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Is it all a game for you?

August 10 2010

Yesterday I sent a guy a message and then realised that I was caught up in a game. He lives in WA. I live in Tasmania. I am not into casual sex and I really want a relationship. . . . yes with someone sexy who is open and supportive of exploring fantasies, hence me being here and not on a vanilla site. When he replied to my message I felt bad. Normally I don't consider myself to be a games player but I realised yesterday that sometimes I am a headfuck and I enjoy playing the flirting game. So what is this site to you? Is being here a game? Wildly confused

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RHP User

15 years ago

but.... boy do i get played roxxy

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15 years ago

...for me at present you send me a message then expect me to mess with you... I have been knnown to keep in contact with those who are in different states from me and indulge in general flirting - a bit of harmless fun - but everyone involved knows what is at stake - nothing - unless either plans on visiting said area. Keep the boundaries set and why not indulge in alittle flirting every now and then? Kisses Focus

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15 years ago

Definately not a game for me. Way too many good ppl here to get embroiled in game playing. Not to say I haven't fallen into the trap previously, when in Rome and all that. I've taken the pressure off the 'dating' side of things tho, which helps enormously. Whether we like it or not (& as far as Forum contributions go) 'we' definately do not endorse mind games, its a part of the overall game we play...at least you recognize it & acknowlege it. Let your conscience be your guide & remember, fun & fantasy aren't dirty words nor anything to feel guilty about.

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15 years ago

Hey Tassie,Its funny you asked the question because I was chatting a while back and got to know a female and one day she turned around to mer and said what are you doing on this site? then goes goes on to say I am too nice a bloke to be stuck here and you know she is probably right.I am more in the category of: I am really on this site to find the woman of my dreams lol And here is hoping she be as dirty as I am lol but being dirty minded and the like does not mean I am not a nice bloke and a gentleman I am a realist but really come here for the chat now more than anything and who knows who may log on one day.PK !!

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RHP User

15 years ago

Quoting 'Mynameonurlips' Definately not a game for me. Way too many good ppl here to get embroiled in game playing. Not to say I haven't fallen into the trap previously, when in Rome and all that. I've taken the pressure off the 'dating' side of things tho, which helps enormously. Whether we like it or not (& as far as Forum contributions go) 'we' definately do not endorse mind games, its a part of the overall game we play...at least you recognize it & acknowlege it. Let your conscience be your guide & remember, fun & fantasy aren't dirty words nor anything to feel guilty about. Cannot add anymore...

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RHP User

15 years ago

Life is a game darlin' the more serious you get, the less fun it becomes. Yes I would love to have a serious relationship but I also want some fun while looking. Sometimes it is harmless flirtation with guys from another state or even another country. Some meet and some I dont. It is all meant to be fun Cheers, fionabee

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RHP User

15 years ago

I'm happy when I get an automatied return message or a flat "No Thanks" It is a dream of mine to have someone fuck with my head. (Emotionally that is. The other is just pure fantasy) Come on guys, Just close your eyes and think of the greater good. Mr Handle

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15 years ago

Hi all, just my 2 cents worth. I am on this site as well to find a lovely lady who I can connect emotionally, mentally and socially :) And added to that is the bonus of exploring fun things together and with others. Life is a game and we all play in it.. it is how weplay and how open and honest are we to the others. Am i making sense or I am just tired! Wil

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RHP User

15 years ago

This is not a game for me Its hard enough to meet some one who is honest and up front and willing to accecpt people as they are Rejection is part of life and hopefully one will meet a person to be the one that will make the world a better happier place Playing with emotions only hurt you and the unfortunate person on the other end take care all regards lonely_blu_eyes AKA Chris

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RHP User

15 years ago

I would say yes its a game it is a sex site so most people on here are just for casual encounters ... nothing more and I have met a couple of guys that like to play mind games I dont think I would trust anyone on a dating site

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