Intentions

March 04 2021

Finding this section of my profile is completely ignored by everyone who messages me.

Is it just me or does that happen to everyone?

Honestly, it makes me feel like deleting my account.

Comments

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    as much as people do form friendships and relationships on here the main priority of this site is swinging and sex.
    You might be better off using Tinder or bumble and if you find there's too many people on there just wanting sex you could try one of the big dating sites like E harmony.
    I'm assuming that's the issue you're having or maybe too many people are contacting you asking to do arts and crafts.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    Yes. Happens to me too. My account has been hidden for ages cause I can’t deal with the constant flow of stupid and ignorant (not all men). I’m here for the forums for now

  • ppiffle3934

    ppiffle3934

    4 years ago

    I find that some guys don’t bother reading a profile, many just go on the photos. My profile is short but says what I want so not much to read but I’ve had messages that just say hi, others that tell me how much they like my pics, or lingerie. I too request a face pic if they want a reply, and ask they write something that will will pique my interest. I often restricted pics, which ,as a guest I can’t view anyway. (Clearly stated in my profile) .
    Often they will send out “blanket” messages to many women to see if they get replies.
    All I can say is as frustrating as it is, they weed themselves out as being potential lovers/play partners by their lack of effort. They are looking for the quick fix.
    I don’t have an answer, you clearly know what you want and hopefully there are some guys out there that will think about what you have written and see it for what it is and will match what you are looking for. Although some may see it as a list of demands.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    I have no idea why some people click the like button. After exchanging a couple of messages, I ask "So a guy that can't get an erection doesn't bother you?", which is clearly stated in my profile, ends the conversation.
    Why they don't read my profile, who knows. There are are far too many that ignore intentions, age range and other information in profiles. Don't give up Kitty, I'm sure there's someone out there for you that can read profiles.

  • RHP User

    RHP User

    4 years ago

    To be honest, I don’t read those intentions components of profiles...

    I look for that in the written...be it by explicit or implicit means.

    That said, if I like the written component I will revise back over the rest of the profile to look for my one reason to not message....

  • badboyhere

    badboyhere

    4 years ago

    To be honest I too have given consideration to deleting my account for the same reasons. Maybe we should create our own website and call it “intentions”

  • AnnieWhichway

    AnnieWhichway

    4 years ago

    Let's face it, if you dropped something in the street, most guys would think about banging you if you bent over at the hips in front of them.
    Just the way they are wired.
    The few that write a nice approach only do so because they know they have to. They have learnt....

  • gnikees

    gnikees

    4 years ago

    Its a combo thing. I read, but u r looking for singles. However, in a no win situation.😀