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Is it all in the kiss?

May 07 2010

Now I'm a firm believer in kissing! I love it and damn good at it, when I was groing up I was a little skinny a bit awkward not bad looking but not the best either but I always had a girlfriend and had no problem getting them, my mate's always asked how I did it? and I would always tell them it's all in that kiss! if I could lock lips with a women then I could 98% of the time have them! so my question is- How important is a kiss...........and would you prefer someone that could kiss really well but not so good in the bedroom or the other way around? thankfully I grew out of my awkwardness and I filled out a bit, still a great kisser too! lol

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  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Alittlevil , i think you tell a persons sensuality with a kiss...How about when you kiss and your eyes meet at the same time very very hot..

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ah cher.......... anyway for me its in the kiss alittlevil. If they cant kiss then I am worried about their performance elsewhere. i have been known not to go any further with a person because I dont like the way they kiss. A kiss is very sensual and high on my list of musts.. kisses Focus

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    a kiss means everything...if you can connect with the kiss then to me you dont need anything else id take a great kiss over sex anytime...i met a guy on here who i could just kiss and kiss and nothing else...he was wonderful roxxy xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Dang....you're gooooogeous lilevil!!! Just thought I'd share that with you.... Kissing...depends on the kissee....nice teeth, lips and good oral hygiene...then thats a big YES from me too....yum yum!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Cher certainly believes it to be in his kiss. And who am I to disagree with Cher? She could vaporize me with her Undying Witch powers.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kissing is hard to change.... sexual techniques are easier. A GREAT kisser is essential for a relationship with me although unnecessary for a one-time encounter as long as he has other attributes. I love kissing for so long that my lips get swollen and I develop a "kissing rash".... always evidence of a great night. xxx Miss Saturn

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Thanks for that you're a sexy little thing yourself! wouldn't mind locking lips and other things with you sometime! x

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Yeah. I'm never completely revved up unless I'm kissing something. I think kissing also speaks of enthusiasm for your lover. It sends a very pleasant message without the need for words. Oscar Wilde quote of the day.... "Kissing is a means of getting two people so close together that they can't see anything wrong with each other." “When kisses you he isn't doing anything else. You're his whole universe..and the moment is eternal because he doesn't have any plans and isn't going anywhere. Just kissing you...it's overwhelming." Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Absolutely.....!!! Really if its not off to a good start there then its not going to hppen.... some times i see a guy when im out and just want to randomly go up and kiss him...nothing more... and i dont want him to say anything, just kiss me back, then ill walk away... kissing is hot... so if you see me out and we lock eyes (and you are a good kisser!!) feel free to come up n plant one on me...... now have to go track down mrC n his juicy lips....... msC.. big kiss to you..

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'alittlevil' Thanks for that you're a sexy little thing yourself! wouldn't mind locking lips and other things with you sometime! x I'm relocating to WA....taking up cougar'ing....REOWWW! ps: thanks lilevil...you just made my millennium xxxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Yes, in my experience, if the guy cant kiss...they cant do anything else. It is a real shame...but facts are facts. Im all for hot, sensual and passionate kisses.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kissing is so important. It is usually the first physical contact you make with someone. And I just love a nice gentle set of lips, a sly touch with a tongue, a gentle probe. There is something so sensual about it. A good kisser can make or break a date in my books. I'm with you Myname - nice teeth, soft lips and good hygiene. When I find a great kisser I could just kiss him for hours. How erotic it can be. Who turned the temperature up in here????S

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    The perfect way to get lost in someone! I have, once or twice, been so besotted with a guys kiss that I overlooked his poor bedroom performance. Love a man with a talented mouth!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    The first kiss...perhaps tentative, a gentle brushing of the lips to taste the passion inside the woman. The eyes meeting to ask and answer questions in deft silence...often more is said in the gentle touching of lips and in silence than all the words that may follow. | ...and the sensuality of seduction is a journey without end.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Ahh the kiss!! I remember my first ever tongue kiss....he was soooo handsome and I had such a crush on him!! He pulled me in close to him...he ran his fingers through my hair....and then cupped my face so soft...so tenderly...then I can feel our breath combine into one as he brought his lips closer to mine...our lips touched so softly and lightly...and then I felt his tongue in my mouth and his saliva over half my face and I swear he had a bucket full reserved in his mouth and transferred it to mine...I vomited for ages lmfao!!! Ewwwwwww "I will never kiss another boy again" I promised myself!! Turned me off for so so long haha. So yes the kiss is very important!! My ex was a bit of a wet kisser when we started going out and I was sick of "discreetly" wiping my mouth on his shirt, so told him and taught him how to kiss without having the need of a towel on standby!! OMG he learnt so fast and I just couldn't get enough of his hot lips on mine. When a man kisses me oh so right ... my "other" lips send a signal up to my brain that OHHH YES ITS ON!!! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I love kissing, always have. The perfect way to start, if its good, gets everything else going for me. Did anyone see the episode of Cougar town, where Jules uses an apple to teach her boyfriend how to kiss properly? C xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Ahh the kiss!! I remember my first ever tongue kiss....he was soooo handsome and I had such a crush on him!! He pulled me in close to him...he ran his fingers through my hair....and then cupped my face so soft...so tenderly...then I can feel our breath combine into one as he brought his lips closer to mine...our lips touched so softly and lightly...and then I felt his tongue in my mouth and his saliva over half my face and I swear he had a bucket full reserved in his mouth and transferred it to mine...I vomited for ages lmfao!!! Ewwwwwww "I will never kiss another boy again" I promised myself!! Turned me off for so so long haha. So yes the kiss is very important!! My ex was a bit of a wet kisser when we started going out and I was sick of "discreetly" wiping my mouth on his shirt, so told him and taught him how to kiss without having the need of a towel on standby!! OMG he learnt so fast and I just couldn't get enough of his hot lips on mine. When a man kisses me oh so right ... my "other" lips send a signal up to my brain that OHHH YES ITS ON!!! xFunlovingx and busting to know how exactly you taught him???lilmiss x

