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Is it all about sex
September 27 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
It probably all depends on what they are looking for in the first place. If they want a relationship and all that goes with it, or do they want a good sexual experience. If it is the latter then does it really matter if you both enjoy playing golf, travel or whatever?? I'm sure most guys no matter what, dont want any old person, but if it is purely sex then it probably doesn't matter to what extent they get to know the girl......
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RHP User
16 years ago
Meah... Any hole if I'm being honest. I appreciate good company also. That's a bonus. :p HUgs Gazza
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
HI Firstly i understand what your talking about, I couldn't read your profie as it was blocked... I had a look at your sexual and fetish Interests...So It seems to me your a sexual person !!!..The guys sending you the sexual messages are probably just Playing the numbers,letting their intentions to you as a feeler to see what your looking for, and also giving you a indication to you about them !.....Its you choice weather you continue to talk to them or not.....Take the good with bad....This is Red Hot Pie....after all....Not Facebook ! Cheers Tam
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RHP User
16 years ago
because in this forum you should expect this.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I prefer guys and girls to be upfront with me as to what they are wanting. Why beat around the bush?? For me, I am married so I am not wanting to meet Mr or Miss Right. Yes I like to connect, but maver after naughty sexual level, not on a happily ever after type of thing. Each to their own. We are adults in charge of our own bodies and own sexual desires. Less mucking around the better I say.
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RHP User
16 years ago
It completely depends what you're after Single ladies, single men, couples, groups... Sex on first date, sex on subsequent events only ... Sex at home... sex in public ... sex at clubs ... Everyone is completely different ... and some don't know what they want! Crowie, best of luck finding exactly what you are after ... and block and ignore those that get in that way!
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RHP User
16 years ago
What are you looking for , a relationship or some good old health hot sex because i think most of us are on here for hot sex firstly then see how things go , we are not here for tea and biscuity.... Sorry thats just how i look at this site (rhp)... But good luck with what ever your looking for ...
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RHP User
16 years ago
That's quite a sexy dress you're wearing there! I'd probably talk to you about sex too if you're wearing that!! :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeh pretty much...any hole will do! And while this is RHP...SOME of us need some kind of a connection to have remotely enjoyable sex. The more you are with someone....the more you learn what gets you both off. It is and should never be about JUST YOU. But then....self respect and a little class comes into it, which is rare for both sexes in this place.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I guess for most guys it is about sex but even many guys find the sex is far better if there is a 'connection' of spirits. It is probably a fine line but why not meet them publicly (coffee shop?) first and see if they connect before you take a next step?
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey kdecrowle Don't guys (and girls) sometimes talk about sex as a way of getting to know you? And why do you separate this from the 'personal' in your question? Anyways...I kinda get you point.....I don't want a "relationship" and masterbtion gets boring...so their you are...On RHP I get to suss-out guys "creativity" before I take my cloths off....ha
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RHP User
16 years ago
It's one step removed from masturbation otherwise... at least solitary sex is having sex with someone you know. I'm sick of my body being used for impersonal relief and want to saviour those special moments beyond one encounter. I can understand a novice who want to experience variety. Extenuating circumstances can obviously apply. Erratic drug addled family members, con artists, matters of hygiene, insanity, and other personality aberrations count. Sorry got right off topic there. I guess the average Joe Blow does not want to commit himself to a liaison lacking sexual compatibility. He might fancy various things that she may not, or vice versa. Dining and entertaining a lady who is not that way inclined seems to be a poor investment in ones future.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I believe it is an important part of the "getting to know you" stage of meeting someone either online or in person, as so to make sure you are sexually compatible, whether it be casual or serious. Otherwise you can end up down the line realising that you dont share the same sexual interests with neither of you satisfied with each other. Best to get it out of the way first I say. Nothing worse than dud sex...ha ha.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Until you actually have sex with someone you dont know whether or not you are sexually compatible. Just cos you have the same sexual fantasies or likes or whatever proves nothing. i for example love oral sex, but not every guy does it the way i like, so just talking about it proves nothing at all. I have had coffee with guys who are damn nice etc and once in the bedroom it is a disaster. i have met straight up with a guy and it has been damn good. You just got to do it!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey if i was not allowed to talk about sex here then what am i doing here has someone stolen me away from church??
