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Is Casanova Dead??

April 18 2011

So I've been thinking lately and watching intently the online profiles of what people write. I'm curious what people think of the old romantic talk? Not 'oh my love your as sweet and lovely as a summer peach' but simply being charming and polite. Maybe this is a mirror of the topic regarding women and potty mouths, but personally, I'm unashamedly romantic. I adore women on such a level its staggers even me. I respect you and love you and I am completely enamoured. And I make no apologies for it. But where is the balance and where does it tip over from, cheesy hopeless romantic, over to nice guy - possibly a eunuch?What pushes your buttons women? Do you like this type of man and more importantly, would you go for a guy like this...? All well and good to say you like the talk but would you take it to the bedroom?M.

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  • Ringleader

    Ringleader

    15 years ago

    Giacomo Girolamo Casanova de Seingalt (April 2, 1725 – June 4, 1798)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I adore charming and polite! I love seduction and romance and effort. I think a lot of these things are redundant when it comes to RHP and rightly so. Its a sex site and most people aren't here in search of Casanova. But in a partner, I love nothing more than surpises and romance and being adored and appreciated. Where it becomes cheesy around here is when terms of endearment and mush and adoration are used by complete strangers. That's feigned intimacy in my opinion and it is a turn off. Charm me, seduce me even, but don't make the assumption that intimacy can take place without you having gotten to know my reeeally annoying traits first! If you're completely enarmoured with me after that, then you may light candles and sweep me off my feet.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    He might not be dead, but sure isn't living in Tasmania. .. . . . .To answer your question, I appreciate charm and politeness when it is genuine. As for taking a charming man to bed, if he's that charming, how could I resist? Be yourself Tiger, its too hard trying to be someone or something you are not!Gypsy wisdom

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    he probably died of syphilis...The problem with the Casanova thing is that he was a womaniser, yes he was charming and i'm always delighted to entertain a charmer, but he usually prayed on insecure women. Not cool.xx sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ......maybe a little lost? I'm yet to meet him that's for sure. I think the art of seduction is missing also. Most men do not know how to seduce a woman. Well, the one's I've met don't. "I appreciate charm and politeness when it is genuine." +1.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Casanova was nailed to the cros and then BBQ.... Thank God the guy was given real men a bad rep

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' I adore charming and polite! I love seduction and romance and effort. I think a lot of these things are redundant when it comes to RHP and rightly so. Its a sex site and most people aren't here in search of Casanova. That's it right there isn't it. I understand that this is sex site, but I have a theory; All women are different, but not that different. So attention girls, those that do receive an email from me, it's not fake, I understand your not perfect, in fact, I'd probably find your bad habits extraordinarily annoying, but my skin is thick and it takes a fair bit for me to put off by bad habits. I'm just tolerant. maybe it's my job as a nurse that teaches patience, but its switched over to here?!...Matt

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I don't know if Casanova is dead...but might not be the first one you want to bring in to the game, at least here on this site. There is that old saying that no matter what... "nice guys always win" or worse "nice guys finish first". I don't think that having you finish first even if you are going to do the dishes and take out the rubbish is exactly what most of the ladies here are looking for...so maybe keep him on your reserve list and let him play when you get to know them. There is no substitute for being gracious...even it it means you finish last or remember that ladies come first, whether getting out of a car or into bed.|Now then if you happen to read the classics in Spanish or don't mind settling for a loose translation...Carlos Castaneda wrote the book on Don Juan. Now there was a rogue with a touch of class and had is act together. Castaneda also wrote another book on the same subjects called "A Separate Reality" with teachings on the Yaqui way of knowledge...the art seeing or perceiving energy directly as it flows through the universe. |Put him in the game first and let it flow through her...those magical shock waves that will make her want more. The you can always...|...worry about the dishes later.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ...and Casanova..... Not likely Midnight boy.... Don Juan just happened to be the name of an amazing Yaqui indian.... Carlos Castenada started our as a student of his, eager to learn about the hallacenagenic properties of the psychedelic drugs - peyote, jumson weed and humito mushrooms. He was a little slow on the uptake and took a couple of years to realise that Don Juan was training him as a Yaqui sorcerer.........nothing to do with seduction. . Well not seduction of a female anyway.... He did write 15 ? books over his years with Don Juan....his teachings were and still are amazing, to this day I reread the 15 copies I own and learn something new each time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Fake is much more obvious Tiger. You are right in that MOST women here want to be wooed and impressed but admittedly, sometimes we are a little picky and too much too soon is just saturation. I agree with Gypsy though. Don't change who are. True colours seem to hold a woman's attention span far longer than a templete message dropshipped to the masses in the slim hope that sheer numbers will see to it that they get laid. All this does is makes a true gentleman stand out all the more clearer from the pack!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'loveprod' Giacomo Girolamo Casanova de Seingalt (April 2, 1725 – June 4, 1798) Don't You???????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    A very lengthy career and an amazing author...let alone the look into the beliefs of the Yaqui as noted... | Quoting 'ruby_blossum' Well not seduction of a female anyway.... | I think perhaps Byron would have agrued in his numerous Cantos...and as for the seduction of women, Don Juan deMarco racked up a few wins in his career. Not everything is as simple as knowing a book... | ...by it's cover.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Ours would have been a special brand of intimacy I'd have assumed to be an exception to the rule! *smirk*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    This is nice, I'm bringing people together now :-p All in the name of romance. See, even a sex site has its need for charm!!Cheers Chilli, I will stay true to myself. And as for annoying traits, I reckon I'd make the exception ;-)Matt

