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Is everyone on here to 'hook up' ?????
February 26 2014
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sweetgem
12 years ago
Some may be here for hook ups; Some may be here to see what RHP is all about, or to explore what's out there in the cyber dating world; Some may be here for friendship and chatting (like yourself :-)); But the majority of late (I've noticed) joined to seek out sexual experiments, so that their sexual fantasies could be fulfilled. I am here to seek a companion (or a FWB as some would call it) for quality times in and out of the bedroom without any expectation or commitment. I would like to have an intimate friend who I can call upon for dinners, movies, travel together and sex, when opportunity presents, and vice versa :-) Therefore, don't let those bad meats or negative comments get to you, because they are like the rain that would pour down and then clear up when the clouds move on :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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sweetgem
12 years ago
A few years ago, I was on a different adult dating site, a man sent me an invitation to have sex with him, but I said no and guess what he wrote in reply.......he told me to get off that site and stop wasting everyone's time if I wasn't serious about hooking up! My reaction to that foul message was, who the hell did he think he was to speak like that to me, and more so to represent EVERYONE on that site when I clearly have a right to say yes or no! So, what I did to his rude message was hitting the BLOCK button and he was gone for good! Lol So my suggestion is, always handle bad situations with class and never ever lower yourself to be on the same level as those nasty and uneducated people! :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your profile is very clear as to what you want. You are married and have no photos up. If somebody is getting their nose out of joint because you are not keen to hook up, they are obviously the one with a problem!
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RHP User
12 years ago
So that even if people don't read my profile, or read it but interpret it to still mean something it doesn't, they get a clear reminder of what I'm about in response to their first message. I've had a few different auto-replies over time and this current one is the only one that has an almost 100% success rate of weeding out people who want to hook up. I'm not sure why this one works, but I'm thankful it does :) In the past, other versions of the auto-reply still prompted men to come back and 'shout' abuse etc because I was wasting their time. I choose not to take these things to heart. People do what people do :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Why would it be classed as wasting someones time if you are NOT on here to "hook up"?? I read your profile and your pretty clear on what YOU want. Who is anyone to judge others for what they come here for? No one has a right to tell someone or another not to be on here or to get off here. As for that person saying you are wasting their time. Well PFFFFFFFFFFT to them. I believe everyone's time is precious. Keep on posting in the forums. Ms.Foxy who believes we are all worth it. :)
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Imagine what this person would be like in real life?? They wouldn't be supportive with your choices. I can see it now, if things didn't go their way, they'd be like "You're wasting my time" Pretty Passive aggressive if you ask me! LOL Yep you dodged a bullet. :) FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'sweetgem'A few years ago, I was on a different adult dating site, a man sent me an invitation to have sex with him, but I said no and guess what he wrote in reply.......he told me to get off that site and stop wasting everyone's time if I wasn't serious about hooking up! I had the same thing happen when I told a guy here "Sorry, but you're not my type." He is response was "According to your profile I am, so change it or get the fuck off this site and stop wasting everyone's time!" Lovely! A lot of profiles also say people are only here for the forums. If people choose not to read it it's their problem. Good luck!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I intend to write a new forum post today Ms Purple and I think you are the perfect example to that so keep reading these forums they are indeed informative and educating.