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I still remember that first kiss with MrP' Mmmmm... MrsP'

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    It was easy...I told him that he kissed me like a wet bucket...then I took control of his face and told him to open his mouth just as wide as I do mine and to gently play with my tongue. Took me a while to find the guts to do it and to tell him...but so so glad I did!! Now he can share those wonderful lips with someone new and she can thank me lol. xFunlovingx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Shycouple alluded to what I believe is an overlooked part of kissing/loving/mouthing etc. While exploring with a lover, kissing in all its forms, can take on a new and electric quality when used for other oral pleasures. The intimacy we feel in a kiss can be felt on other parts of the body. Trying not to just blurt it out here, but french kissing a woman's pussy is likely to cause a loss of control. Yum for everyone!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    It's good to see so many people enjoy kissing as much as I do! but how many people are confident enough in their skills to put it to the test...........? I'm in Melbourne for work at the moment and in just some office chit-chat wose offered a dare! Of course I took it!! I was to choose 10 woman from the local we go to every friday night after work, I had to go up to them and kiss them, dont say a word just kiss them and see how many numbers I could get........so I did, I choose the ladies and over the night made my move! I got slapped once (she was married! my bad) got 2 offer's to go home with them, 5 numbers and spent most of the night talking with the other 2. Not bad I thought but I wonder................... Look there is no way I can prove I did this so you'll just have to trust that I'm that upfront and just crazy enough to try this sort of thing!!!! give it a try see how you go!! Oh and my mates paid up to!!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    The look between each other, the anticipation as your lips get closer, soft, warm and sooo gentle as your first kiss... mmmmm. We still remember our first kisses... even if it was over 26 years ago... and then there was that first night, a hot summers night on the beach, just sitting, talking and wanting without actually doing.. the anticipation of it all... We can tell alot about someone from their kisses. (Mrs still loves Mrs kisses after all these years... still makes me melt...) And to all those wet sloppy kissers... Take Funlovings advise... learn how to not drown us... hehe.. and then you may just enjoy our lips even more.. xoxo... Mrs (& Mr) Av.

  • Letsgetcrazy09

    Letsgetcrazy09

    16 years ago

    Of course it is all in the kiss........didnt you listen to Cher......lol Cheers Lets

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I'm with the lovely woman who said my "other" lips send a signal up to my brain that OHHH YES ITS ON!!

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I've realised lately that the way I kiss can be my first defense. If I'm in a bad mood, or stressed, or tired or just mentally distracted I sometimes have trouble letting my lips and jaw be soft, and really receiving a kiss from my hunky man. He never says anything, which I've realised is interesting ... though he is endlessly patient with me ... but I've become aware that being able to notice this in myself, and soften and let go, can make or break a moment ... and the rest of the night ;)Interesting, complex creatures, aren't we?!lilmiss xxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    kissing is oh so important! Its the kissing that fuels the passion that can make the sex even more amazing! ive had soemone kiss me in a wierd way and just not been able to connect enought to want to take it further

  • Letsgetcrazy09

    Letsgetcrazy09

    16 years ago

    Mmmmmm that sexy sultry vixen of a woman Kate Ceberano........... Yes so the song is getting a bit old now and probably not to everyones liking and the actual song is not particularly a favourite of mine, but I do like it, it just continued on with the current theme of the the thread. Speaking of music and songs, it was only the other night I was listening to a woman singing which spontenously invoked images of passionately kissing two women, both from here. They were two different songs and some time apart on the CD I was listening to. This response must have come from some sub liminal thoughts. The thing about those reponses to the music is that both women I admire from different perspectives. The memory of the thoughts still sets off an electric response through my body. In fact a number of years ago I met someone and there was nothing more than kissing, but oh how electrifying that was too. We kissed for several hours and I still think about the electic pulses from that night. Am I any good at kissing.........don't know but I like it! Yes there is something in a kiss, well for me there is. At times I believe that really good wholesum passionate kissing is better than sex........or is that just going a little too far!!! Lets

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    the ART of kissing is so important to any sexual interaction.... if you can entice your partner with a sensual kiss then what can I say.... an awesome kisser can get me wet in seconds and can make a man go hard in seconds.... makes for a great lead up to some hot, wet, steamy action....