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'TigerTantra' This is nice, I'm bringing people together now :-p All in the name of romance. See, even a sex site has its need for charm!!Cheers Chilli, I will stay true to myself. And as for annoying traits, I reckon I'd make the exception ;-)Matt This is nice, you're right! ... Atthough I'm not so sure Chilli and I would "come together" specifically in the name of romance . Alas, romance and charm is just lovely and I actually thought I might be your dream woman for a moment there Tiger ... riiiiiight up until the bit about "unreserved drive". After a rather hectic weekend, I'm pondering becoming a lazy lover and a woman of leisure. You know, the whole breakfast in bed, man in the kitchen, massages, letting the man collect the wood and light the fire, that kinda thing ... And your a Gemini and I have a wedding ring somewhere here that is proof positive it just ain't gonna work out for us. Shame too, coz anyone who speaks of Tantra gets a big from me as a rule LOL.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    certainly had a glowing way with women ( in my minds eye I preferred his mate Genaro) . But would he have been successful on the internet? . For me, seduction by words alone just doesnt do it. . Seduction and sex can be poles apart. . There needs to be the ambiance, the lighting, the aromas, the breath, the seemingly accidental touch... looking into anothers eyes...... . Casanova was really just a rotten ole womaniser.... ....but it was his ability to enable all of those women to feel like they were special, desirable and wanton that lead to his legendary status. . My experience on here leads me to believe that yes, in the majority, Casanova is dead.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I think he works in 'fruit & veg' at coles in joondalup, promoting "Cassanova Cucumbers" that are "burp-less" and "Fanny-fartless" and make a great salad the next day. Last I saw him anyway?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    It's always the shy one isn't it at first? Sometime they just need a wee tip in the right direction and then they're off. As stated earlier, it may come across as "feigning affection" but once the green light goes its all systems go. Real seducers know that women respond to words more so than looks. Seduction is the easy part, Conquering is the hard part. In other words, If they are vulnerable and you get them in to bed, dont expect an invite back. It's all about the 3 'C''s 1) Comfort - Nothing else happens wthout it2) Conversation - Charm can only get you by for about 5 mins. After that you had better know something3) Cumming - Rather self explanatory, but the the first rule of Karma Sutra is still true today, especially here - The woman must be taken care of firstAnd chilli, a tip to help you out - try seaming. You know, wearing no underwear but letting the seam on your pants do their thing while your sitting down. Moving slowly back and forth. It will keep you busy till the other party is readyM