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gazpacho
12 years ago
A person can use this site to hook up. I'm not really in it for the business. I find it too taxing on my headspace. I stumble into my sexual interludes, not really into the grand planning... it seems to raise too many expectations, whereas I am a roll with the punches kind of guy. If you happen to be in the same place at the same time with the same idea, then we're on for it... otherwise, I am going to seem like a real arsehole to some of you. HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
We visit this site for different reasons and that is why it is successful. You have made your intentions clear, if people don't bother to read it, that is their problem, not yours. Some people will expect something for nothing, and try and reel others in. It probably won't work, if they are stinkers approach the wrong fish, or use the wrong bait. I gave up, after being fed too many lies, by fisherman casting their lines out too widely
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RHP User
12 years ago
Someone got their nose out if joint because you're not going to be their masturbation pocket. As others have said.... Don't make their issue your issue.... and I know you're not. Bullet, dodged.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Clever :) I never reply to abusive emails but if I did, in pretty sure is want to use this DG! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I am looking for masturbation pockets myself. Love coming in a person's mouth. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think you can do what ever you like on any site. What a man is saying is, shit I have been rejected or I don't have a chance in hell of getting my willy into a wet space. Some days I am here for the forums, some days not some days I am here to hook up, but that's pretty rare now as I have bonked half of RHP and the other half don't want me....sigh? DG you know your gagging for me so stop playing hard to get. any hooooooow just go with the flow, and you never know you might just hook up one day, or not the choice is all yours on RHP
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just looking for a new pool filter myself
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captainkaos
12 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'I am looking for masturbation pockets myself. Love coming in a person's mouth. :p I fucking love you Meeka. lol.
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Languid
12 years ago
There can be a lot more to having a sex life than just hooking up. I am also in the category of not being on here to score because being married that for me would be inappropriate behaviour. Doesnt mean that its not right for other married people but its not right for me. However I have a vivid imagination and in that imagination I do "hook up" with other ladies of RHP particularly those who post regularly in the forum. In fact you could probably say I am a serial offender. But hey you are all beautiful. Anyway RHP goes a long way to keeping me out of offline trouble. RHP is surely for anyone with an interest in sex regardless of what form that interest may take. As long as its clearly stated in the profile I cant see why anyone should get upset. And anyway for sensuality where should I be going RHP or the official website for the Vatican City. As an aside what is the distinction between perving and voyeurism? I hope for my sake there is one haha.
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RHP User
12 years ago
prettyinpurple45 & MsElle72 I'm here as a guest, to perve look at the forums and generally to have fun, however, if I wish to communicate as a guest to compliment someone's photos or their profile page I have to revert to sending a flirt I always use the ICEBREAKER 'I just wanted to say that I loved your Profile' as is my practice, however I do know that it does offend some people as they automatically think 'The dick hasn't read my profile he's not even in the ballpark' I do admire everyone for saying what they think and for their photos, and I do believe compliments are warranted, just wish there was another alternative to using the flirt, for infrequent non paid up members.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Like you I'm married and primarily here for the forums and other entertainment. farqtwo... I couldn't have said better myself, it's as if you were speaking for me also I think the only people who can tell us where to go are the sites administration any one else is just offering an unsolicited opinion!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm here for laughs and simply to find coffee buddy's now n then :) If they feel the desire to take me from that so be it if they don't well we still have the honest laughs n coffee :)) Seems lot of people over read into each profile of honesty ???
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RHP User
12 years ago
I haven't been on RHP for long. And naively I gave my number to someone quite quickly with the understanding he was sending me some pics. He promptly called me and asked where I was. I told him I was at home. So he asked where that was and when I didn't respond with my address he started in on me. Saying I was on a sex site not a dating site. He said he calls any number of women and is fucking them within 30 minutes (I know - like pizza delivery right???) I explained to the douche just because I am on a sex site does not mean I have to have sex with everyone on the site and perhaps he should call said women if he's that hard up. He was not impressed at all. Days later he texts me asking how I am. Needless to say I blocked him on the site and thankfully he hasn't contacted me again on my phone. Each to their own, but we are all adults, and if someone knocks you back for whatever reason, get over it and move on to the next one, no need to be nasty about it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wasting time...afteral what else is time for if not to waste?....unless meaningless rumpy pumpy has suddenly become profoundly important to world peace....hmmm maybe if everyone in the world indulged in more rumpy pumpy...made love not war as the saying goes...it wouldn't be a waste of time ..xxQ
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RHP User
12 years ago
As soon as I see "no time wasters" on someone's profile I don't answer them... I don't want to waste their time....:) as qefenta said time is for wasting... One way or another lol.. In fact that's what I'm doing right now!! X
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RHP User
12 years ago
Wow!! thanks heaps for replying back..!!!! all your responses put a smile on my face :)... and yes I definately dodged a bullet!!... his loss not mine! :) and I never bothered replying back to him after that.. not worth my time or effort! And yes, I am learning something new each time i check the forums... I gotta start somewhere in finding out what life can be like out there in this big not so bad world!!!! Thanks everyone. :):):):) x HAPPY SATURDAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!! cheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
...and so are several others that I've encountered. As long as it's spelled out in your profile, there's no issue. There are always those who will seek to impose their own views on you. Ignore them.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Socialising, vocalising, enterprising, verbalising, You can do what ever you like Mspurple, we all come here ...stay here and return here for various reasons. Sometimes we tire of the dating and stay for the forums then have a break and come back and have some fun. Dont let anyone judge you or push you around...there are enough past topics to keep people entertained for a long time. Freindships - non-sexual ones are common here.