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    alittledevil you have it all dont you....awesome kisser...grown into your body.....can walk about to random women at bars and pash them.....wow.......is there anything you cant do??? Ok as far as kissing goes.....love it!.....But I can only pash people i am attracted too.......nothing better when you first hook up with someone and you pash for hours and grinding your clothed bodies together!!!......

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    my favourite position.......... the love of my life standing behind me, his muscular arm wrapped around my shoulders holding me firmly, his other hand caressing my body, his warm breath against my neck as he nuzzles my hair, his lips brushing the skin of my bare shoulder, tenderly softly slowly exploring their way to my neck, making my moan involuntarily and arch my neck toward him....the warmth of his lips, kissing the side of my neck gentle biting me. Slowly turning me toward him, kissing my face, my forehead as he gentle cups my face in his hands. Slowly seeking my lips, our eyes locked together, their blueness vivid. So gently touching our lips together, his fingertips softly tracing over my face sending erotic tingles through out me. His fingers wandering thru my hair as he pulls me firmly to him. The intensitiy increasing, the kiss becoming more urgent, passionate. Our tongues teasing. Drawing his bottom lip gentle and trapping it between my own lips, the passion and tenderness alternating. mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm yes stalky when he is kissing me he is nowhere else and has no other plans and we are each others universe all kissed up miss b

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kissing has to be the closest one can get to another. Its intense and intimate, if it dosen't feel good or right, then everything else won't work, at least for me it dosen't.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ...and your kiss! (Prince Rogers Nelson) AKA 'Modern day Mozart' and 'Symbol' and 'jimmy Hendrix - reincarnated' A Kiss lasting 10 seconds or longer is a prelude to some 'Bump & Grind' for sure.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Kiss. Ok so I have already said I love a good kkiss but until the other night Really wasnt sure how much it impacted on me. Met this love;y guy for the first time, chatting away, was thinking maybe yes, maybe no will need to spend a bit more time on this one til he asked me if he could kiss me (Yes ladies he asked first!) Ok why not? Definate YES!!!!!!!!! no maybes in my mind any more. Boy can he kiss. Ahh the memories of the fun... excuse me off to the cold shower Kissing up a storm Focus

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    kissing is what gets things happening if a person cant kiss i will teach them as i have been told i am a great kisser by several ladies

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Quoting 'melbournefella' alittledevil you have it all dont you....awesome kisser...grown into your body.....can walk about to random women at bars and pash them.....wow.......is there anything you cant do??? Standing straight would appear to be a problem... he's a little.... lobsided? As for kissing - I don't see how anyone can be arrogant enough to call themselves a good kisser.... it takes two people to kiss... it's a combined effort. If one isn't into it, or is shit at it, no matter how good you are or how long you've been pashing your arm for practice - it's still a dud kiss.

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    My mirror has an indentation with all the kissing practice I have been getting lately. My tongue is like a sanding disc in a metal workshop. Groovy baby. I have kissed girls so much I have made them bleed! Only takes about 12 seconds...Random

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    ....without kissing? forget good sex ! I feel kissing is the physical act that registers initial sensual attraction between 2 people, and the better the chemistry, the better the pash. I remember hooking up with a guy that didnt kiss....well that was definitely a one of, lol. ....to those guys that don't like to kiss , i suggest a blow up doll to fulfil your fantasies Lushxxx

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    my partner isn't that in to it and doesn't like the idea of me kissing the guys we play with either. So I am just enjoying what you are saying about kissing and agreeing 100%. Keep it up guys you are doing us all proud.zoecome

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    I think the way a person kisses tells you a lot about them. Are they too eager? Do they slobber everywhere? If the person is not a good kisser, it can defiantly throw off the whole encounter. Nothing gets sex going better that passionate kissing. As far as I'm concerned, you can never get enough kissing!Sorry Jean Girard - I think one person can be a great kisser (I have been told by people that I am )

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Definately prefer a good kisser..... you can basically tell within the first couple minutes of kissing that it might lead to somewhere and it also tells you a lot about them. I've come across a lot of good and bad kissers in my time so far. But the goods one I do keep going back to lol.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Kisses are the most important part of any sexual encounter. I love to kiss, whether it be a cheeky pash and dash, haha, and I like you alittlevil have successfully completed a similar dare OR an intense session. Although integral to a great kiss is touch. hands and body, A kiss without touch is barely a kiss at all. You can tell a lot about a person by the shape of their lips and the look in their eyes and the position of their body, I personally think kissing is a respect thing as well. Have you tried having sex without kissing, just doesn't happen. Lips must touch. ah, totally keen for a kiss right now. xxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    VictoriaCore......................anytime!!!!!! xxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Your on sugar. :P, Now would suit me perfectly. :P

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    VC kiss me quick!