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have talked to a few women who are totally obsessed about all things sexual as well, so it aint just the guys.You have to take into account that the ones doing all the graphic talking are doing so because they don't get layed with any sort of frequency, so this is their outlet.Sure they will tell you they do pretty well , but this is Rhp and most claims are indexed as per penis size and girth and often the result of an over active imagination.Personally if a women wants to talk all things sexual to me before i know her a bit, i just feel sort of embarrased...lolI am with you i prefer to get to know someone first.I really like the getting to know you bit.....for me its important....to connnect with another as a complete person, rather than as lots of people think just a piece of flesh with a few holes for them to put their dick in!Cheers Nev and where the hell are the keys for my ute...ffs....Keys hate me!
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RHP User
16 years ago
connection...connection...and connection...connection of minds...connection of spirit...and connection of body...for me...doesn't matter how hot you are...how beautiful you look...if ya don;t turn my mind on...then it ain't worth pursuing anything further...so, no my first sentence is never about sex...but my second might be...gigglingjose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
i find its more about seeing whether your a fun girl or a bit of a snob.... i do it to see where things will lead....it sounds wrong but if a girl goes along a little it actually shows she's interested
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RHP User
16 years ago
I'm actually going to agree with you on this one as per my comments further back on this thread
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RHP User
16 years ago
lol most men think with only their big brain between their legs some times if you look you will find someone that does want to know you first mostly the younger men think that way the 30 + men seem to appreciate the woman then the rest of her
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RHP User
16 years ago
I think everyone wants a good sex life! If the sex is good you will both be back for more and then in time the feelings will probably follow!Just go with the flow !
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RHP User
16 years ago
this is a sex site so if you dont want guys or girls asking about sex go elsewere join friend finder or rsvp if you read peoples usernames they all have something sexual in it PPL THIS IS A SEX SITE IT IS ON HERE TO FIND SOMEONE TO SHAG AND EXPLORE YOUR KINKY SIDE IS NEED BE if you are wanting to date someone your chances of getting that is very slim on this site ppl want nsa nothing more couples want females to join them males want casual fuck so give me a the SEX any day
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RHP User
16 years ago
Amen to that Kitten lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Well it is ttue that this is an adult oriented site, But honestly sex without connection is about as satisfying as masterbating. Yes I think there needs to be a connection of some sort to achieve MUTUAL satisfaction. something I believe in. cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
How are you supposed to have a deep emotional connection at an orgy? How much can someone love you if they want to pee on you? What is it with people who like to strangle/be strangled? Thats a connection? Why does jizz hurt to pull out of belly hair after it has dried? Its not all about sex. Its about life. Sometimes there is a connection, sometimes not. Of course this is an in-your-face-with-the-genital-pics kind of site but still... Random
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RHP User
16 years ago
random :)lilmiss x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Turn to page 37 You come up against a pack of man-eating cougars! A cougar pounces, latches its teeth onto your neck and gives you a mauling so severe you have to hang on for dear life or be shaken to pieces, whilst the others stand around sipping sauv-blanc and saying things like "Wow he's got a nice cock" and "Oh Trish can you teach me how to do that one?" The End or turn back to page 164 :p
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RHP User
16 years ago
this place is about sex??? And here I was looking for a relationship... LMAO
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RHP User
16 years ago
hi bendover kiten thats what i'm wanting .finding me where hotmales goaround jessie281 come say hi.
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friendlyduo
16 years ago
this is a sex site is not? what do you expect.
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RHP User
16 years ago
bendoverkitten i agree 100 % wanna chat some time finding me where its always hot ,male jessie281always up for a laugh fun..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Um why bother having sex with someone if there's no connection? There's a massive grey area between meaningless sex and deep commitment so just because a person's sexual interests aren't generic or they don't appreciate being treated like someone and/or another's free hooker doesn't mean they should be exiled from the site either.
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