i finally did, in the anticipation I was knocking on the wrong house door so i was a little late, bit of a mess really....granted this was a couple of years ago now and a lot has changed but i suppose you could give him the benefit of the doubt and put it down to nerves? depends how old he is as to if it is acceptable. On the flipside not even leaving the house and leaving you waiting for such a long time without any contact is not really acceptable behaviour and it is rude. So i would say your reaction was justified..i suppose the thing is to remember is a lot of people on these sites are a waste of time, just have to take the good with the bad i suppose...best of luck in the future though :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I agree with the others, good call!Things do crop up at the last minute and we have all experienced the frustration of unannounced visitors or last minute issues but there is a point where it is just plain rudeness that gets in the way, sounds like he was giving you the runaround and really how long did he expect you to wait around?? Plenty of fish in the sea as they say so don't lower your standards or expectations, respect is a two way street and from my experience there are plenty of single guys on here who are respectful and will show up on time and dressed to impress so hang in there and better luck next time,Mrs GC
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RHP User
15 years ago
It has happened to us a few times they think they can get away with it,people just dont know what effort we go to for a meet especially us woman and you know what they will still try again and again.If you dont have the balls for a meet just say so or you shouldn't be on this site,get yourself a magazine LOL.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You'd think he would be decent enough to bring his girlfriend wouldn't you? Oh wait. No. Clearly he doesn't want her to know he was heading over to Dawes Point for a threesome. You get that sometimes.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
To me, being on time is being considerate and respectful. His loss.
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RHP User
15 years ago
In these days of instant communication it doesn't take much to get in contact. If he cannot see why you were justifiably angry then he is not worth playing with. Couples willing to play with single guys seem to be in a minority so don't put up with that kind of behaviour. If they are serious they will be courteous and on time. Plenty of others willing and able. Shout NEXT PLEASE! and move on.
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RHP User
15 years ago
you go girl...good for you dont take shit from him and as has been said..."NEXT" roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well it's definitely not you If you make a time and place all parties should be on time Only common courtesy to be on time I've never been late for a meeting I'd rather be early then late No one likes to be let hanging Already ready to meet!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
.....Not the right thing to do......Geez you guys go to a lot of trouble and he does not respect what goes into these meetings. Lots of 'sounding out' mutual respect and trust. His loss - I am sure you guys will get your man sooner or later. CheersSir-Cum
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi all, sick of time wasters ? Pls view my profile, I DO meet, value my time (and yours) far too much to simy waste it. If that isn't enough, it's just a case of manners. Adam x
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RHP User
15 years ago
You probabably would have just had to give Mr Reliability a "super early mark" without ever getting to "hear the bell ring". You're lucky he didn't actually turn up!
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RHP User
15 years ago
We agree 100% there is NO excuse for this behaviour at all, late because of traffic then hasnt left the house pffft. We organise parties and they are by invite only,no-one can just turn up on the doorstop,and we get no-shows all the time and we cant understand why it is so difficult to call,txt or email saying you are not coming when you can do the same thing to get an invite to start with. So now we have a policy of 2 no-shows and your out,cancellations of course are different.
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x2ForU
15 years ago
time waster... so many on this site... why are they here?? i really dont know and cant explain... i love couples...most have been genuine and turn up when they say they will!!! shelly x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Gees there are some loonies here. We have fortunately only experiences a couple of the no-showers but it is really frustrating on her. The ladies generally go to a lot of effort and to be treated with that level of casualness really shows they have no idea. Had one couple recently, she was dolled up extremely nicely and he was in trackies with sandals. Go figure.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We'd like to thank everyone for their support - we're feeling abit better about the whole thing now - move on and yes, scream "NEXT!!!!!!!!"
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm still keen on mrsgunna! ;) I know how to keep a play date aswell lol :P
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RHP User
15 years ago
good on you mrs g we had the same happen payed for a room with the works 3hours later they say sorry took longer at the pub than we thought and they got the same answer if you make plans keep them if something comes up ring and not 5mins before you are sposed to be there just hope that you end up having a good nite barry and leah
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RHP User
15 years ago
This has happened to me - made me drive to a suburb then call. \and you guessed it no answer - so i waited and hour and nothing then left. they callled me on the phone when i was almost home - saying they decided to go out for a drink did i want to re schedule - ummm no .... anyway agree will all that been said i you say you will meet - be there, i always am (with bells on lol)
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think there are alot of people out there that are just losers and dont have any respect to do the right thing. We have had a similar situation with a girl who flirted and flirted with us and made out that she wanted to be with us, getting us all turned on only to be left feeling stupid. I hope that we can meet and have some fun, I definately wont leave you waiting Mrs G. xox
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RHP User
15 years ago
R.E.S.P.E.C.T.......hate people that arent punctual
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RHP User
15 years ago
Doesn't it!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks Chocolate1968 we know majority aren't losers but it knocks the self esteem?? Your pics Chocolate are awesome.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I remember being 10 minutes late once nd felt bad about it... being on time is good manners, period. There is no excuse in these days of instant communication.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'GunnaBHot' ... but it knocks the self esteem?? | I hate to admit this what with being male myself...but have you ever wondered why some men refuse to read the instructions that come with something they get, like when you go to Bunnings? Sometimes that can be a real problem...like when the little child who should be bouncing into your room at 4:00 a.m. on Christmas morning screaming "Yippee" just wanders in with a dejected little look on a sad face and asks you "Why did Santa put both wheels on the back of my new bicycle"? Some men are dumb...others are just stupid. | I think that may be the case here...he just made up his own instructions and got it all wrong. "Arrive late and come early...or not at all". I could make Dawes in 2 hours travel time and think I would take the time to read the instructions...and leave 3 hours early just to make sure. | Now as for your self esteem...you have got to be kidding, right? If that is your butt in that picture, award yourself 10/10 esteem points and send me an invitation. I might just be smart enough to arrive early... | ...come late and not forget a bottle of vintage scotch.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think he just bailed when it came to the crunch alot of guys get a thrill out of planning an the idea of it all but don't have it in them to follow through either too hard or they are scared either way it's a sad scenario :) to think a young man would skip out an any opportunity like that is beyond me
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RHP User
15 years ago
Oh and I'm cut ;) text me I'll show you
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