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Invitation for a MFM MFF who does it? You or your man?

July 05 2011

Hello all.Have been meaning to canvass this question to you all after having had several chats to a male friend in here on his adventures in being invited to join couples for playmeets. Basically he gets a message/flirt/ from a couple asking if he's interested and either does he have a phone number to validate he's real. Now before some of you jump up and say "ha!! he's lying already cause couples dont message guys they message them.."yada yada..I'm sure he has messaged couples on here inniating a meet but that's not the main crux of this question which Im slowly getting to..After some twoing and froing and his offer to cam up for the couple, which he does,there has come a point wherby the male of the couple wants to "meet him for a drink and a chat" before the big event, to just confirm he's ok..Im like WT?? Sometimes, the couple wont cam up for him..which Ive said I think he's crazy to cam up if they wont reciprocate, but thats another issue.Ive joked to him that I reckon the bloke is secretly bi and is hoping to hit him up, or else in a strange ironic twist, its not really a cpl but a bloke appearing as a couple...wanting to hit him up.Sooooo my questions is this..Do couples really do that? Let their husband go and do a onceover of a potential playmate? Especially when the dude is straight so you are talking about the female getting all the benefit.Im also amused when he tells me it can be the bloke setting up the encounter. I guess I struggle with that concept as Im wary of his tastes in birthday gifts let alone what he'd find for me on here..So enlighten me..whats the steps you take for the meet?

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RHP User

14 years ago

just an add on meant to say Im wary of Mr sat and his buying of presents..and if he had a say in a male playmate if ever that was the case..

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RHP User

14 years ago

we've had lots of mmf's before and the guy just comes to our place. if she likes him then she mzkes a move... end story.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I met this real slutty dude once and for years he's been a hoot. But then he went and got himself a girlfriend, then nothing. Now 12 months down the track... he rings saying he's taking interviews and applications for a three-way and would I mind coming over for a trial run... I have to admit.. I was very suspicious at first, cause I know this guy... and this type of guy.. I mean.. he's a slut through and through and will tell me anything he thinks I want to hear to have his way with a handsome lad such as myself.So anyway... wary as I am of falling into this honey trap..... yeah.. apparently guys do interview for their wives and girlfriends cause sure enough... when I showed up.. there they both were.HugsStalky

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Mr_MrsJones

14 years ago

A little while ago we looked around for a guy for MMF. I (Mrs) chatted to some candidtates and picked out a possible. Once we got to the stage of "How do you want to do this?' I decided that it would be more fun for me if I stayed out of it from that point and so Mr is in charge of meeting the guy to make sure he is genuine etc and setting up the big event. I trust completely his judgement and for me part of the attraction is being under his control for this. He gives permission and controls me (mild Dom/ Sub thing going on there) The bigger attractant is of being in a room waiting for an unknown person to have random sex with but with the safety factor of knowing he has been vetted by someone I trust. Does all that make sense? It did to me when I was thinking it.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Ha! KrissyI dont think that you are referring to my correct friend! He is from this side of the paddock!... The one I think you refer to is a tricky wabbit to peg down Im sure, and congrats to the happy hunter or hunters that snares him!! Id just like the details lol.. Quoting 'Krissy_G' Good luck to the male half of the couple meeting your friend. He is a damn elusive character as Im sure many girls willl attest to. Ps The couple are genuine. Ive met them

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RHP User

14 years ago

We will make another profile setting out exactly what we are looking for and request on it, if you dont agree with anything we ask please do not respond. Flirts and messages without face photos we delete because we asked for messages and face photos. Now we are typically at deleted 35 contacts and 2-3 are left are acceptable after the profile is live for 7-10 days. Then its only one message just to confirm they are happy with everything and requesting their phone number. A phone call, confirming things for 5 mins. We then hook up in a day or two.....mission accomplished and put that profile back to invisible untill next time. We dont meet seperately not interested in cam, msn etc. But we get what we want on our terms. As a side note, After a run of meeting couples with issues, sometimes a 3 some is justified for decent group sex!