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him_and_me
12 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow11' Just looking for a new pool filter myself That made me chuckle... want to come over and check out ours? I think we still need it but we could discuss model numbers....or something. We've made a few friends through here who we don't sleep with for various reasons (geography, timing, no spark) but I would never consider being in touch with them to be a waste of time. I think if your profile says what you're after, or you let someone know early on in your communications that you're not interested in taking it further then you can't really be blamed for wasting someone's time. x Me
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RHP User
12 years ago
..when my Relationship ended.My workmate was here purely to "Hook up". For me..at first, anyway..I needed to feel that I was still desirableto a woman. Though I didn't admit that to myself at the time, of course.Now..I've got my shit together...so to speak…and though it looks like the well has dried up somewhat,I'm aware that it's because I've become a little more discerning, and I enjoy RHP for whatI think it is: a social forum that is less bound by the rules of polite society than some others.NEVER have I been so naive as to think that everyone was on here JUST to get laid.I'm not so naive that I believe everyone thinks as I do either...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Definatley being entertained by all the past forum posts.. and yep.. I would love to make a lot of non sexual friendships, but all good things take time... ;) cheers! oh p.s anyone know of a good over 28's place to go to with the girls from work???? a 'normal' over 28's that is lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
To message people based on what they want? Eg I personally will not respond to messages from men or couples because I am not looking for them. I don't even open them. For women I imagine it's even worse just on a numbers degree. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
There are a lot of people on RHP, all for differing and varying reasons, some to make friends, some to spice up their lives, some to explore and perhaps find out something they have been wondering about and others for hook ups.As for wasting people time, well, regardless of the sexual nature of the site, we need to respect others and just because your profile may 'match' another persons, they are not in any way obligated to say yes to whatever you propose.We all are attracted to different things, have regular lives that we must attend to, families, work, etc that all place demands on our time and thus can determine our freedom and moods.I know what I am looking for, and with any luck, I may be lucky to find it, but my expectations are hopeful, there are no guarantees and some are just luckier than others.Regardless, simple courtesy, respect and manners go a long way and those that feel they must be abusive are revealing an aspect of their personality, or frustration that they are obliged to deal with themselves.The reasons we are drawn here does not mean that we will just waltz in and get it. We are adults, and simply need to conduct ourselves in a way that reflects that.
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RHP User
12 years ago
To each his own. Getting mad at an anonymous user online is like shouting at the clouds because its raining. Chill out. Read people's profiles..... and go from there. Some want NSA. Some want relationships. Some (like myself) want to experiment. Some want to cheat. All is good. Variety is the spice of life.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yet another one.. apparently I am dishonest and decietful all because I didn't send him a photo after he sent me one... I DID send it or so I thought... obviously not... guess I dodged another bullet!!! lol So much for enjoying sending messages as a way of chatting. Loving the forums.. you 'regulars' are quite interesting ;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree with you all, each to their own and if anyone is being really abusive, then not only block but report them. Nobody deserves to be treated like that, there are enough head cases to deal with without people being abusive because they can't read.
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RHP User
12 years ago
...but I'm here for more than just a hook up, I like the forums too.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Not much else to say, but that I agree with Superfoxxxy comments. You just have to learn to ignore rude people with one track minds also. :)
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