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Insert scream of frustration “here”!
September 05 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'm a complete narcissist - I know that you want to, desperately... But I'm also a considerate nice guy, so I understand that despite your overwhelming desire to 'catch up sometime', circumstances can get in the way, but don't let it get you down too much ;) (I like to look at the distance calculations, some of them are wayyyyyyy out)
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RHP User
15 years ago
calm down Tabby...i understand your frustration with men not reading your profile but some men do prefer to travel to you and dont mind doing it i dont mind travelling and have come across a few fella's that will message outside their state because they will gladly travel...so hun before you yell at them find out if they are willing to travel if they arent...yell away because they are being idiots hehe roxxy
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Almost_Ready
15 years ago
Your HOT! Doesn’t matter how far away you are or if you state quite clearly that you don’t want to catch up with a 95 year old with severe parkinson’s (Who by the way don’t need batteries..). your Hot & us hot people have to put up with some degree of pain. I too used to suffer from this problem, all these women throwing themselves at me, even Stalky threw himself at me.. That’s why I removed my photo ( I tried disfiguring myself, you know growing a beard, long unkept hair etc. but people saw through all that) Now I just hang around the forums & have no problems with people messaging & flirting with me.. Of course this is probably not what you wanted to hear so if you would like further help & support I will be on the Gold Coast in a few weeks maybe we could catch up & I can try to help you with our problem. Not sure if we would hit it off (A Tabby & an Oldog) but ya neva know. Cheers Oldog Better go buy a navman, is Hervey Bay left or right at Brissy? Back to the front lawn.
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RHP User
15 years ago
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAARGHHHHHH!!! Doesnt quite 'sound' like a scream but it is...and its a frustrated one. Thanks for the opportunity to let off some steam....may not be in direct relation to the 'issue' you raise but hey...dont sweat the small stuff yeah?
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RHP User
15 years ago
but it is worse when they send you a message and say "Hi, loved your profile, I think we can have fun together, I am in Melbourne tonight at and my number is . Yeah, sure, I'll just drop everything in my life for a guy who 9 out of 10 times doesn't have a pic or for a guy that I don't find appealing lol. It's the same with my profile...no bald men, no bi men, no men over 40 (I do like them younger) and non smokers! Most messages I get are from bald bi men that smoke and are around 50 lol...You have to laugh! Don't stress about it Taby it happens to us all!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
So does this mean you won't, like, be buying a ticket to come down and see me?
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RHP User
15 years ago
it seems to be the modus operandi of many here.As for reading the profile, for me its the most important thing to do, its the only thing that gives me some sort of insight into their personality.Along with that comes respect for the profile owners wishes.Luckily the RHP gods have provided us all with the block and delete buttons, to deal with those who lack any respect for our wishes, use em!Cheers Nev......happy hunting young lady!
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RHP User
15 years ago
You're a hot young girl! Wanna catch up and has the secks!?This is pretty much how ANY MALE AROUND OUR AGE will act. Common sense and a little forward thinking just doesnt happen. Sorry, but you might as well put something like "i have a penis" in your profile at the very start. This will, at least, get a guys attention. I would promptly close your profile and be done with it. But thats just me. Your might start getting messages from more people if you do that though... i still cant gauge how broad the spread of people are on here.
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RHP User
15 years ago
happens to me all the time too honey but I have learnt that many of them really do travel into your area for business etc and want to catchup AWAY from home. As for the 'drop everything and meet me at my motel room' aint going to happen guys - sorry...but I do understand your frustration honey. My only advice is to set up some fabulous template replies - I have 2 to deal with this one is the nasty bitch being let out to play (basically I call those who get this response an illeterate monkey) and the other is rather firmly but nicely worded thanks but you ned to learn to read (ok so iletarcy comes up a bit in my response but what are you going to do?) Just have fun hon...respond if you want to..and you could always hit the block button. kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
breath in tabby now breath out ,,,,,,,,,,,, ok do that 3 times and then sit quietly there dosent that feel better ????? take the view that if some male has taken his 5 seconds to send you a flirt then he must think you are desirable ??? yes ??? and if in doing so he has offended you he was just paying you a compliment there is sometimes nothing wrong with saying you are a fine looking lady and who knows he may be a very good bloke ???? on the other hand he may be just some wanker trying to get to see more of you for all the wrong reasons,in either case someone has taken the time to say Hi,,,,, Andy xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
We really need another flirt repsonse to the the flirt "I just wanted to say that I loved your profile". We always send a message saying thanks and then nine times out of ten they respond with some silly message even when they are on the other side of the country. The one this morning was an attached man - and we dont even have men on our profile. And then we got a friend request from him, when it clearly states on our profile that if we don't know you we won't bother adding you as a friend! Can people not read???? Shakes head in disbelief and is muttering under her breathe!!! Pusscat xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I seem to be getting some of your hand me downs, about 15 out of 40 odd guys guys that I've cammed with in the last 4 weeks have turned the subject to the.. taby001 rejected me and I don't know why can you ask her what I did wrong! Umm rite that's not a turn on guys. But yes I've had those requests expecting me to jump on the next flight over east and stay in a paid for hotel room. Think most of us will get these tall asks. Shae xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just totally blown away my your profile pic they leave what sense they have, and can't seem to think straight
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RHP User
15 years ago
Geesus taby are you still here ??? I have been away for 6 mths and I'm shocked that you are still here. One of the truly lovely, sexy sexy people on rhp and you have not been raced off !! Wow ! Slim pickings over there in Qld it seems. Yikes ! Dog.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dearest Taby, your distress is obvious. I know Queenslanders are the butt of many a joke relating to how backward they are however I assure you the tyranny of distance is of no consequence to a willing gentleman to be in the presence of the beauty and appeal you behold. I frequently travel 4 states per day for business and assure you, I could be in Brisbane within 3 hours any given day. These are the benefits of a 'PJ' and great staff. May I pose a challenge? Give me a day and time to meet you anywhere in Australia and let's see if I make it!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Taby, I am saddened to have to admit that many of us boys are easily overwhelmed by gorgeous pictures of gorgeous girls and we readily forget how to read or think or anything else. I would suggest that you accept it as a compliment that so many guys feel the desperate need to message you depsite their geographical inability to reach you and accept that the downside to receiving all these compliments is that you have to sift through them all to find the one you want! PS If i made any spelling mistakes in this message its probably because I was mesmorised by your pictures
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RHP User
15 years ago
These long range suitors are thinking with the little head. You may love the little head but it is not normally at the smarter end of the body.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You poor little girl getting all this attention, it must be so hard for you........We see single guys from time to time. The first day we changed our profile to say that we got 20 messages, 15 the next day and maybe a minimum of 6 a day now. We get the same thing, (messages and flirts from interstate) but we appreciate the interest and the time the people have taken to send a message. Some obviously haven't read our profile so we just point out we don't see smokers, bi guys etc.We are meeting a guy from Sydney for a coffee in a couple of weeks. If they want to travel to you and you are interested in them that's fantastic. I'm sure you have way more important things to worry about in your life, maybe you should concentrate on them and not stress over something so insignificant.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You could just chill and press the delete message button, happy in the knowledge that heaps of guys find you attractive, or at least want to have a night with you.......and you never know, you might even find one worth meeting up with?Oh and I may have once sent you a wink....for this I apologise and retract it in embarrassmentIf only people got as passionate and upset about the major issues humanity faces today......we might even live in utopia
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