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totallygenuine

14 years ago

Hey Saturn Well i've been lucky enough to meet alot couples for MFM play of late ( last 8 months has been hectic ). I mainly get couples sending me flirts so i'll reply with a msg along with access to my PG, once pics (face pics are must) are exchanged usually i'll receive a txt from the couple for a meet or if couples are viewing me more than enough times (5 views in a row) il send them a flirt.Many of the couples ive met in the last year or so were 1st timmers for MFM play & most of the meets were organised by the males. TG.

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RHP User

14 years ago

We_are_no angels..I think you guys would be like me... I also get Mr and Mrs Jones especially if its a sub/dom thingo can imagine in the scheme of that scenario it could work..(as long as woman still had veto on play partner..). What Im interested in if its generally a couple with straight husband..who lines up drinks a night or two ahead of an actual play date.Or makes all the convos with the dude etc..and then in some circumstances dont even cam up or show their faces before meeting...I guess my thinking is..with couple play it can be different..meeting for drinks etc can be ice breaking measure..see if all couples click ya ya yaaa. In terms of a MFM play Id assume its a one off get down and jiggy with it , especially if you have verified they are right guy for you once you have seen them on cam had a chat with them etc..its all action stations..and not quite in Mikenshell vein but out the door they gooooo.. Your post is interesting too totallygenuine.Its not so much how initial contact is made but the nuts and bolts of the actual playmeet that I found in my friends story amusing.I just dont know what you gain out of a face to face meeting that you couldnt already surmise if you were to cam up in the comfort of your own home.Anyways thanks for everyones imput :) oh and Krissy...good luck with that!! whipsers....and details...dont forget to msg me details...or I'll have to hunt down the wabit and find out for myself!! xx

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RHP User

14 years ago

Lots of interesting replies here...shows how different couples have different views on whats right for them i guess. Obviously the more comfortable everyone is with the situation, the more fun is going to be had by all. personally if I was in a couple looking for a guy for MMF..i think I like Mr_MrsJones approach. I too would like the idea of my man making sure all is ok and being in charge of the whole situation knowing full well he would have my best interests at heart!!

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RogueGeek

14 years ago

Personally I prefer the idea of establishing a rapport with someone over once-off 'wham, bams'. For our first MMF we chatted online, then SMS, then phone call, then social meet, then play meet. In this instance I did most of the co-ordinating, but in other circumstances CL may take the lead. It's a procedure I plan to continue using. Cheers,MS(the female half) Quoting 'Saturn65' I guess my thinking is..with couple play it can be different..meeting for drinks etc can be ice breaking measure..see if all couples click ya ya yaaa. In terms of a MFM play Id assume its a one off get down and jiggy with it , especially if you have verified they are right guy for you once you have seen them on cam had a chat with them etc..its all action stations..and not quite in Mikenshell vein but out the door they gooooo..

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'Saturn65' We_are_no angels..I think you guys would be like me... I also 9get Mr and Mrs Jones especially if its a sub/dom thingo can imagine in the scheme of that scenario it could work..(as lon`g as woman still had veto on play partner..). What Im interested in if its generally a couple with straight husband..who lines up drinks a night or two ahead of an actual play date.Or makes all the convos with the dude etc..and then in some circumstances dont even cam up or show their faces before meeting...I guess my thinking is..with couple play it can be different..meeting for drinks etc can be ice breaking measure..see if all couples click ya ya yaaa. In terms of a MFM play Id assume its a one off get down and jiggy with it , especially if you have verified they are right guy for you once you have seen them on cam had a chat with them etc..its all action stations..and not quite in Mikenshell vein but out the door they gooooo.. well we haven't had them on camera before.. i guess we should (for safety) but if they get to our place and they're not what they describe then i'd have no problems telling them to sod off...and yes, i usually do the talking to them and stuff because mrsNA just doesnt go on the computer muchMrNA

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RHP User

14 years ago

I just can't believe that this ever happens in the real world...If a couple ever approached me for some MFM fun (yay!), I would buy a lottery ticket on the way over to their place!Nice forum topic spanner...Mr Choo Choo

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