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Jearzuz, Don Juan walks past and sprinkles a little of that fairy dust he stole from the Yaquis whilst Castaneda is tripping out trying to get ya'all to believe his book was non-fiction and look what happens...a couple of you ladies decide to rug up together and roll around on the magic carpet? | The two you should be damn glad that Casanova karked it and we aren't living back in the bad old good old days. You would have ended up in in the stocks on the public square, you know...your head and hands poking out of the holes and your butts wriggling in the air behind you? | The really embarrasing part was when they put that woodend sign up that told everyone what you had done. It was always just an abbreviation so FSA could have been "For Stealing Apples" or FUFL coulde have been "For Using Foul Language". You two would be in deep shit... | Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Although I'm not so sure Chilli and I would "come together" specifically in the name of romance...| I know who has the lock to your stocks, Flirty...so will throw him the keys. Chilli, you poor unfortuante little girl...that means I get you. Taking a few days off of work to come over and work you over would be my pleausre indeed. Con tu permissio por favour...I am a gentelman afterall? | Damn...I better check Commonwealth Law just to make sure the guys don't end up with their ass in the air around these two. No, we are good to go...it seems that Fucking Bi Females becomes FBF and since it will be red hot mixing it up with Chilli that makes it legal under the law. | They do say you have to be in it to win it so I will bring my newest toy, portable stocks...and if I need to pay the extra charge for excess baggage it will be with a smile on my face. Glad they brought Hawaii 5-0 back, I always did like that line "book 'em, Dano" or was that something I heard on... | ...Crime and Punishment. | | I think they had the radiation set a on "high" when they blasted me. Oh well.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'TigerTantra'It's always the shy one isn't it at first? Sometime they just need a wee tip in the right direction and then they're off. As stated earlier, it may come across as "feigning affection" but once the green light goes its all systems go. Real seducers know that women respond to words more so than looks. Seduction is the easy part, Conquering is the hard part. In other words, If they are vulnerable and you get them in to bed, dont expect an invite back. It's all about the 3 'C''s 1) Comfort - Nothing else happens wthout it2) Conversation - Charm can only get you by for about 5 mins. After that you had better know something3) Cumming - Rather self explanatory, but the the first rule of Karma Sutra is still true today, especially here - The woman must be taken care of first4) Chewing Gum. As in "Would you like some chewing gum"?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hmmm, If someone offered me gum, does it not slightly imply you have bad breath?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Point taken Chilli, and yeh, fair point, but morning cunnilingus and morning sex, I guess mints would be most appropriate. Nurse are very much in favour of hygiene. But worrying about our breath in front of patients and kissing them isn't our top priority. We get them better. Not sleep with them. Time to work and time to play. The breath mints at work are for the female nurses

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Dont you sound like a barrel of laughs! Wow, well when you cum (ahem) to Sydney be sure to let me know And you got an invite back! Wow, maybe some people like that kind of stuff. haha

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'TigerTantra'And chilli, a tip to help you out - try seaming. You know, wearing no underwear but letting the seam on your pants do their thing while your sitting down. Moving slowly back and forth. It will keep you busy till the other party is readyMWhat?? You mean there's a name for that???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'ChasingMidnight' The really embarrasing part was when they put that woodend sign up that told everyone what you had done. It was always just an abbreviation so FSA could have been "For Stealing Apples" or FUFL coulde have been "For Using Foul Language". You two would be in deep shit... | Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' Although I'm not so sure Chilli and I would "come together" specifically in the name of romance...| I know who has the lock to your stocks, Flirty...so will throw him the keys. Chilli, you poor unfortuante little girl...that means I get you. Taking a few days off of work to come over and work you over would be my pleausre indeed. Con tu permissio por favour...I am a gentelman afterall? | Damn...I better check Commonwealth Law just to make sure the guys don't end up with their ass in the air around these two. No, we are good to go...it seems that Fucking Bi Females becomes FBF and since it will be red hot mixing it up with Chilli that makes it legal under the law. | They do say you have to be in it to win it so I will bring my newest toy, portable stocks...and if I need to pay the extra charge for excess baggage it will be with a smile on my face. Glad they brought Hawaii 5-0 back, I always did like that line "book 'em, Dano" or was that something I heard on... | ...Crime and Punishment. | | I think they had the radiation set a on "high" when they blasted me. Oh well. You'll have to check that toy in at the counter CM. Don't make me tell you how I know this. Let's just say I send my special toys by road these days *sigh* . And please keep those keys to yourself if you don't mind. He'd most likely just leave me there and take inappropriate photos of me with an interchangable sign outlining my many sins! I think I'm morally bankrupt these days where he's concerned, at least I stand half a chance of negotiating with you. Infact, I think you may be correct in saying it may well be you ending up in the vulnerable position once I warm up! Throw in Chilli's penchant for the strap on and ... ouch! *cough*